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I need to be more outgoing. I really want to be able to go up to people and just talk to them. I want to have more confidence. How do i do so? I keep missing my chances to meet new guys.

you just need to face your fears and do it.

this is one of my favorite quotes and it totally motivates me to be more outgoing:
wayne gretzky-
"you miss 100% of the shots you never take"

think about it...

hope i helped you

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My friends the other day were talking about bases, like " i heard __ got to 2nd base with __" what are the bases, who eva answers this will get a 5

do you know the 4 Fs? a lot of people define their bases differently. i define mine by the 4 Fs- french,feel,finger,fuck.

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I'm 14 years old, and I want my hair dyed. Like I want a drastic change SORTA. My hair right now is Dark Blonde. I don't want like blue pink colors though. I'm white, and my face is sorta red usually. I'm not really tan, I am sometimes. But not always. Whats a good hair color for me =)

i would dye it a dark brown color... but make it look natural... dont go like black... dark brown is in this year! i hope i helped!
--lucky

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My sister was raped and killed about a year ago ( we havent found out who it is yet but they're still looking)and I lately I have been see her well her ghost and she always says some thing but I cant hear her like she just moves her lips and I want to tell my mom but I'm afriad she will put me in some kind a hospital or something but about a week ago my sister came back and she made me fallow her some how I mean she walked through the wall and I just had to fallow her and when I did it I found an old beat down house and I really really wont to show it to some one because I think it might be the guy that killed her

sweetie i am so sorry... you should tell your mom... next time you see the ghost, get your mom or someone you trust to follow the ghost with you... so you actually walked through the wall? dont worry ive heard so many stories about this... just try to understand the ghost...this could be extremely important and she could be telling you something that you need to know... get get a witness or something when you walk through the wall or whatever to believe you and you wont be sent to a hospital! i know this sounds really crazy but get a camera- a video camera... and tape everything that happens including when you see the house... or just take a normal camera and take a picture of the house... this is very important and this could be real... you need to tell someone next time it happens... there was this one story (true)(my teacher told me)-- my teacher said that this boy in her class told her that he was seeing a ghost of a boy that look exactly like him every night... at conferences the teacher told the boys mom about this and the mother said that when the boy was born, he had a twin who didnt make it... im not kidding you this is real...tell someone and try to figure this out... good luck!!! and i hope i helped... i believe you
--lucky

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It's almost xmas, and I don't have any gifts for my family. And worse of all, I can't go out and get gifts for them because I'm broke. Does anyone have any ideas how I can "make" a gift for my family? [I have one bro, 19, two parents, age unknown, and one sister, age 21.] If anyone could think of creative fun things I could make out of house hold items, I'd love you forever.
--Giftless

Dear Giftless,
for your sis- you could make a scrapbook of pix from when you 2 were young! if you cant buy a scrapbook, just make one out of construction paper!
for your bro- you could egt him a poster or something... those can be really cheap sometimes... or you could just give him like a bowl of his favorite candy or something... something cheap that he likes...
for your parents- picture frame! parents love stuff that reminds them of their kids so you could make a frame and put a pic of you, your bro, n your sis in it! or you could give them a little coupon that says you will spend one whole day with them... parents love it when they get to spend time with their kids so make a certificate that says you'll go out n see a movie w/ your dad or go shopping w/ your mom...
hope this helps!!! merry xmas!
--lucky

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I have an oral presentation to give on monday (it's powerpoint) and i'm terrified... like this is one of my biggest fears ever. Whenever i go to give a speech or something my voice starts really quivering and shaking and it sounds like i'm crying. Is there any way to stop this from happening? also... any other advice on giving speeches would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!!

pretend that everytime you look at a face, youre just looking at yourself in the mirror... i used to be just like you but if you dont think about it, its ok... just think about other things like what you want to have for lunch, or what you did over the weekend... but make sure you remember your presentation too! all you have to do is rehearse a LOT n then the words will just kinda come and you wont have to think about it... good luck! hope this helps!
--lucky

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