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Hey, my name is Jackie and I'm glad to help you with anything that you need help with. I've delt with a lot of different and difficult things in my life during the past few years and sure enough can give you advice to help you through these tough times too. I have three little brothers and am the oldest in my family (believe me, it isn't always easy). In my free time I swim all year round, swim for my school, act (muscial theater),take voice lessons, and hang out with my friends. I don't care about my rating---all that matters is that my advice helped you.
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I realized that I am being VERY mentaly abused by my parents...But I am a very happy person so I TRY to forget about it.I don't really love my parents...I don't like them thats for sure.But I'm afraid if I tell someone then I'll be put in like foster care or something because I DO NOT want to move again...(been in 9 schools and 15+ houses) Plus I have really good friends and a PERFECT boyfriend and I am willing to take my parents abuse to stay with him.My question is what can I say to my parents to get them to stop...I REALLY need help :( Please don't tell me to tell someone I don't want to .
As much as you don't want to tell someone... I think you should. Chances are that they won't take you away... just make you fo to family conseling sessions or something along those lines. If you don't want to do that then try talking to them. Ask them why they treat you this way and why they put you down. Tell them how they are making you feel. Being abused is a hard thing to deal with, but by telling someone or talking to your parents, you might be able to deal with it or overcome it. Hope I helped
Okay, well, my mom always thinks I'm angry and depressed about things and she is always wondering why, but she doesn't know that it's HER fault that I'm always like that! She's just so annoying and she nags me over everything, even over stuff I don't have to do!
But, I'm not even all that depressed and angry, it's only sometimes when my sister or my mom is being so annoying! I'm always happy, but she doesnt think so. Why does my mom nag me so much?
Parents don't realize sometimes that what they do or say makes you upset. Your mom nags you because she thinks it's the right thing to do. By asking you if you're depressed and angry it shows that she cares about you and how you feel. I would ask her if she could be a little easier on you because to you it's frustrating and annoying. If you tell her how you feel and she gets mad, at least you told her. It's better to let out your anger then keep it in. Keeping it in will make it worse. She wants an answer, so I'd tell her how you feel about her nagging you. Hope I helped!