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Gender: Female
Age: 14
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Member Since: January 3, 2006
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i am 15 and female and i have been going out with this guy and i really like him ALOT and i love him to death and he says he loves me too, i like the the whole kissing thing but he wants me to use my tounge and i am a bit scared, [i havent ever kissed like that before] Phe was my 1st kiss ever} and i think we might be going to fast because he wants to do more but i am not ready, but every1 else is losing it, but i know im not gonna do something just because every1 else is its just he wants to, but i kinda do too but i just dont know if i am ready......

plz HELP!!! i will rate high for any answer...

siqned,
love sick puppy (link)
If you don't tell him, you will end up doing something you are not ready for. If you don't tell him, how will he know how you feel. Also, if you don't tell him there is no trust in your relationship which is hard to deal with later on when you two get into arguements. I believe you should tell him what is on your mind and if he loves you he will understand and try to space the things you do out so he is not rushing.



why does everyone look at a teen having a baby like the end of the world for them. i mean i know its hard but I've seen tons of people work through it,and live successful lives. so its a challenge. but worse can happen. i mean if the person can be a good monther and somehow support herself and her child isnt that enough? (link)
That has always been a question that bothered me. When a girl is youn (under 21) she is not mature and smart enough to know what is good for her let alone baby. I am not saying that she does not or will not love her baby, I am saying she has to figure out what decisions are right for her and work on that before rushing into making her childs life miserable.


15, almost 16, female.
Little brother is 12 almost13.

we fight all the time. I try so hard to be nice. and most of the time I am nice. I am always sharing, and even if I getsomething new, I always share it, and I am tollerent of our different taste in music. He likes heavy rap and metal, and those are the two I despise. Although I enjoy love songs, they are not my favorite, he despises them tho.

I want to be a good big sister. I want him to come to me when he has a girlfriend, or when he has girl trouble, or something good to tell me. I want him to be able to come to me. Now when he needs to be driven to a friends house or somewhere with a friend, he despises when I drive, ( I have my permit) but, I know I need the practice so I can get my liscense, and My parents, of course, are with me, and they are okay with me driving my brother and his friends. But I will be getting my liscence in 5months, and I want him to want me to drive him. I want him to look up to me, and like it when I drive him or pick him up from places. I do try to set a good example too!!

Any tips? Is he just going through a stage? How can I be more tollerent when he is bad??

thank you so much in advance!!

-Kelsey-
k2204 (link)
My sister and I don't get along either. It's normal. He is at the age where he thinks he can't trust anyone, but there is a way to show him that him not being able to trust anyone is not true. You need to show him that he can trust you and come to you for help as well as his parents/guardians. Brothers are hard to get along with because they are messy and always doing the wrong thing but showing him if he makes a wrong choice without anyones help will affect his life in a bad way. For exaple if his friends are forcing him to smoke, he should come up to you and ask you what to do. I would try taking him out somewhere and having some fun with him and talking with him in private. He'll be glad to have a big sister who is always there for him. I call one of my close friends ( he is 12) my brother and it is hard to get throught to him because he feels like his pride and madhood is being squshed when he can't solve something on his own. Try not to pry into your brother's life too much and when he is mad give him his space. Then later talk to him in private and ask if there is anything you can do to help.





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