I am a Sixteen year old girl who enjoys helping others and sharing my experience and knowledge. I'm here to help anyone and everyone and anyone is welcome to add me on msn or email me. I have been through relationship problems, Family problems (I have recently moved out of home.) I have had many friendship problems and have helped a lot of people through self harm and suicidal thoughts. My career goal is to be either a graphic designer, Visual Art teacher or councellor.
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Ok so... my cousin moved to his adds apartment in san fransico from brazil last winter (his mom and sister still live in brazil). On the 15th his mom got a him a ticket to go back brazil because his dad said he didnt want him anymore (yeah i knowits sad) howeverl i NEED to see him before he leaves because otherwise i will porbably never see him again (his mom wont lwt him back to the states) and i live in michigan. I asked my parents if i coudld go this weekend and they said no. I cant take no as an asnwer, how can i get there without my parents? pleasee give me rational answers this is really important to me (link)
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I can see where your coming from, It seems your obviously close with your cousin and your worried about not seeing him, however i'm sure their will be chances in the future, there must be some reason why your parents said no whether it be a money factor or something else there is obviously a reason and it wouldn't be a good idea to go behind there back plus i don't think there is any alternative way of getting there without your parents permission. Once your old enough theres nothing saying you can't go visit him. You will be able to contact him through letter, emails and telephone calls. Time is running out but you could take another shot at talking to your parents about it and expressing why you really want to go.
Good Luck xx
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My sister found out i have a boyfriend and she's 13 im 15 and im scared she'll tell my parents i just want a sister i can trust and talk to but as much as i try to she just back fires i want her to tell me when she has a boyfriend but she always thinks im gonna tell my parents which i won't i want her to trust me as much as i try to talk to her she won't listen and now she knows i havea boyfriend i can't even look at her anymore
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Its great that you want to be there for your sister ad that you want to have a close relationship, I admire you for that. If she wont listen to you perhaps writing her a letter expressing everything will make her realise a few things and maybe a close bond will be formed. At the age of 15 it should be fine to have a boyfriend of course your parents may be a little bit funny because they will realise there little girl is growing up.
Good luck xx
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17/f I have a new boyfriend who is really lovely and nice and sweet and is a really decent guy. The thing is, he's not exactly "parent-approval" material, and I just know for a fact my parents would hate him. I don't normally keep the fact I have boyfriends secret from parents, but this time it feels different. For a start, I broke up with my ex pretty soon before I started dating this guy, and my parents LOVED my ex and were quite sad to see us split up! This was still only about 2 months ago.
Also, I've been going to his and seeing him a lot recently. I collapsed about two weeks ago at his house (nothing to do with him!) and lied at my parents about where it happened and said it was at a friend's, and if I told them now they'd definitely put two and two together, and also realise that I haven't actually just been going to a friend's to do homework all the time recently. They would be so angry that I lied!
I know that I have got myself into this situation but what should I do? I've got a feeling I'm gonna be with this guy for a while and I don't want to lie to them forever, and also he has expressed wanting to come to my house etc. But should I tell them that I have been lying to them all ths time? And how do I tell them? Thank you. xxx (link)
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Its a hard situation your in, I've been through lying about my boyfriend and it puts a lot of strain on your relationship. I think your better off telling them just in case you get caught out somehow. Also I think you should tell them because of the collapsing episode what would happen if something worse happened to you at his place etc. If you can't build up the confidence to tell them to their face maybe write them a letter and explain why you've lied and express how much you'd value their support in your relationship. With your boyfriend wanting to meet your parents thats a good thing and shows he's genuine.
Good Luck xx
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