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Hey- i'm Emily. I love my friends and most ask for my help with various situations... so I guess i'm good at giving advice lol. I am a freshman, i love the band, and i am somewhat outgoing. Ask me anything and i'll do my best to help. :)

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Ok so if my brother is always being stupid like always in my stuff he wont leave me alone he's younger than me and how or what do i do too get him to stop please help me he's driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It’s normal to have problems with younger siblings. So whenever conflict with your sibling arises, don’t think of it as something that can only end in victory or defeat. Look for a compromise instead. Meet in the middle so you can both live, without misery, under the same roof.

Most importantly choose a quiet moment to discuss any issues you have with them, because when you're calm in your approach then at least you can expect the same in their response. So avoid raising all of your issues in the middle of a heated argument. Then, once you're both communicating, try to identify the problems in your relationship and see if there's a way you can both avoid or overcome them.

If you’ve exhausted all efforts to get along, it might be time to call the 'rents’ in and have a family meeting to work out a solution. And don’t hesitate to get your parents involved if there is any physical violence going on.

I give total and complete credit to http://www.nzgirl.co.nz/articles/4080

Hope she helped! :) ems

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my dad and my mom are brokin up, and my dad and step mom fight all the time and i can't take it i hate her (step mom) she is so mean if my sister says something to me like "SHUT UP" and i say it back she gose tells her mom and the my stepmom tells my mom and i get in trouble and i want to spend more time at my moms now because of her but i love my dad and i want to be with him but not her! please help me!

Talk to your Dad. Since he loves you try explaining things to him and your situation. When you see your Mom explain that you say it back to your sister andshe should get in trouble as equally as you do.
If all else fails and I know you don't want to but go and tell your Stepmom that its not fair you also get in trouble when your sis does the same thing.
Ta- Ems

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Is it the stupidest thing to want a baby when u had a miscarriage earlier on in the year, when earlier in your life u had bad things going on with your dad but knowing your mum would give you full support, having the bestest boy friend in the world u’ve been with him for a year and just wanting something to fill that hole in your heart you just want something more to love.. at the age of nearly 15..?

You are only a teen and have all of the options on your hands. If you had a baby, that baby would be on your mind all the time. My mother has told me stories of her friends that had babies when they were your age. They couldnt do things like go with friends because they had to take care of baby. I know, I know, your mom can babysit, but remember this is going to be your baby, not hers.
Good luck though!

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My parents are oconsidered the perfect couple at times. recently i was talkign to my uncle and he let it slip that both my parents have been married before! how could they not tell me? what do i do? hurry with a reply b/c i am TOTALLY freaking out!

Wow! i dont blame you for being freaked! unfortunately they werent truthful with you. you need to talk to them. Just tell em that your realtive let the bomb drop on accident. dont get mad or yell just tell them. Then ask if its true. then all you can do is listen.
but what you relative let slip doesnt change your parents love for e/o or you.
good luck!
*emster*

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hi.. i have a twin sister and were idenicle.. this brings us close together and far apart.. she is 14 minutes older than me adn because of that she think sshe can boss me aroundd.. like she will be right next to the fridge and ask me to go and get her a soda or something like that and if i dont she gets really mad.. the otherday she threw a hairbrush at my head and i had a huge lump! dose anyone have any adivce dfor me on how to stop this from going on?

i rate well! =] ***((haily))***

You have two options. You can tell your an adult like your parents and ask them to help OR you can handle it yourself.
Try bossing er around so she can see what it feels like. If she says no she won't then tell her how you feel. It's only 14 minutes for cryin out loud!
If she doesnt listen to you when you talk wait until she asks you to do sumtin. Say no and if she gets mad just ignore her. Walk out of the room. If she follows you turn and tell her she is acting like a two year old (she is)

lol hope i helped!
*emster*

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