Hey everyone, I have been giving advice on this site since I was 16 and have always been honest with the askee. I just feel that there is no point in lying as I would hate to be lied too and thats why I always tell it like it is. I also feel that when people lie - it causes more hurt than good. Anyone after honest advice - feel free to send me a question!!
Also if you EVER need additional advice just send me an email and I will get back to you :)
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Website: debateists space E-mail: debateist@outlook.com Gender: Female Location: Glasgow Occupation: Writer Age: 24 Member Since: December 20, 2006 Answers: 142 Last Update: May 7, 2014 Visitors: 11735
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Im 15/f if it helps....
when i was little my Dad moved far away and iv always had problems dealing with it but lately its been worse I havent been sleeping at all, all i ever wanna do is hide but this morning i signed onto Yahoo and there was a message from him that he will be having another kid in the spring, i dont know how to deal with it, he also says he might only have 6 years to left and i dont think i can handle this on my own i need help. (link)
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Hey there hunny okay ive bn through sumthing similar and if im being honest speaking to my dad after five years apart was at first nerve racking but then after the first couple times it was gr8. The thing thats probably keepin you awake is the fact that you r worried about hurting your mum if you c him again. I think what you need to do is speak it over with your mum and then you will feel better about this. The thing about the kid dnt look at it as a bad thing look at it as you will hav a new brother or sister. My dad had a baby wen I wasnt talking to him I missed out on those years with my siblings and it hurt like hell. Dont make the same mistake. But then again everyone is different if you dont think your ready then dont force yourself. Take it slowly even meet up once and see how it feels and after that u will know how you feel.
Hope I helped and that it all works out!!
Good Luck!!
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okay this isnt a specific dream but every once in a while i have a dream of one of my family members die. so far my brother and his bestfriend (which is like a bother to me) have died along with my sister and my dad, but my mom and other brother and my grandma havent died yet. does anybody know what this means.is dream because i hate them but i dont know that i do. (link)
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when you dream of someone dying iy=t is supposed to mean a long life for them so i wouldnt worry!!
hope i helped and i hope the dreams get less scary!!
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Okay; so i'm Bi, ive known this for a whille now.
i finally told my mom about it. she didn't really say much. but i've ALWAYS hung out w/ Lesbians & Bisexuals. but now she thinks it's a big deal [now that she knows i like girls too].
what the hell.
what should i do/say to her? (link)
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All parents that find this out for the first time are gonna be shocked and that is understandable but I think that the main thing that shes scared of is not what its gonna do to her rep or how shes seen but shes worried about how this is gonna effect you so what you need to do is sit her down and explain that you no how worried she is and let her no your still the same person and that you still love her.
Soz i I havent helped much but hope I did if only a little.
Good luk
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my daughter is 13 is she to young to get caught by me kiss with a guy but hes her best friend. shes never had a boyfriend. also she cusses and flips people off and just talks with her friends about sex humping and rapeing just perverted. shes just turned 13 shes shy and gothic which i hate it what should i do for her and all that stuff should she be doing. (link)
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I think that the question on the right called "my friends (id die for)my life my mom" I think that it would be huge help.
good luk with your daughter I hope all works out.
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i need a song that describes my grandpa dying. somethign to say goodbye or i'll miss you or something. (link)
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There are a few westlife songs that you could try their seasons in the sun album or their greatest hits album hav a lot of songs like what youre looking for
hope ive helped and sorry for youre loss
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ok well here's the thing........ i really dont eat a lot.... i just don't have a stomach that can take in so much food.... however, my mom thinks that i dont eat so that i can loose weight so she makes me eat more, and now she's convinced that i'm doing this to loose wait because i got into this fight with this girl the other day and she called me fat.... but pleasee its not like i took it seriously, because i weigh 105 pounds, and i called her a horse-head, so w/e. but now she thinks i'm doing it to loose weight and she's wants to keep on feeding me and feeding me....she's even like checking my lunch when i come home to make sure i eat, what to do????? i just really don't eat a lot, and i told her, but she just doesn't get it
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try explaining to her that you love her and understand why shes doing this even if you dont.
If this doesnt work then try doing ither way for a little while and eventually shell forget all about the fat comment.
Sorry this isnt very good advice but your mum will feel that she is only doing whats right for her daughter
good luk
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