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I'm going to be a young mom, My boyfriend is my age too were both 18. We had many plans and everything was going fine, until he came over one day (Im living with my mom.) And he started ranting out on me, saying "I don't want a kid, I don't want to take care of it, I dont want to college, I cant handle this. Im not your boyfriend , tell your parents the baby isnt mine. Make you seem like a slut. Im not taking care of a baby its your fault." And so much more. Well that was 2 days ago. I've been crying for hours a day and I dont know what do to anymore. Do I call him? Should I call him? What should I say? They were his ideas and I liked them. But I need him, ALOT! (link)
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Call him. Sit him down and talk to him. Find out what he wants. Come up with what you both want. There's always adoption if neither of you are ready for a baby. If theres anything else you need just let me know
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iam a 17 year old female and I just had a baby and jessica's about 2 months old now and it's becoming hard,I live with my parents and my boyfriend broke up with me when i told him i was pregnant so iam a single mother and even though my parents are still letting me live with them they say i have to get a job and raise jessica without any of their help they won't look after her while iam at school so i have to pay for daycare while iam at school and now iam looking for a parttime job also and it's getting hard to pay the babysitter to watch her i love jessica with all my heart and i am going to stay in school so quiting school is not an option for me becouse i want to be able to go to collage to be able to take care of my baby girl properly and make sure she's healthy.I quit cheerleading and I hardly ever go anywhere so I can take care of my child what should i do please help me. (link)
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I see that you don't want to quit school, but you can get your GED and take an extra class to get your high school dimpola(sp). It's hard. I'm a teen parent too. I live with my parents and my fiance. He didn't leave me. And I stay home. If you would like to talk more. Message me if you have yahoo or msn messenger. xxforevermommy
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If I was 15 and pregnant and my boyfriends was 18 does my mom have say in abortion and adoption? (link)
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It depends on where you live. But in alot of places I think so. I am 16 I had my son at 15. My mom didn't force me into anything. Hopefully your mom won't either. But she can get your boyfriend in trouble for him being so old and you being so young.
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I am 17 years old i have a 2 month old daughter but i am married and have been for a year to the babys father. Well i have just come across a very serious problem. My husband i have been sleeping together but we used protection but i think i might be pregnant again is that possible. I am very scared. I know if i am everyone is going to say i am a slut and im so worried but wwe both have jobs and stuff but i am scared of what a=our families wil say what do i do. (link)
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If your married it doesn't matter what they say. If you think you both can handle another child then keep the child. If not then theres always adoption. But also abortion. I'm Pro-Life so I mean I don't support it. But some people do. So I mean theres your opitions.
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welll. me and my boyfriend, [been together about 4 months.] known eachother for 4 years. we had sex today, and the condom broke! he admitted he cummed inside of me. this happend before, and i regreted it, but i took some of my moms emergency contraption pills & she's out! she doesn't know or anything though. i just got off my period today too. i contacted planned parenthood and tomorrow i'm going to this place near by. i just hope i'm not, and i'm hoping there's something they can give me?! i'm not sure if that's possible though. i'm suppperr young, and i wouldn't know how to tell my parents?! even though me and my boyfriend talked about this and he'd be sucha a [great father.] but yeah. any advice? :] (link)
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It's good you called them so earlier. There is a morning after pill that if you are pregnant it automatically kills the baby or something like that. But I'm a mother at 16. I got pregnant at 15 and I mean it's amazing. You never know you may want the baby. But if you don't then going to Planned Parenthood. There's always adoption though.
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