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Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 16
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My parents and my bro dont get along at all. My parents have disagreed with my bros choices for years. My mom and dad dont want nething to do with him really. They are tired of him expecially mom. But my bro still wants to have a relationship with me (sister and bro). Should i stick with my parents or form a relationship with him.
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Well I don't know the choices he makes that upset your parents, but I think if your brother really loves you still, you should give him a chance. You don't want to shut him out from all family because one day he is going to need you. If you all shut him out, then he would have no where to go. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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Alright my dog died 2 years ago...I'm still not over it and since then I havn't really liked dogs much and my family gets a dog so my little sister will have a dog to grow up with which is cool in all...but like I'm not ready and I don't want to get all attached to it and have it die again. My parents don't understand that at all and think I'm "crazy" b/c I don't pay attention to the dog and they keep yelling at me for it...what do I do? (link)
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Tell them exactly what you just told us. Let them know that it bothers you and that you aren't crazy. They will understand where you are coming from if you tell them where you are coming from. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
Love, Blonde
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everyone is calling my mom a slut an stuff just cause a few weekz ago at the feast my mom got really drunk (like always) an she wuz actin slutty an stuff (flirtin wit everyone an stuff) she was wearing a really hoochie outfit to an she was like yelling at me cause i was embarrest i tryed to talk to my mom but she kept yellilng at me an sayin "YOUR EMBRARRSING ME FOR CRYING!!!" mean while she was the reason i was crying! i really dont know how to handle my mom! she gets drunk to often! an i think she may be doing pot cause i walk in her room an like it smells like pot or somthing (its so not cigs!)
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You need to sit down with her when she is sober and explain how it is hurting you. If she doesn't believe she does get drunk and out of control, maybe have friends and family tell her as well. If she still doesn't believe you guys, get it on tape! Play it back and then when it is done, have a long talk. Help your mother in anyway she can because she can end up hurting herself. Good luck and I hope I helped!
Love, Blonde
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my sister keeps makin me look stupid in front of her mates. she treats me like a slave. we shat=re a room and she neva lets me in. wot shall i do she is 16 (link)
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My little sister was like this. Now we don't share a room, but she always made me look stupid and always got me in trouble. To fix this problem(my sister), I simply told my parents all that she was doing. For a little bit they talked to her and she changed, but that was temporarily. Then they started believing her and not me. So, when she was having a moment, I wipped out a video camera. I played back all her actions and she got caught. Now hopefully just explaining maturly what is going on will work great, but if not, use a camera of some sort. Also, if it's possible, try to get your own room. If you can't, talk to your parents! Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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my parents treat me like a baby. im not aloud to go out. my dad wont let me go to town or nething. wot can i do to change their mind plz help me (link)
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Well I am not sure how old you are, but I am going to assume you are over the age of 13. You have to explain to your parents, without using an attitude, that you want some more freedoms now that you are older. Prove to them that you are responsible enough to go out. Do things that need done before they ask you, or at least before they have to ask you for the 100th time(I know how that ends up!). But mainly talk to them like a mature adult and they will respect you for coming to them without wining. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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Im a 15yr old girl and when I was younger my brother used to pull down my trousers and hold my bum , it seems a bit silly really but it used to terrify me, he did it a few times and when i tried to run away he grabbed me. The more i think about it the more wierd it is, can you tell me if this is sexual abuse or not and what to do about it please, thanks! (link)
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I think that since he was 13, he was old enough to know better, but then again, teenage boys are weird (no offence to young guys reading this). they do stuff because they think they are cute and funny without considering others feelings. If he ever tries it again, talk to him. If he still does it, get help from a parent.
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Ok heres the story,
I lived with my dad untill i was 121/2 .... But know i live with my mom and i am 15 .... when i lived with my dad he used to give me a suit case and tell me to move in with my mom when he was drunk or mad and now my mom does it only she doesnt give me a suit case cause i have one in my room .... When i first moved in with her she used to allways takl to me and i could tell her any thing but over time we drifted and thats normal i know for going into teens and stuff but know she loves my step dad more then she loves me .... i know she does becuase if my step dad is off some where else for work then she cant stand not talking to him at least 3 times a day even if hes only gone for 2 days and when i go to visit my dad for a weekend or for a couple of weeks she doesnt call me or anything and when i come home shes like i missed you but then goes back to talking to her husband errrr
AND THEN my brother wont even talk tod me becuase him and my dad got into a fight and he doesnt want anything to do with someone who is related to my father ....... and my family (like aunts etc..) on my dads side hates me becuase i "left" my dad and moved to my moms
Sry for sounding like a complaining person but i wanted to know why does family treat me like this? it makes me really depressed (link)
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I think it is real crap that you are treated this way. I am friends with a guy whos dad left him and his mom when she was pregnant with him. Now he lives with his mom and grandmother, who is an alcoholic. The grandmother causes a lot of pain by insuting him in ways no one should ever be insulted. My friend could not take it anymore. He tried to kill himself. It was serious and sad. The next day, his mother put him in a mental hospital center, as well as the grandmother. They both got help and are doing better. Now obviously I don't think you should go to a mental hospital, but you might want to see a cousilor or speak with a therepist or just talk to someone with a degree in that area. I hope everything works out!
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