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I met a wonderful widow with 3 children, 12, 14 & 16. Her husband died from cancer a year ago. We've been dating for almost 9 months. I asked her to marry me after 5 months, she said yes. I found out that I have cancer 1 month after. It appears that this cancer I have is not a very treatable kind. I can prolong my life several yrs., but not much longer, unless I am the one in a million miracle. We have not told the children. It was very hard on them watching there father take 2 yrs to pass. I don't want to hurt them again. She said we will hide it until it's obvious. I'm not sure if I want to put 3 kids into another tragic relationship so soon to their past one. I've grown to love them. Should I break it off with her?, should I break it off with them?, I don't want to be the cause of tempering these wonderful people any further than they are. (link)
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I'm very sorry for everything that's going on right now. But the answer is no you shouldn't break things off with them, that would just be hurting them more. Think about it, they already lost their father, and if you just go and leave without telling them anything, it's going to break their hearts. I think you should just be honest and tell them, they'll respect you for that a lot. That way you can have everyone supporting you, and not be all alone. I hope a miracle happens, and I wish you and all of your family well. And remember don't leave them, that'll be telling them you don't care. They already lost one father, I bet they don't want to loose another. I wish you guys the best:)
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I am having such a difficult time in my life right now. Mainly I am just sick of having to deal with the problems I have with my mom. And I feel like all men wants to do to me in sexualize me. Right now it really pisses me off that my mom acts like she wants to be distant from me and when she knows I am too upset she say things like I love you when the way she acts is far from that. I keep remembering what happened to us last year during new years eve that she does not care about me anymore at all . And wanted to leave me for ever . But then I am not working right now nor was I then. Cause the main reason is that I am a foreigner and I just came into this country 12 years ago. And that makes it hard for me to find employment since the only person that could fix my citizenship status to get a job is my mom. So I feel that its the only reason that I am still with her. And this feeling disgust me it just seems like all this feeling is coming from a negative place. Every time a subject comes up about my family I have to really watch what I have to say. I feel like this issue to me is so serious and I dont know where else to find help in las vegas, nv . I told her I go online for problems like this and she does not approve of it. (link)
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Hi, we think you just need to take a deep breath and breathe. In all honesty, we know how it feels when eveything seems to be in pieces, but you just got to keep moving. We know it seems as if it's the end of the world, but it's not. All of, humans, tend to make things worser than it is. The problem can be so small, but we make it so big. So to fix this before it gets even worser, is to sit down and have a honest talk with your mom, no lies, but just honesty. And your mom loves you a lot even though she may not act like it, and this is because she's growing older. She may feel as if her whole life has past by so fast, and she just may feel like a failure even in life, or it might be just stress or deprssion. And jobs have been very hard to find lately, so just keep on trying, and talk to your mom about fixing your citizenship status. Just keep on moving, and rember everyday is a new start, a new beginning...
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