Hey P Pul! So... I have always helped my friends at my school with their "issues" and so I might be able to help u. I really hope I give u what ur looking 4. My middle school has a lot of drama so there's nothing that I don't know about. I know problems with things such as: boy/girl problems like what girls want and what u should do to get sum1 interested in u, problems with admitting ur gay or bi, fights with others, and other things. I can also help u with issues with ur family. (I have issues with my family so I know how it feels to b confused of things with them)Well, I hope I can help u. Bye!
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Age: 13
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My dad threatens to ground me for EVERYTHING these days..... Getting a C, buying a thong, eating 'lots' of junk food, buying food for myself, yelling at him, sleeping in too late, waking up too early.. You name it, my dad threatens to ground me for it! I just got off-grounded for getting a C- in English & buying a bag of candy for a "party" that me & my friends had at lunch last friday. I HATE HIM SO MUCH!!!!!!!! What am I supposed to do?? (link)
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My step dad is just like your dad. I get grounded for one week when I don't keep the sink completely clean and I get no phone for a week when I don't close the shower curtain closed after I take a shower. Just little things make him ground me for a week and even more when I talk back. I can't really say anything to you to make him stop but I can tell u that it's normal, you're not the only person out there living with a control and clean freak. Just try to do the best u can with not talking back and try doing good in school and tell him and say a C is the best I can do. Tell him how u feel without going off on him.(i know it might be hard) Well, that's what i did and now he knows how i feel, and he is even less harsh on me now.
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I have an.. well interesting sister. She is 4 years older than I am and I am nearly 18. My sister and I both live at home still. My sister acts as if her life is the most important life on the face of the earth, and she treats everyone around her like a lesser being. Sometimes I just want to physically hurt her because words just never get through to her, that is, if you can words out at all. She never lets people speak, especially when she is angry. She blames her problems on everyone else in my family, especially my mother and I'm starting to believe my sister is really breaking my moms heart to pieces. Her actions and words hurt all of my immediate family and it is so extremely peaceful and quiet when she is at work.
The thing that bothers me the most is that she always claims that her life is so much worse than everyone else's, no matter what they are enduring, she refuses to offer support, instead she will explain how much more difficult it is to be her. I can't stand being around her because she always insults me, she claims that she is just being honest when clearly - she is just being rude.
I had hoped she would be moving out soon but she enrolled in school again and so she will be staying at home for at least another 2 years. Its madness and I simply can't be around her.
When I have tried to explain how I feel and how badly she treats us she refuses to let me finish and assumes I am attacking her and she responds with attacks of her own. She always tells us how horrible it is to have a family like ours and how no one cares about her and how she wishes she could leave.
I have tried to tolerate her disgusting attitude and no one outside my family can understand my grief over this issue because my sister changes her entire self when she is around anyone other than our immediate family - she is suddenly nice. Therefore, no one else understands.
My question to advicenators is this - is there anything that I can say to my sister that will make her realize how bad she is hurting our family or do we all need to simply tough it out for the next few years until she moves out on her own?
However, even if we do tolerate her, I don't ever want to simply sever ties with my own sister - I want her to care about us and love us - I want her to be a friend to me. Not someone that hates us and supposedly makes her life horrible. (link)
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If I were in your shoes I would write her a letter expressing all og my feelings and emotions. Tell her how u feel, tell her that your scared of her and she makes you upset everyday and your whole family loves her but she is out of control most of the time . . . or all of the time. Write what's in your heart, and don't make her feel like she's the powerful one and that she owns all of her family because she doesn't! Tell her that u want a sister who could go to the mall with and shop with and u want a sister who u could go to for advice, and tell her u want a sister who u could have fun with and actually talk to without her interrupting and being a b**ch. Well, I wish u the best and I hope everything will work out allright. If u have AIM then my screen name is Hookedup2u, i would like to see how everything goes.
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lately i cant wait to grow up. like i cant wait to get my period, i cant wait to become a teenager, i cant wait to go to colledge, i cant wait to get married, i cant wait to have kids, i cant wait to drive, like all of that stuff! does this mean anything?
*lauve645* (link)
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You probably just have watched a lot of t.v. and saw things about teenagers and driving and all that other stuff. Well, I'm a teenager and I have my period, trust me, enjoy not having ur period while u can b cuz i was just like u until the day I got it and i was not happy. I got big cramps and I was always afraid of leaking blood all over my butt and onto my clothes and it made me cranky and moody and it's not a good feeling when u feel it coming out. Not to sound grose tho. Being a teenager doesnt really feel any different from being 12 or 11 or 10, u just feel more responsible thats all, but u still act like a kid and do lots of stupid things. When u turn 13 ur parents do let u do more stuff, thats the only cool part. Well, bye.
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