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My nephew KC is marrying Kendra and they have 1 child together who is 2 years old. This will be the 3rd date set for marriage. KC is not himself when she is around. He is extremely quiet and uninvolved with the family when she is around. But, when she leaves he smiles and laughs and has alot of fun. Kendra uses their daughter to get what she wants. She has told KC that he will not get to see their daughter when things are not going well between them. She has threatened to leave and he will never see her again. She has said the same thing to KC's mother and even went to their house and took all of their granddaughters photos from their home. She has called his cousins and told them that she hates our entire family. Their wedding is in a few weeks and we are not sure if it will happen but now she has contacted the flower girl's mother and told her that she is not needed in the wedding because of budget issues. She also sent an email to the best man's (KC's only brother) girlfriend and told her she is not invited to the wedding and that if anyone does not support their marriage then they should not be there. Please help with any advice. (link)
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Kendra is a manipulator, I believe she is very mean to him when no one's around this is why he is quiet and sad when she is around because he doesn't know at what moment will she latch out at him in front of the family ; and therefore when Kendra is not around he feels free ; her presence makes him feel like he is in captivity .
If I had an opportunity to give KC a few words I would advice him not to marry her under this kind of pressure, and if he's looking for a sign to know if he should or shouldn't marry her what she is putting him through is his sign also once she takes on his name she's gonna really throw her weight around on him and his family .
I also would advice KC to continue being good to his children and cross every " T " and dot every " I" concerning your children even from a legal perspective just in case she tries to pull a number on him and take the child or children away which will be virtually impossible from a legal perspective if he stays a step a head of her manipulation ,
Another sign for KC not to marry Kendra under this kind of pressure, if she is disrespectful and picks fight with his family this is a huge Red Flag, if he marry her she will turn him against his family .
My final advice we have to forgive Kendra for her bad personality, however KC do not have to marry her in order to forgive her ..
God Bless You !
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okay well for a long time now (about 4-5 months) i have been telling my parents and my grandmother that i need like a counselor or something i used to have one before and my mom made me stop going because she didnt like the idea that someone was telling her she was wrong for some things. so what do i do if my parents wont help me and my grandmother wont either?
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Do you believe in the power of prayer ? if you do I advice you to take some quiet time and pray ; tell God how you feel, you can talk to him like a friend; and you do not have to use big words; pour out your heart and ask him to reveal his love for you; and after you do this watch how better you feel because during this process he is healing your heart through your tears and he is working to heal the broken places in your life .
God Bless You
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my dad left my mom about 3 years ago.. I don't hang out with him or anything.. and when I see my friends with their dads having a good time..I always get jealous and wished i had a dad to have a good time with..I also watch shows and get jealous to..what can I do to not get jealous of people cause they have a dad and I don't? It ain't no way I'm spending time with my father.. I don't like him.. (link)
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The first thing you need to do is forgive your father no matter what has happen,this is the key to your emotional healing as I review you question & comments it sounds like this . . .
someone having an overwhelming desire for chocolate cake but have an equal overwhelming refusal to bake or purchase one and then become jealous of others because they have chocolate cake at home .
You may be wondering how do I forgive my father, you can start by asking God to forgive you for the unforgiveness in your heart toward you dad, and then work toward building a relationship with him and you can do this by writing him a letter ; and if he has a birthday coming up send him a birthday card etc.
in my closing you must forgive your father so you can be healed .
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