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I'm Brittany. I'm 17 and I'm a momma. I found about advicenators from a friend. She told me to join because all of my friends come to me for advice. I'm a good listener and if you need advice thats what I am here for!
Because everyone needs advice sometimes!


If not, then well you're not human.

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hi.
okay.
im 16.
im 5 months pregnant.
my boyfriends family and mine want us to keep it.
im very scared.
okay my first question is.
1. can i take the baby to school? or should i leave it at home? cause i really dont wanna leave her.
2. My boyfriend wants me to move in with him. (hes 18) and he wants to get married as soon as the babys born. Should i do it?
3. Im really strating to "pop" do you guys have nay good stores for me to go get cute prenancy clothes?!


thankss.

For the first question, some schools offer daycare while you are at school and some don't. personally I won't let my daughter go into daycare. I do online schooling at home. You can do it any time of the day and usually you'll end up graduating early. Actually I'll be graduating this decemeber and I'm 17.

The second question, its your choice. Honestly, marriage is a BIG thing. Many people get married young and what they don't understand is that you are still growing up and learning about who you are and who would like to be. Sometimes that changes 5 years from now, and when you thought you wanted to marry him, you really didn't. If you feel rushed, don't do it. and if he cant respect that then tough cookie.

3. Motherhood is okay. They're maternity jeans are really big actually. I couldn't fit into them because I was a size 1 and they don't carry a size 1. But I really liked target's line of liz lange. They have super cute clothes=]

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is it all that bad? i have MANY MANY friends who are teenage parents and they just say oh i love my baby and i dont regret having it. and blah blah blah. they make it seem like its the best thing. i want to know what its really like. but i dont dare ask them because i know they wont tell me the bad things. so what did you go through or going through? do you honestly regret keeping it and all that? I DONT MEAN DO YOU REGRET YOUR BABY! because i know that its your child and you love it so you wouldnt regret that but if you could go back in time would you change things?

I am a teenage mom. I got pregnant when I was 15 years old and now I am 17. You are right they probably really wouldn't tell you the bad things. But honestly, all of the hardships don't get that bad because of what you have in the end, I'm not saying I recommend being a teenage mom, but I'm saying that when you go through it, it has its ups and downs, but your baby makes it worth it. Thats why they don't tell you the bad things. Because they know that they are worth all of it, and it really changes you as a person. It makes you stronger. It makes you responsible.

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okay so im 15....



and



pregnant! i just found out...
yes i know i am very young to be pregnant.
i will be 16 in 2 months.
so please dont write about how im too young and blah blah blah...i already know....dont need to hear it more. thank you.


anyways....today i was on the laptop and my dad was next to me and i was looking at abortion pictures and saying how horrible it was. and my dad was like so if you got pregnant you would keep it? and i said YES I COULD NEVER KILL A BABY! and then we had this whole argument on how its not a baby at a certain amount of weeks and whatever...so i showed him an article on how they get nerves at 4 weeks so they do feel it and he was like I DONT CARE ID DRAG YOU DOWN TO THE CLINC AND MAKE YOU GET ONE! i just kept saying you cant make me..

REMEMBER....HE DOES NOT KNOW IM PREGNANT!

also when he found out my mom was pregnant with my little brother he yelled and screamed at her and dropped her off at the clinc..she sat there for HOURS crying...finally went in but they said she was too far along to get one...thank god.

so my dad is capable of having the heart to leave me at a clinc.

how do i tell him im pregnant without going through that? im keeping the baby, im still with the father and he is staying with me so i have help.

when i tell my dad should i immediately tell him abortion is out of the question?

can he really force me into an abortion? thats my right though isnt it? its not like since im under 18 he could make it get it by law right?

either way i need to tell him soon because i want this baby to be healthy so regular checkups to the OBGYN and getting put on healthy stuff is needed asap.


i live in florida if that helps?
thank you.

I was in your same shoes. I was fifteen when I got pregnant and my dad wanted me to get an abortion. I was so scared of him that I almost did. But when I saw my little girl on that ultrasound, I decided to stand up for myself. I told my dad I was keeping my baby. And you know what? He got pissed so bad, but now he loves her to death. If you want that baby, you keep that baby, its your right as a woman. And if someone tells you you arent gonna make it as a mom, you tell them that you are going to do everything in your will for your kid and that you will make it.
Don't let people bring you down.
They're just jealous that when your kid is 16 you'll only be 30.

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im having a party tomorrow.. im not sure if im pregnant lets say theres a good chance.. um if i was i would only be 1 week ha because i had sex last sunday and tomorrows sunday.. is it ok if i drink? i dont even no 100% if i am or not.. but if i was it would only be a week so could that harm it if i did

I wouldn't recommend it just to be safe. Your first trimester is very important. Actually my doctor told me it was the most vital and easiest to have something go wrong because your baby is developing its major organs.

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