Okay, Im 16 And A Junior In High School, And My Boyfriend is 18, And A Freshmen In College, We have been together for awhile Now, and we love eachother, but theres one problem. I Won't let my parents meet him. Theres nothing wrong with him, he isn't a bad person, hes really a GREAT person, but my parents dont believe in interacial relationships, and of course he is a different race than me. My parents aren't racist, they just dont believe in interacial relationships, they dont care if im friends with him, they jus dont want me being with him. They want me to end the relationship with himm, but i DONT want to, I love him, and he loves me. I have tried talking to my parents many tims about him, and that doesnt get me ANYWHERE, they are always like you know how i feel about this, and you need to end it with him.. but i cant.. I LOVE HIM.. soo help me
.. i have been in the SAME thing with interacial dating .. its hard on parents , oh yea its hard .. you parents may [ never ] approve of yalls relationship , but you also cant make them happy for the rest of your life . dont end it just because your parnets dont approve . if you love him then thats ALL THAT MATTERS
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So heres my problem...
my parents are really uptight, and a little closed minded when it comes to my future. They still have this picture perfect mental image of me graduating with honors, and getting a bussiness degree, and starting a normal life. Problem is, I dont want that. I have bigger plans, and a passion for music so great its almost unreal. All i want to do with my life is something meaningful, and inspiring to others like me. Sure it may sound like a childish dream, i want to be a rockstar kind of thing, but hey who ever said we cant dream big right?
My question is, how do I get them to realize its not going to be how they picture it. every time i try to confront them about it, they brush it off as if to say "you think thats what you want to do" but i dont think, i know. thats what they dont seem to understand, becuase they never had a passion like I have.
Any help would be much appreciated.
hmm .. tell your parents that YOU have a dream that your gonna fofill .. sure their your parents & they want whats [ best ] for you , but shouldnt you do sumthin that you enjoy and will have fun with it ? tell your parents that you have to decide your future , they can help .. but not make ... just like that sayin [ you can lead a horse to water but cant make it drink ]
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im rilly confused my mom hits me but its kind of my falt so it just dosnt seem like cild abuse to me but my best friend was over one day and saw what was going on he ses i need to tell but i rilly rilly dont want to . what should i do????
plz tell me what i should do
thanx
13/f
wow .. sounds like things are pretty tuff huh ?
well even if you [ say ] its your fault , doesnt mean she has to hit you ... no one deserves to be hit no matter what they do to make them mad .. if i were you id sit my mom down & tell how bad emotionally & physically shhe hurts you when she does that & i hope for the best
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