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Q: ok here is the thing.
my sis is lke in love with this guy and he says he likes her too but he is bein a total jerk about the hole thing....
she is gettin torn up by the situation...
what can we do
*KASHIA MARIA*
then hes not good enough for herr

Q: My husband has smoked for years...35 to be exact. We have been married for 30 years. He is slim, but not very healthy, I think. He almost quit just recently and I was so proud of him and told everyone that I was. He was down to about one cigarette a day. I feel like garbage when he smokes because he does it in the house, car, whatever. It makes me feel like a smoker myself. I feel that if I wanted to smoke, I would have kept it up in college, so you see, I know what it is like to be a smoker, but not what it's like to be a non-smoker, even though I don't smoke. I am sorry this sounds bitter. I am mad. Tell me what to do. I am ready to move out. We have a great marriage, but I don't want to feel crappy anymore because of someone else's vice. He refuses to go outside to smoke.

Chanon
tell him to stop or your gonna move out. if he loves you he'll try to quit

Q: okay so basically my dad said he is moving out .. him moving out = me moving some place else because my mom cannot afford this house we live in .. what am i going to do .. im leaving my friend jen if i move and she is basically my only BEST friend right now .. because i dont hang out with any of my other friends because well i dont know why but i feel like im losing all of my friends and that all i have left is jen and now im probably going to move away .. this is so hard for me because i lost my aunt on christmas and she was my best friend and i cant deal with this anymore and i dont know what to do.. please help me ..
try to talk to jen as much as u can when you move. my best friend moved too and we try to talk every day. Also if its possible you could visit her or she could visit you. You could celebrate you moving by having jen over your house one of the last days your there. you'll have lots of fun. just stay calm and dont worry about your dad. you'll get to see him too. this kinda thing happens to a lot of ppl so dont worry about it.

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I'm alyssa. I'm 13 and i have blond hair and blue eyes. I love soccer and boyzz...haha lol..i love to hang out with my friends!! they're the best!!

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