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ok i hate my brothers best friend joe. i fight more with his friend then i do with my brother. joe knows i hate him i make it clear to him and he says im a emo bitch. IM NOT EMO. i...do cut and wear black daily. but im like half and half happy or sad. am i emo? i say im not. although im not sure. and hes always over! once we went bowling and i had 3 friends and my brother had him. joe says were all emo. well 2 of my friends like attacked him when he said it and i walked up. i fight with him atleast 3 times as much as with my own brother and joes so nice to parents. my brother and him are 15 and my friends are all 13 14 or 15 im 14 soon im 13 soon 14. my friends are all probly emo or goth or punk or skaters i guess since stereo types are everywhere now. and one of my guy friends is 15 hes ''emo'' acts just like me is always up to something and burns and bands. they got ina big fight. joes a pussy though. and i could even beat hime up. but im in enough trouble as it is hehe. what else can i do? im not even emotional at all.

Okay.You may or may not be emo.If you wear black constantly and cut..then that's what your more than likely going to be called.But don't get offended by it,be proud ^_^ It'll make this fag Joe even more mad if you show him it doesn't bother you.Because he's just going to have to face it that your not going to change for him.And maybe when he's around just try to stay away from him as much as possible..by maybe going to a friend's house or going to the mall.Or you can just try to convince your brother not to hang out with him.Or to tell him to go somewhere else when he has to hang out with him.And that makes me happy your friend's attacked him ^_^ Hehe.
Hope I helped hun

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My parents are very protective of me going out... as on dates

well recently I met a guy and we are friends. (nothing more than that... we both agreed) ok??? so we are just friends.

Well he asked me if I wanted to go to a movie, and I said yes... but only as friends. So we agreed that we would go to the movies only as friends


Well how do I tell my parents that I wanna go to the movies with one of my guy friends??

If I tell them it's a guy, they will automatically think i'm going out with him and they will say no

I guess I'm just scared because I know that if I say "can I go to the movies with him, and we both agreed it was only as friends and nothing more than that"

well then they would probably let me go once they got to know him better

I could say that but i'm just so scared to tell my parents that!

HELP!!

AHH!!
HELP!!
Lol okay.
Well my parents are the EXACT same way.
So maybe just tell them that you just want to go to the movies.
If they say with who just say his name and be like "We're only friends!!!" Like make it sound veryyy convincing.
Lol.
It will more than likely work.
Your lucky you even get to go to the movies alone with a friend.
I don't =/
So your lucky!
Hope I helped!

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