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Well, what to write about me. I'm very outgoing and loud around everyone just because I really don't care what people think about me. I'm really easy to get along with and I like helping people w/ their problems. That's why I got this! lol, neways. I can be a big dork and I like to have fun but I know when it's time to get serious. I like to do a lot of things especially write and sing, singing / music / writing are my passions. They're my one and only true loves. Anyways..ask me anything and i'll give ya some advice! You choose to take it or not!

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13/f ..In my group of friends and in school, i am such a prude good girl but all of a sudden now i just wanna be a slut!! like i cant wait to go on vacation and pick up random guys. I really want a bf, to makeout,smoke, drink do all that stuff. Is this normal? I feel so weird because im getting all these urges and i dont know where theyre coming from! I feel dirty and like i wanna be like those girls in the movie Thirteen.. please help! im starting to do things.. i bought a thong, drank my moms wine and wanna do other stuff that i know ill get in trouble for! but i cant help it! what do i do??

you're growing up. no one can make you do anything that you don't want to do. make your own decisions and your own mistakes. and thongs really aren't that big of a deal, no offense. i watched the movie thirteen and thuoght the girls were just a lil crazy but i liked it. 13 year olds really shouldn't be having sex and doing drugs and stuff. ..urges are normal. just to let you know

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i got my cartilage pierced yesterday. is it normal for the cartilage to be a bit swollen? thanks

yeah it's gonna be swollen. i had mine done before. if you got it done w/ an ear peircing gun thought you might want to go get it changed to a hoop if it isn't already a hoop because studs in the cartilage tend to get infected. that's what happened to mine but if you got it done with a needle then you're totally fine. hope i didn't scare ya. any more peircing advice. come ask me *AliCia*

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Is is normal for the average teenager (only child) to cry at least once a day when she's by herself in her room. And being an only child has a big issue. I came to realize that I cry everyday. Sometimes more than once. I do it in private though because I don't want people to see me. I guess my biggest reason is my parents, and the fact that I'm sick of being the center of their lives...I've gotten to the point where I feel a lot of pain in me, but I can't take it out on anyone but myself. It all seems really stupid, because it all comes from my parents. They don't beat me, and they're not necessarily "overprotective" or anything, I just hate being the only one they have to worry about... I've gotten to the point where I don't know what to do. I can't even tell them I want to seek professional help, which is what I really want--thats how distant I feel. I don't know what to do....

you're officially a teen now! lots of us cry everyday. take me for example. we don't do it for other people to see us. we just do. i'm an avid thinker and once i get thinking about stuff. i don't stop till i know what it is i wanted to find and sometimes i get depressed and cry over it. what you can do is get out! hang out w/ friends! go to a movie! have friends over and watch movies! hang out with the girls! those will all make you feel a lot better! trust me! hope i helped! need anything else..ask me! *AliCia*

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