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My parents got divorced and i'v been living with my mom, brother, and step-dad for over a year. I feel really bad for my dad because he lives alone and seems lonley. I think he should get a pet too bt he works and say`s he wouldn`t be able to take care of it and stuff. I think i want to live with my dad, but if i do i know my mom will cry and get alll upset.. :/ what should i do or say?! Plez help
i sorta have the same situation. granted this was set up by the state, but what i did was i talked to my dad every weekend, adn i saw him during the summer (cuz we lived in different states) and then i alternated christmases and thanksgivings with him. but if he lives closer, then i think you should try to visit him at least every other week or something, maybe call him every night to say goodnight. and about the whole pet thing, if he works more than a nine to five job, then it wouldn't be a good thing, but if not, as long as he took him out before he left and as soon as he got home, it would be fine, and also leave food in the cage for it. yeah.....i'd love to help more if you need it, email me at metalkat86@hotmail.com. hope i helped,
Kat
I haven't seen my mother for 9 years, I'm 14. She's been on methampthetamines my entire life. I just got word today of where she is, I talked to her about 3 years ago. I need to go see her so that I can get over the fact that she will never be my mom. I just need some advice on what to say to her, and I really want to tell her to stop doing methampthetamines. I know that I won't be able to help her, but I just need some advice on how to deal with the fact that I will never have her as my mom, and that I will never be able to help her. I know it's hard to answer, but please, if anyone can help me. The pressure is too much, I'm seeing her this weekend. Please help me. I have no one else to turn to.
don't give us so easily. hey, maybe seeing what a nice young lady you've grown into could make her want to change. i honestly have never had to deal with anyone on meth, but it might work. i hope that she will be clean for the moment when she talks to you. go ahead and tell her that you want her to stop doing drugs, you'd like to know what it's like to have her as a mother. appeal to her heart, however diluted by drugs it may be. it may help, it may not. update me after you see her, my address is metalkat86@hotmail.com. i hope i helped, and i hope that you have as good a time as you can with her. later,
Kat