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(I'm 13 and my sister is 15)
This morning, me and my sister were in our living room and we were arguing over some random thing and she threw a pillow at me. I said "Yeah, because a pillow hurts me" and she said "You were lucky it was a pillow and not something else. I could've slapped you." Then she said she wanted to kill me.
Will she try to kill me? She's done things to me in my sleep in the past before (That water cup prank, putting stuff on my face, etc.) so now I'm terrified that she'll try something. What should I do? (link)
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Dear to say about it that she want to kill you very difficult ,may be she want respect from you ,i think you do more argument with her so he was angry so she threw a pillow at you .you should care her and respect her .she is you sister and have blood relation with you so not do it .but i give advise you ,give respect and take respect,and follow your elders .give respect her and care her ,everything will be fine ,no need to terrified
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I know both my parents want the best of me but they're always so insulting and they're always comparing me to other children. I'm 20 years old and a college senior and for all I can remember, I've never heard my parents tell me they're proud of me. All my dad tells me is that I'm a disappointment. If not to my face, my parents still talk. My dad tell me I have a lazy mind with no motivation. Yet my dad says that I don't talk to him nor tell him what problems I'm facing. If they get mad at me over a specific situation, they never let it go. Every time I get another insulting lecture from my dad, the same situation is brought up. I got the courage once to tell him that he's so negative all the time to me but he turned it around to use it against me saying that because of my attitudes I am where I am today. I don't feel disappointed in myself personally but to them, I will always feel like one. Especially since I'm told straight up that I am a disappointment. I don't know what to do. How can I have a friendly father-daughter relationship if this is what he says about me? My family loves to talk about other people's families and their faults during their normal family conversations but yet they can't focus on their own. I'm not saying I'm completely right but I really don't feel the change has to start with me. I always function better in a positive environment with support from my loved ones and I can't even get that. I feel like I'm expected to be a perfect child just the way they see other people's children. Surely no family is perfect but I'm sure other parents don't tell their children half of what I'm told. Not only am I a disappointment, I have a bad attitude, bad facial expressions, and I'm spoon-fed too much. Once when my face was breaking out due to school and exam stress and just having acne issues, I was severely insulted by my mom saying that I must like to look that way since I obviously don't care about my face that that my mom would have been afraid to show her face in public if hers looked like mine with the acne. My biggest fear is that I would screw up badly and have them shut me out completely but it seems like everything I do will always cause an issue. I feel so much more comfortable in public when my dads not with me, like if my family decides to go to church and whatnot because he always scrutinizes everything. I sing regularly and he always has negative remarks. If I happen to sing decently to his standards, he won't say anything. Either that or he's just given up on the remarks of that day. I don't want to lose respect for my parents, especially my father. But I haven't ever felt close to him. He always thinks he understands everything and knows better than everyone else and it's just overwhelming to deal with. I don't know how much longer I can handle this. Please help me someone. Im literally crying my eyes out while writing this. Thank you. (link)
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Dear you are not alone to face that kind of problem ,every parents want to do best from his children ,i want to told you my story ,i done master in economics but could not found job till 1 year so my mother daily insulting me and compare me my uncles children and said me i am not able to do any work and said my cousin is well settled ,am not, to hearing this really i was very depressed but my father never compare me with any one he said no problem if i could not found any job .i suggest you do your natural work which you want if you want to go according your parents ,never success in your life,and do not care your father and mom .do which you like if you parrot and do as which is not according your habit you always make mistake as you done when your father that time with you you know if we done work any work with pressure we make always mistake so at the time of that situation do not mind ,your father with you and think nobody is not seeing me ,am alone here try to win their conffidence and tell him your problem when they understand you they treat you well, here no problem with you nothing wrongs with .your main problem is communication gap with you and your parents .try to make happiness and do yoga .best of luck dear.i hope you think better now
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parent to their child?
y wife and mother of my thirteen year old daughter is in jail for a year for forgery charges. I wonder what this means now for the relationship between her and her daughter. I guess most people would take their kid and keep as far away as possible but I am not sure. Obviously she did the wrong thing and should serve her punishment but it was out of character so I think she just got herself into a bad situation and make some poor decisions, She also never did anything bad at all before this. Also, her mother is showing regret and no defense at what she did and has admitted to being a bad influence to her daughter so that is why I am still willing to stick by her. She never did anything like this before and was Also she was not an absent parent or abusive or anything and I don't think she will tell her daughter to do the same things she did. But some might feel that just because she committed a crime she has no right to be involved with her child anymore. I bet even my daughter might be my daughter might be thinking "mom went to jail she has no right to tell me what to do". (link)
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i am not a legal advisor but try to give you some advise here .frist crime and right of child is different your wife has right to met and talk her daughter.any court not prevent to talk with her child so take advise from legal adviser.
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