My name is Felicia Lynn Bullock!(: I am a Freshman in high school and i am in color guard in my school's marching band... I love to text people and give people advice. I have a mother and a step dad who are my world. I have a little brother and an older brother, and a little sister! If you ever need adive... You know where to find me(:
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My friend treats her parents badly. She wants me to help her, but I don't know how. She treats them badly because of the things they do. Please help!
P.S. She doesn't hit them (link)
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Okay, well tell her to stay clam when they yell at her or something tell her that maybe they were right and if they weren't just grit your teeth and listen..
Me and my parent's don't get along that great either... but i try to listen and accept the fact that maybe they are right in some cases.
Tell her that maybe they can all sit down together and watch a movie or eat a nice meal, and just get some tension outta the way..
I hope this helps,
If you ever need anything.. You know where to find me(:
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Hey. 13/F. Just the other day my grandma came in the room with out knocking. And I was busy putting on a pad coz I was on my period. And I don't know wat to do ? My door was close. And I don't know how to tell my mom plz help (link)
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Well i use to have that problem when i was like 12. This is how i told my parent's. At supper one night i was like, "Okay, guys I am 12 and ya'll just walk in my room like its yours. You guys have to have more respect for me than that. I am growing up and I need MORE privacy in MY room..." and from that day on before anyone comes in my room they knock and WAIT for an answer..
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I am a sixteen-year old girl and I really hate my family. I usually have good days at school, but once I hit the steps of my home, all my happiness washes away. What's the problem exactly? Well, a lot of things, but mostly my mother. Let's start with her.
My mother and I both have a very violent past. My father abandoned us both when I was ten, and he would often abuse her and he cheated on her a few times. We used to be very close when I was a kid, but not much anymore. She is very nit-picky, bitchy, and forceful. She always complains that no one appreciates her, that no one cares about her, that no one ever helps her. I'll name a few examples. Yesterday, it was my six month anniversary with my boyfriend. It was my special day and I was really excited. I put on my favorite jeans, a nice shirt, and boots. She came in and said those jeans were ugly, and I said, "Well, I like these jeans." She got pissed and started crying about how no one loves her and I simply said I wanted to choose my own outfit. She threw a fit and slammed the door and the rest of the day, I couldn't even enjoy my day because she made me feel like shit. She always does that. She makes me feel so ugly and negative all the time by telling me I'm selfish and I am disrespectful. Also, I risk my education to watch her kids. I always skip school to help her out, and the next day she gets pissed at everyone because no one helps. I think it is unfair. I bust my ass for her. I take up all my after school time cleaning the house for her and she doesn't ever notice. She threatens me all the time. Once, I woke up at 5 a.m. and found cat poop on my sheets. I put the sheets aside and went back to bed with new sheets. The next morning, I told my mom, and she told me that I am a scumbag and I should've washed my sheets right away. At 5 a.m.? I told her I needed my sleep and I didn't have time for that, and I put them aside to wash them in the morning. She started freaking out when I told her she didn't need to yell at me for that, she pulled my by my hair into the bedroom and told me she would bash my head through the wall and smash my phone onto the floor if I said another thing. I was really upset that day and I called my boyfriend and we left.
I hate it here. I am constantly yelled at, bitched at, never appreciated, and a victim to abuse and negativity. I don't have a very good self-confidence because my mother always brings me down. She wants me to be what she wants, not what I want. She complains I'm lazy and I don't try hard enough. She never appreciates what I do for her. I can't ever be in a tired mood or not in the mood to talk to anyone. She expects me to be in a good mood all the time. When she found out I had sex for the first time, she told me I was a slut. She took me to therapy and a doctor because she thought I was sleeping around with everyone. She does her best to restrict me from sex all the time. I can't even talk to her in a mature way about it. Because my boyfriend and I are always alone, we do have sex, but responsibly. If I'm responsible about it, why does it matter if I'm doing it or not?
My family fights a lot. My stepdad is very uncaring and often acts like a douchebag. He is selfish and never respects my mother. This house is haunted with constant yelling and screaming. I stopped it once, because there was slamming of glass and crying and pounding and my little brother was crying. I talked to my parents the next day and we agreed to fix it. That's just it. Nothing got fixed. We all agreed to have a nice talk and we did, and nothing ever changed. My mom never goes through with anything.
How much more of this do I have to take? I have posted advice on this before, but most of them involve calling child support and such. I don't want to do that. I don't want my sister and brother being taken away as well. I've wanted to get out of here for a long time. My boyfriend told me my mother is an asshole and she doesn't have the right to treat me this way. He doesn't like my parents because they always make me cry. I've always wanted to move in with him even if we're both young. I don't want to live here anymore, but I doubt I could get the change I want, because I have no job or license. Please help. I need guidance. I don't deserve any of this. I'm a good kid.. (link)
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I'm 15 and i go though the same things with my family. I don't exactly hate them, but i get along with them either. My mom remarried after my dad left her, my brother, and myself. My step dad is rude and easy to like. Me and my mom don't ever get along. What usually helps me is when i just go to my room and just text people. When they yell at me, i usually block them out and just pretend to listen. I constantly have to remind myself that one day it will be better for me! Read a Bible... You may not be into all that kinda stuff, but i promise you would be suprise how God can work in your life. You don't have to go to church EVERY Sunday and pray EVERY second of the day, but when your feeling alone Jesus will be your rock(:
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