i consider my self to be a good person ,well i try to be and i will answer your questions the best i can ,i have had a lot of good and bad experiances in my life and hopfully will be able to put them to good use.most things i have had to cope with on my own so if i can help others .then i will ,so pop your questions to me and i will answer them as quick as pos, every think from teenage questions ,to relationship s, i had a teenage pregnancy myself ,been married twice,been through mental illness, i have fms but i keep pushing another day out of my self .i have a teenage son of 16 and a teenage daughter of 13 i also have a little girl of 3,i have a good partner of 6 yrs even though weve have
our ups and downs were still together,
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long story: i was 16 when i got pregnant i couldnt tell parents cos they were very strict so i hid it for 7 months i was thinking about adopting him but when he was born i couldnt do it he was so lovely and my parents loved him too, when they asked me about the fether i said i didnt want him to know as he wasnt `the father figure`so i brought him up on my own for 6 years then i met someone else who i had 2 more children with he loves my son they get on well, but my son is 10 now and started asking questions like` whos my real father` ive said john but he looks baffled as if hes put 2 and 2 together cos he hasnt been with us 4 10 years, i just dont know what to say for the best, does he deserve the truth but i dont want him to have any relationship with his real father after all this time, help (link)
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i think you should tell him the truth ,you cant hide it for ever,he has the right to know put yourself in his shoes ,how would you feel ,later on in life finding out somthink like that.my husband didnt know who his dad was till he was 21 and it screwed him up big time that his mum kept somthink like that from him,so please sit down with him and talk to him ,good luck
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my auntie died 2 years ago of cancer and i grew to know just as she was dieing and every time i see things of hers or i photo of her i start crying because i reminds me of the day she died i saw her dead on the bed i did not know she died and i walked into the room and everyone else was there please help how can i get the picture out of my head i hate the picture please help me (link)
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I ALSO SAW MY NAN WHEN SHE DIED ITS VERY UPSETTING I KNOW THE PICTURE WILL FADE ,TRY GETTING SOME NICE PICTURES OF YOUR AUNTIE TO LOOK AT WHEN SHE WAS AT HER PRIME, AND WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE IT LOOK ATY THEM,TRY GOING TO SEE A GREIVE COUNCELOR THER FOR ALL AGES GO TO YOUR DR WHO WILL CHECK ONE OUT FOR YOU .GOOD LUCK
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Hello. This is the first time I have looked for help on this subject. Long story short: my mom met a guy, we moved in eith him, I was an asshole before this happened, I saw what he was like to her, we moved out, and I was the perfect son for three years, then something went wrong. This is what my mom said and I agree. We have fought constantly on and off since then. My mom has chronic headaches and a sleeping disease. I usually make light of the situation by making fun of the problem and I started making fun of my mom. She got pissed which I can understand but she knows how I deal with things. We have gotten into fights many times and she has packed up my stuff and taken me to my aunts, said she was going to leave, or said she was going to kill herself. I make fun of her for crying, and for her diseases because everyone else's life seems to be like the brady bunch. I understand I have been ignorant and I need to change. We just had a fight tonight because last friday I told her that the only person that sleeps more than her is a dead person. I guess that and all the names I have called her finally built up again. She has raised me well but insists that she is a bad mother and I deserve better. And that better is for her to leave and for me to live with my aunt and to never see her again. I told her that I don't need all of this confusion along with all of my school work. Then she atarted making fun of me for saying that. I told her that she isn't me, she isn't in my head, and doesn't know what is best for me(by her leaving)I actually think that she is going ot leave this time. Please write back at------slayer512@earthlink.net
I don't know what else to do please help I am a 17 year old guy (link)
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hi there i dont know your situation at the moment but from some one suffers with depresson and chronic headaches ,i also have a sleeplng disoreder and i can say it the most horible experiance i have had to handle, ive said some of the most horrible things to my familly ,i dont mean them,but chronic pain is the most intense pain you can have i have a son who is 16,and stands by me all the time it never used to be like that but we talk alot ,about different things try and talk to your mom somewere ,were you wont be interupted and ask her how she is feeling about you and life in general take an interest in her,she needs you and you need her,try and not fight be a man and walk away to cool of,my son felt just like you and i coulnt see it for a long time but we are on track for having mom and son time ,ask her to go to the drs and you will go with her ,ive felt like killing my self loads of times beacause i had no one to turn to who understood what i was going through try and love each other and be there for each other the best you can ,you sound like you really love your mom which is good ,and im sure she loves you ,good luck if you want to email me privatly you can on kerry,morton1@ntl world .com, good luck my freind
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i am a single parent of three children claiming income support, i want my partner to move in but im not sure how to go about claiming together, do i contact my d.s.s office or claim tax credits first and will we be better off
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AS A SINGLE PARENT MY SELF WELL IWAS,I WOULD MOVE YOUR BOYFREIND IN FIRST THEY WONT DEAL WITH IT IF HE HASNT MOVED IN,IF HE IS WORKING YOU NEED TO CONTACT THE LOCAL TAX OFFICE AND GET WORKING TAX FORM,IF HES NOT WORKING PHONE THE DHSS AND TELL THEM THE DATE HE MOVED IN THEN THEY WILL SEND YOU SOME FORMS TO FILL IN IT SHOULD BE STRAIGH FORWARD ,BUT PLEASE INFOEM THEM WHEN HE MOVES IN OR YOU WILL BE DEALT WITH VERY HARSLY LIKE FRAUD GOOD LUCK
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