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The only computer in my house is in my room. My dad is the only one who used it today and in a minimized window is "Literotica." I flipped back through the pages and he's reading titles in the Incest section under the searches "love," "lust," and "daddy."
I am his only daughter. I'm 17. He's 60.
I'm really disturbed. I've seen it on the history before but I've figured, everyone has strange fetishes. But incest?! This is really grossing me out. I feel like I have to hide my body now around him. I dress like most teenage girls-- short shorts, low cut tops-- and now I just want to cover up and die.
Should I bring it up with my mom? She's the only other one living in the house. I'm too embarrassed to tell my boyfriend. This is just so weird. My dad's seriously not a creep or a perv, this is just so unexpected.
Thanks for any advice =/
He's probably only typing in incest because those are the only videos where 60 year old guys get to fuck 16 year old girls. I'm sure its nothing to worry about and hes not thinking about you specifically. Every old guy dreams of having a young hot girl and like I said thats normally what incest is. Not like you type in hot young chick and the guy she's fucking is practically bald and wrinkly? You see? Don't bring it up with your mom cuz she might tell your dad and then it will be RLY akward especially if its nothing cuz then he might try to "talk" to you about it and like explain everything... And I'd just die if my dad did that. If you don't feel comfortable dressing like that just cover up until you go out and wear those shorts underneath sweats that you can just take off until the whole thing blows over. Good luck! Hope I helped :/
Hi everyone,
im so frustrated and sad. I can't stand my mom anymore. she treats me like a little girl. Like i cant take care of myself. My mom doesnt trust me. she never wants to let me go out. I have a boyfriend. She thinks im just going to go out and have sex. Im so sick and tired of it. Im not stupid I know what the concequences would be. Its all because my sister got pregnat when she was 17. Im 16. How can i make her understant. I cant talk to her anymore. All we do is fight. PLEASE HELP. I TRIED TALKING TO HER BUT DIDNT WORK =(
My mom is exactly the same. My brother got so depressed from the internet and now my mom won't trsut me. Unfortunetaly there's nothing you can do but wiat till you 17 and prove her wrong! Tell her your not your sister and if she doesn't trust you then she'll just have to worry because your not breaking up with your boyfriend just because she thinks your not sensible enough to learn from other peoples mistakes! I hope I helped I understand where your coming from. =)
14/F
My dad met his best friend in the army, his best friend got married and a couple years later so did my dad. They had me and my dads best friend and his wife became my god parents. I was very close to my god father. He was more like my second dad.
When my god father and god mother got divirced, he just left. My dad tried contacting him so many times, but he made it clear that he didn't want anything to do with us anymore. And my father finally let him be.
It's been 6 years since. I miss him so much, and I thought about contacting him or writing to him. My father said I would just mess up what he had with his new family, and remind him of something he would rather forget. Re-open old wounds. I don't want to hurt him, but I want closure.
I want to know if he ever thinks of me or if he still loves me. How could he just leave me like that. Am I being selfish in wanting that? Should I just leave him be and accept that he's gone. Or should I risk hurting him or making problems for his family by writing to him?
This one is a decision I can only GUIDE you in. If you two were so close then why did he leave. Maybe he just didn't want to think about all those happy times he can't have anymore. I SUGGEST you write a short anonymous letter giving him a pretty good clue as to who you are. Asking him why he left and explaining that it hurt. Don't push him and fill him up with guilt because most likely he won't write back. Tell him how you feel and how you miss him. Ask him those long awaited questions. Keep the letter as short as possible and then if he doesn't write back let him be. Let go of those memories and conjure up some new ones.=( It's always hard when someone just sort of vanishes. Im just suggesting you send this letter because if you don't you might grow up with wounds too that were never sealed up properly. BUT again I can't make the decision for you. Hope I helped.^^