Im not here to tell everyone my life story. Im here to give advice to people who ask for it. I will only give them the truth and what they need to hear. Im not dishonest and i dont critize people. But i would love to give you advice. =)
Yours truley,
Katina*
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E-mail: Kikyo293@yahoo.com
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Location: Rochester
Age: 15
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Hey. My mom doesn't know it yet, but I finally have a boyfriend. We don't really talk about this kind of stuff but I really would like her to know. I just don't know how to tell her. Do you guys have any ideas on how to tell her? Thanks so much. (link)
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Just sit your mom down and talk to her. Like girl talk. And just bring it up..i know it might seem kinda scary but it might work.
Katina*
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oK..My mom and dad just split up about 3 months ago and like they decided to just get a divorce after the year ((im pretty sure)) so they are dating other ppl..and like this guy that my mom is dating..we have all thought they should date forever..but anywho..and so they went on there first date tonight and like i REALLY like this guy cuz hes really nice to my my sis and my MOM and like I feel like I'm not being right to my dad b/c i like this guy so much but i REALLY love my dad and so and I being not fair or right to my dad..HIGH rates for help!!!
PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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Well your not wrong for liking your moms new boyfriend. Its a natural feeling. You really love your dad and nothing is going to change that. Dont feel guilty. Your parents decided to date other people so thats what they are doing. I know how you are feeling because im going through the same thing but just remember that nothing is going to change the way you feel about your dad.
Katina*
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sorry this is so long but... is it wrong not to love your father, now hold on don't blow a gasket i'll explain everything. ya see my dad went to jail when i was really young and and i never got to know him. and my grandperents keep wanting me to go clear across the state to visit him. and i don't wanna spend 5 days in a hot car just to see someone i dont even know for 2 hours. but i feel so ashamed, i feel so self centered, i feel so selfish. i feel like i owe it to him to go. please i want your oupion am i the scum of the earth, or am i ok
please, dont yell at me. i already feel bad enough as it it. (link)
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Its not that you dont love your father. Its just that you probly feel hurt that he really hasnt been there for you in the past. Yea you might be mad that he hasnt tried to get in touch with you but maybe he wants to see his child that he never had the chance to see grow up. He probly feels guilty too. But dont feel self-centered. Its a normal feeling. And your not a scum of the earth. You have the right to feel the way you do. And hey, maybe if you go and visit him maybe you can learn more about him. Learn a little bit more of his childhood..his past. Just follow your heart.
Katina*
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my dad can be so mean sometimes he yells really loud and when he gets mad he throws and breaks stuff and it really scares me. i feel bad because i dont know if i love him or not and i feel like everything is my fault!! i dont know what to do please help! (link)
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You love your father..you may dislike what he does or does to you but its not your fault. Dont blame yourself. Talk to him about it and see why he gets upset..talking is always the answer..
Katina*
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