Hi Guys! I'm 15/f. I'm pretty experianced, in a lot of aspects of life. If you have questions about guys, sex, school, relationships, family, babysitting, cooking or cleaning.. Ask me! Always happy to help! :)
Gender: Female
Location: Kitchener, ON
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 10, 2010
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when i was 15, i had the babybug. it was almost aching, i wanted to have a baby so bad. it lasted for about 4 months and then disappeared for a while. now i'm 17 and its back, but its much worse. i have a boyfriend and we're active. we use protection sometimes, but most of the time we don't. everytime we dont, i have this instant spark of hope that maybe this might be the time that i finally get pregnant. i know, i'm young. i'm almost in my senior year of highschool and i know it'd completely ruin my life if i had a kid now, but i don't care at all. i'd be a great mother. i'm at the point right now where i don't even want to live anymore unless i have something to live for, and in this case, that something would be a baby. i keep having urges to trick my boyfriend into thinking i'm on the pill, but i love him too much to do that to him. he doesnt want a kid.
why am i like this? any why so young? my friends are all scared for me, my boyfriend, too. i'm starting to worry a little, myself. (link)
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I completely understand where you're coming from.. Trust me. I've been through, and am still fighting the baby bug.
The way I get through it, is just realizing how much better of a mother I could be if I can give my child the things that I was never able to have. The most important thing in a child's life is to have a loving family, but it's also important to be able to finacally and mentally support your child(ren). Think about how much you've changed and grown up since you were 15.. Now think about how much you'll grow up by age 20-25. That's how much more you'll know that you can teach your child(ren).
Hope I helped!
iloveyousomuchxo!
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