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I am a teen who has been through tough break ups all the way to being threatened about my life. I just love helping erebody else. Its one thing if an adult trys to understand a teen. But it is another thing if a teen trys to understand the Teen.
(us teens lay it down like it is, you feel me?)

You got anything on yo mind let it out, even if its embarassing, cause I have people asking the same type of Whateva, u kno what I'm sayin?

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my parents found out i had friends over and that we drank. she threatened me to tell who was here, so i told her, after about a half an hour. now she won't ever let me see those friends again. i am going off to college in a week so it's not the end of the world, but still i feel bad that i told which friends were here. i don't know what to do. should i tell these friends? they are not my friends from school...they are from work. i feel like i betrayed them (my mom won't call their parents, she said she wouldn't) but i still feel bad & don't know how to explain to these girls i can't ever see them again. also how do i earn my parents trust back?

you should tell em, explain how your mother is on things, and try to tell them because of the drinks she she's them that way instead of this way, yea she said that, but since you are going to college, you're 18 right so shouldn't you be able to choose who you hangout with? Does your mother accept it? you need to try talking to your mother on an adult to adult level with respect to show maturity and gain....some respect back. you made a mistake, that you should learn from let her know that. I feel the same with my mother sometimes, its like we don't see eye to eye, but i'll catch her when she's in a good mood and free my mind. cause its better out then in. and to cool your self out...... get this song and listen to it

2Pac- Dear Mama

it's the ultimate mama song that makes you just think about the good times

peace, homegirl

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I'm just really scared right now. My dad has
just got finished with hitting me over and
over again and he took a plastic hanger and
just keep whacking me with it on my toes. And
that kills! I kept trying to run away but I
was too in shock to move out of his reach and
my sister doesn't think anything of it because
he does it a lot so she thinks that's what your
supposed to do. After watching my dad hit me,
my sister frequently elbows me or punches me in
the stomach if we play hide and seek and she loses.
My parents buy my sister everything and play games
with her and treat her well but they treat me
like I'm a piece of crap. They call me "a piece
of shit" and "a waste of space." And they threatened
to send me to a shrink and never let me see my
family again. My relatives gossip to everyone if
I tell them my dad hit me and they don't believe
me so I can't tell them. I will NEVER tell my
friends because even though I love them dearly,
I couldn't trust them with that. Also, I hate my
guidance counselor and I just can't tell him. After
my dad hit me I had my hand on the phone and I
was just about to dial 911 but I got scared and
stopped. I did it once before but my parents
denied everything. Once I was on vacation and
my parents were verbally abusing me and this
lady heard and called the police but my parents
denied everything. Sometimes I give my parents
a reason to hit me like if we are in a fight
but I don't know I'm really scared to come out
of my room right now. I need all the advice I
can get and if you believe I should call a number
and tell them what's going on who do I call?
I want a professional. But if they take me away
from the parents, where will I live? I really
don't want to live with strangers in an
orphanage! Would they put me at a friend's
or relatives house? I'm just really scared and
I don't really want to leave my parents. But they
can be abusive and I don't know how much longer
I can put up with it! Help!!!!!


Sorry this is soo long.

You should first print out this entire page as good prove, and send it to your guidance counselor, and then to all your good relatives. Don't send it to any child support agencies they will take you away 4rm your parents and in an orphange you go, then I know its hard for you but you need to tel your friends and make them promise not to tell, and last pray, becuase even god knows nobody deserves what you have to put through even woth your sister the person whop should be in trouble wit you is also putting you down. I am punished by my parentsin some form but not abused. If you know that they are beating for no reason at all you need to tell someone.

go to: http://tyrashow.warnerbros.com/

and post your story for professional help, Tyra Banks is a loving,caring celebrity, who knows professionals. I'll pray for you. And I wish u the best. How old are you by the way?

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ok so i have a housekeeper, but i always feel so sorry for her..well one because she is a housekeeper, a single mother with 2 kids whose husband left her, and she has a lot of different jobs. and because we are a really annoying family..like i feel bad for her because i'm always having her take me for a smoothie or something after school (but i always pay her back) and i'm picky about dinnner,etc... but i'm really nice to her. she's really nice and i dont know i just feel so bad for her..and she can't speak english that well either so we sometimes have communication problems. but my mom is sometimes sooo mean to her like she would start like yelling at her being like "why didnt you spend 4 hours this week cleaning the bathrooms?! this is our promise when you started working for us!? how are you going to make this up!" and omggg its horrible and the housekeepers like on the verge of tears and says that she'll work an extra day next week,but my moms like "nooo that wont make up for this week waht are you going to do!?" and she just keeps pushing it ! you don't even understand how mean my mom is she was like yelling at her .. ughh idk i wish my mom would stop being so mean i was like "mom ill clean the bathrooms!" because i couldnt stand it anymore and my mom got mad at me. i seriously hate my mom i don't understand why she has to be so mean and pushy to everyone..yeah i know she pays the housekeeper but htat doens't give her a right to be so rude? helppp..?

You did the right thing telling off your mother but I guess to her the tone was wrong. You have heart caring for the housekeeper. Your mother on the otherhand... I don't know. To be kind everytime the housekeeper comes to your house, and mom's not around you should offer to do some work with her, just to prove to her that she is appreciated. Then apologize(if your mother won't) for your mother's rudeness towards her. We have a housekeeper, too. But my mom never spends time yelling at her. She just simply tell her that we're getting a new one. Offering to clean the bathrooms and toilets is a start. I wish you good luck

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my uncle did something that i thought i could never forgive him for and well i said i hated him and a while back he tried to say hello and i ignored him, now i just found out he has possible bone cancer and well i feel so bad, like i dont want to hate him but i cant forget what he's done. i feel like the worst person in the world because he's still the man i grew up with inside and i still kinda love him but i dunno, all i know is i dont want him to die. am i a terrible person

No, you are no where near terrible the fact that you pity your uncle after anger over whatever he has done to you, proves you as a wonderful person. I'm not going to force you to tell me what had happened between u and him but I would like you to take time to think if he is worth making peace with, despite what he's done to u. Think about why u were so angry with him and talk to him. That;s the only way the guilt will go away, by forgiving him so you don't have to opress yourself evry step of the way. I'll pray for your uncle if you want me too. Take care

PS. oh yea still kinda love him is a good thing you got heart gurl, you really do

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