I am a middle schooler and i know what most of peoples promblems are about and i deffinatly want to help you over come yer promblems..thats what i signed up to do! lol i love helping people and all my friends take my advice seriously and it always helps them..i hope that you will give me yer promblem and let me help you! x0x Becca
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Age: 13
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my mom and 2 brothers and 1 moved in with my grandma and aunt. they treat us like crap! my mom is so depressed i try to stop the fight i do but then 4 sec. laster my grandma will open her mouth again and its non stop fighting and i stick up 4 my mom and shes is always upset and it bothers me .. my life my mom and my 2 brothers life r not right here and were tryin our best to move but we cant yet cuz we dont have enough money.. but my mom is soo upset here.. im tried of all the fighting but i cant stop it my grandma thinks she does nothin worng and its all my mom and that also makes my mom upset.. what should i do to help? what should my mom do? and what can we do to stop the fighting? p/s we tell them to leave our stuff alone but they dont and thet ruein our clothes in the laundry cu the ammonia and we say were gonna wash our clothes but they wash ours neway... what can i do??
Ashley
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ohh im sryy that yer life is like this..first what you can do is yell at your grandma if she treats you like crap and shit like that stand up fer yourself ik that its hard but you need to..u have been nice now you need help! be like when there fighting * STOP it right now cnt u guys see that it makes our lifes misserable when you guys fight!! its like living on hell..if you guys dnt stop im gonna seriously like kill myself --dnt really its juss to make them stop-- i love all of you and juss want us to live in peace and not fight!!! * and juss go on and on untill they get the picture!! What you can do about your stuff is you can hide your dirty clothes so that they wnt touch them and then wash them yourself..make sure that you pick up all your stuff so that they cnt get there hands on it!! And to move out of the house faster you can get a job like babysitting and stuff..if you make about a hundered dollars a summer you can really be helping your mom out! and if she wnt accept the money slip it into her purse er sumthing!!!
Hope it helps
x0x becca
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well... ever since i was lets say... about 7 i wanted a lil sis. but now that my aunt is trying to give us coustudy of my 6 or 7 yr old cousin b/c she is being trialed and can possibly convicted of child abuse. she knows our house hold is better than hers but i don't want a lil bratty girl getting into my buisness. i wouldn't mind if she was like 2 or 3 but then she will get into my buisness. what do i do? She will have to know everything that is going on and i will have to spend the rest of my spare time playing with her! i already hate my older bro! HELP!! (link)
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Ok ik exacly how you feel because i have two little brothers. Sometimes they can be cool and other times they can be well..a pain in the butt! Having a little sister is going to be hard because she will prombley want to be like you-ik my friends sisters do-so times it will get annoying but thats when you put your foot down and go i have had enough get out or you wnt be cool! lol something like that..just talk to your mom would be the best advice because she will understand what you are going through..and she will be able to make the child listen to her..thats what i do with my brothers when they become too annnoying! Hope it helps..if not write back!-x0x becca
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muh dad manages the money around the house... my mom used to... my dad i think hez saving ^ 4 sumthin he wantz cuz he does stuff like that. ive told my mom already she thinks the same thing. shez not gunna do anything soon cuz i dont think she wants to handle the money n pay the bills cuz itz to tiring for her. im not getting the stuff i need like new clothes, shoes etc. n even food were like ruffing it on food. this week we went over like a dollar for our money cuz we only have a certain amount according to my dad. wut do i do to solve this? itz oviously a big problem. he acts like the money my mom n he makes is all his n he desides if he wants to give her money to go shopping or sumthing. hope u guys understand n u can help me. (link)
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This is hard because all parents you should be able to talk to about these promblems. The best possible advice i can give you is that you might want to get a job like babysitting or working as a waitress ect. find something that you want to do. Then maybe you can buy the things you want and still try to juice yer dad fer some money. And if he doesnt want to give it to you you have the money you worked for. But make sure that you talk to your mom about this first away from your dad so that he wont get angry. Your mom seems to be understanding so im sure that she will allow you too. Im sorry if i wasnt a great help but that was what i would do! -x0x Rebecca
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