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sorry for making this long
ok my older sister is married and has two kids which makes them my neice and nephew and i've never even got to meet them my nephew is almost two and yeha i really want to see my sister and my brother-in-law and my neice and nephew i havent seen my sister or brother-in-law in like 2 or 3 maybe even almost 4 years well they live in Hawaii and i live in Wisconsin but she always takes time to go to texas or california to see my brother-in-laws family we've asked her to come ou here but she always goes to texas or something how can i make it clear that i want to see her i mean we've all told her we want to see her you know but she doesnt listen and doesnt get that me and my other sister nad my mom and dad and grandma miss her now my mom has got to see her like 3 times cause she's flown out there my grandma spent like 3 months there and my dad has seen them two me and my sister are the only ones who havent seen them and me and my sister used to be kinda close i mean we had lots of fun together she would take us to the pool or go iceskating or stuff like that and we would just like dance to music and stuff but since she got married and stuff we havent done anything like that and i really miss her but i dont know why but i cant be like emotional with my family it's just kinda weir but i want to make it clear to her that i miss her and that i wanna see her and that i'm mad at her for always seeing by brother-in-laws family (link)
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Well you can simply tell her that you miss her and want to see her. Let her know that she is a big part of your life and it seems pretty empty when you dont see her. Maybe she will start to understand. I have a younger sister and I had no idea how big of impact I have towards her and that sometimes she just wants me to spend a whole day with her. Tell her that it is also important that you see your niece and nephew. They are part of your family and you want to share your love with them. If you want you can even plan a date for her to come see you. Search for a plane ticket for her. If you actually take part in trying to get her to come see you then maybe she will realize that she is wanted there.
~AdviceGirl123
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Hi, I live in Erie PA and I have my whole life. The company my dad works for is currently going down the tubes, and he said there is a chance we're going to have to move sometime soon. I'm really nervous and sad about that, all my friends are here and this place is all I've ever known. Has anybody ever gone through this and has some vaild advice for me? And also, if you live near or have been to Soddy-Daisy Tennesse, whats it like? That's probably where I'll be going. (link)
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Well I had to move when I was younger so I probally didnt have it as tough but you will get through it. It will be hard in the beginning but soon you will make new friends and they will make it easier for you. You can always keep in touch with your old friends. Like the song goes "Make new friends but keep the old..." So dont worry you will live through this and in the end maybe you will like that you had to move.
~AdviceGirl123
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Ok, i have a problem with my ex boyfriend (Jeremy) Last year we dated for 5 months and then i dumped him for this other guy. We didnt talk this summer because we kinda had a fight. Then this year on the first day of school he was in 2 of my classes! After the 2nd class i asked him if i could call him and he said yeah and we talked a little bit. After that I thought it would be fine but boy was i wrong. Then (of course!!!) I was in a group with my friend, a girl i didn't know, HIM, and his other ex girlfriend who hates my guts! She and i have PE and hon. biology together (Hon. bio is what i hav with both Jeremy and his other ex, Miranda) She hates me because he dated me last year when she liked him still from the previosu year. Anyway we have extra lab periods when we do labs and stuff and when I work with him i get super stressed out and get really mad at him! I don't know why but he just frusterates me SO MUCH! On the first day i wanted to cry when he showed up in my classes and was super stressed and today after getting together (the whole group) in study hall to assign jobs for the lab report I got so stressed out w/him i was just like ok does everyone know what they're doing? good cause im leaving! And i left. Miranda (the ex) and i talked because i said "i know u dont like me but..." and she said" i thought it was the other way around-i thought u didnt like me!?" and i said "no i don't have a prob with u" and she said same so i guess we have a truce or whatever. i never hated he and actually think she's pretty nice but i know she used to hate me even if she doesn't anymore. My main question tho is why do i get so stressed when i work with him and how can i change it??? Last year we never had classes together so this is a first but i get so mad i want to cry or scream or sumthing and this isn't gonna work with me like that everyday! No way! Please tell me how to chill out!!!!! And sorry this is sooo long! I rate too!!! :D (link)
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OK first of all you need to breath. I had the same problem except i dated him for three in a half years. I would get stressed with him because for some reason I would always think about the mean stuff he said about me or all the fights we got into in the past. So chances are its not that he stresses you out, its your past with him that stresses you out. You may not know it but if you really think about it you will see that the past comes up whether you want it to or not. So maybe you and him need to have some one on one time and try to resolve something that happened in the past. Lets say he said something to you and you didnt think that it would bug you but you can ask why he said it. Maybe you will feel better if you try and resolve some past fights with him. And remember to breath.
~AdviceGirl123
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