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Hello out there! My name's Kim AKA PurplePudgyPenguin or PPP. I'm happily 16! I'm young but I'm smart (at least my friends claim, I dont think so though, lol, I'm such a nerd) Well, if you want some advice, despite how young I am, I'll be more than happy to give it to you. So just send me an email, or write on my advice column. Thank you all! Stay positive and live life to its fullest. Byez!!!

Luvs,
~PPP~

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My parenst argue alot...and ya my brother and I are afraid they're gonna get a divorce...they may not say it but it seems so much like it...please help!
Age: 12
Gender: Female

Hello there! I'm PurplePudgyPenguin and I'll be your advice-giver this fine Sunday evening. Now, down to buisness (Where's my coffee? Eh... nevermind...). Ok, first of all honey, I'm so sorry to tell you this but sometimes these things happen and you can't control them. If your parents get a divorce it's their decision and you can't help but go along with it. I know how much that hurts to hear, believe me I know how this whole thing works, but you gotta accept the fact that your parents might not be getting together as well as they used to when they fell in love. Now, I have a few suggestions for you, but I'm not sure if they'll work or not. First off, you could sit down and talk with your parents about it. Tell them how much it's hurting and effecting you and your brother. Tell them you're scared and ask them to try to work it out for their children's sake. That's all I can tell you. I'm so sorry, but they may not listen, but there's always a chance that they might will too. You'll have to just push your luck and try it. My other suggestion is do some investigating. Find out the topics of their fights and try to resolve it in some way for your parents to agree.
I'm so so sorry about your parents fighting, and I do hope I helped. If not, there are plenty of other advice-givers that would be glad to help you out. You take care, and remember, whatever happens your parents are both always gonna love you. Just keep that in mind, it'll help you get through it.

Luvs,
~PPP~

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I bet just by looking at this you can tell who I am. anyways, i'm having problems at home with my younger sister. it seems like every other day we're arguing about every simple little thing. to be blunt, it's making me mad and me being mad means me being depressed. i have tried other methods of trying to cope with it but to no avail. is there any other methods that you know of? thanks

-clears throat and begins- HI! I'm PurplePudgyPenguin and I'll be your advice-giver for the evening! Now, down to buisness. Ok it seems like you and your sister have a lot of tensed up emotions with each other. You two seem to be very... edgy most of the time. Think about a dry forest. Rain hasn't fallen for at least a month and it's down south so the sun is always beating on it and what-not. Now, it appears as if your emotions are like a lightning storm. One strike and the forest just lights up. Ok, I bet you're saying, "It's a forest not me and my sister!" well, it kind of is like you and your sister. Your relationship is much like that forest. It can grow with proper care, plenty of rain, and a bunch of love and hope from others. When anger and frustration breaks out, the lightning strikes it and the trees burn. Animals loose their homes, and in a sense, your relationship with your sister dies away. Dont let this happen. I know it's irritating that your sister may get on your nerves a lot and I dont blame you for wanting to lash back and argue (believe me, it's sibling nature). I'd suggest, just doing what she wants for awhile. Let her think she won the fight. Let her just be at ease and when you catch her in a decent mood, tell her straight out you two need to find a common ground to stand on. If she refuses and puts up a fight, or ends up arguing with you again, tell your parents that you honestly tried to speak to her about the issue but she refused. Tell them your problem, sit them down and have them hear you out. I cant promise you that they're going to say, "Ok! We'll take care of it!" i'd like to tell you that, it'd make my life so much easier if I could. Unfortunately, we can't control people (especially our parents) and sometimes, if they cant help, you'll just have to try to find that ground. Tell your sister she needs to give in a bit (she sounds pretty stubborn to me, lol, don't tell her I said that). When your sister makes you so irritated, or you just cant take it anymore, go out of the house and take a nice long walk, or you could always talk to someone about it. It'll work out in the end. (I know I'm going to regret saying this but... -sigh-) One day, you and your sister will be friends. I know, I know! I'm crazy for repeating my parents but I'm telling you, someday, it'll happen. I'm starting to think I'm insane right now so if you think so, it's ok. ^^
Well, I hope I helped. If not, there are plenty of other advice-givers that can do far more than I can on here. I hope I made your life easier in some way. Take care!

Luvs,
~PPP~

P.S. JP right? ^_^ HIIIIIIII!!!!!!!

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