Hi! Ask me questions, and I will do everything I can to answer them. Okay a little about myself, well I was born in Bosnia (Europe, usually when I tell someone they always ask were that is). I moved to Houston, Texas when I was 2 because of a war. I'm an American, I got my citizen ship in the 3rd grade. I'm in high school. Well any way ask me any questions and I WILL answer them.
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I am constantly insulted by my sister. Before, she would make fun of me, which I would just shrug off, but lately, its been getting to a point where I just feel like there is no point to anything. I cant even cry when she says things to me, I just shut down, and let her go on and on.
Like tonight, I walked into the living room, and she began to swear at me. She said that I am a psycho, and that she cannot wait for me to leave for school (college in the fall) because I am worthless. I have not even said anything to her at all at this point, I really don't know what I did.
What I really dont understand is how she will talk to me one night insultingly, and then the next day she wants me to go shopping with her.
I really dont understand it-if anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it
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When she says something don't shut down or be quiet, say something back. Most people when they see something is bothering you they will keep doing that, because your showing that your hurt, angry, sad, etc. Stand up for yourself.
Hope I helped!
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Ok.. well my mom works for social services. and she got this job when i was in third grade (i'm currentlly in 8th) and ever since then shes been SO overprotective. She doesn't like for me to do things without her knowing every single detail. She's takin the lock off my bedroom door. so that she can walk in at any given moment just to see what i'm doing. And it's getting worse every day. Even when i was in 3rd grade i didn't have a 'bed time' but now she's making me go to bed at 9 oclock. it's getting really bad. i'm getting ready to be in high school and i still have a bedtime. i feel like such a child because i never get to do anything. And i've tried talking to her. And i've told her that i think she is to protective. Yet nothing ever changes. What should i do?
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Tell your mom that you are growing up and that she needs to trust you. She won't always be there for you and you need to learn how to take care of your self. Tell her that she can and should trust you.
Hope I helped!
P.S. your mom loves and wants you to be safe.
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