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I earned about 320 dollars from coaching a little league sports team during their whole season. I'm 18 and currently unemployed. I applied for another job but haven't gotten a response back. I don't really know what to do with my money. I can either blow it all and buy clothes (I REALLY need to update my wardrobe.. i haven't gotten a new outfit for probably a year and half. I just really need some new clothes haha I'm sick of wearing the same stuff) Or I can put it in my savings, earn more money, and then spend all of that later in the summer (considering i only have 2 weeks left of school).

so should I spend it now? or save it and wait until I have more money to buy clothes?

Also- if you say I should spend it now- do you recommend any places or ideas on how I can get a bunch of clothes for a cheap price? I was thinking Platos Closet since there are name brand clothes (so they are still cute) but cheaper. I don't really care if they are already worn. I just really need some new clothes haha. Thank you so much!

if you can handle it, i would say save half in your savings and spend the other half. when i have extra money left after bills, that's what i usually do because then i feel good about saving while buying just a couple items for myself. try that!

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they say life is a gift.
they also say the world is cruel.

how is it a gift to be living in a cruel place?

the world's not cruel, just the people in it. life is a gift and only you can decide what to make of that gift.

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will there be any boys there?
no mom its a nun club.

i always hear it but i have no idea where its from

buffy the vampire slayer!

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what does i mean when someone says oh i went to third base with them or oh i got to second base with them. like i know what all the way is but what do the rest of the bases stand for?

1st base: holding hands, hugging, kissing, making out, etc.

2nd base: making out, going under clothes, etc.

3rd base: sex, etc.

hope i helped!

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How much blood comes out when you pop your cherrie? Because I had some blood in my underwear and I didn't get my period and it was like the size of a quarter. Did I pop my cherrie?? Thank you!!

It really depends on the girl. Some girls bleed, some dont', some feel pain, while others don't. You possibly were a bleeder :P Some girls actually don't even get a chance to break their hymen during sex because a lot of things (falling of a bike, etc.) while you're younger, can cause your hymen to break without you even knowing.

hope i helped :)

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today i let my friend borrow my mascara.
later today she went home sick and has a sinus infection
could i get sick from letting her use my mascara?

yes, mascara has millions of germs in it because it's always touching your eyes and eyelashes (which help dust to stay away from the eyes) so your mascara tube has dust, germs, etc. usually when people use each other's make up, it could cause pink eye or other infections.

i suggest you to throw away the mascara you have now and buy a new one and make sure not to share with anyone or use anyone else's!

hope i helped :)

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What keeps you goin evryday? why do you wake up and do the things you do? making coffee,makin love? is life worth it?

God, 100% is the reason why i'm alive. everyday i want to wake up to try and be the best i can be. i think everyone has a life plan set up for them but only you can make it work or fail. we are all living on this earth for a reason and we have to live our lives to figure out what that reason is! :)

hope i helped :)

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I'm going to get a synthetic wig soon and it has some waves/curls in it.

I'm not really sure what I'd need to do and get to keep it looking good and not scraggly as some say would happen.

I know heat from curling irons, etc and products for human hair aren't recommend. But how would I add more volume? And what is a good shampoo to use?

I've already tried google.

i worked at this place that sold wigs so i had to take care of them all the time!

1. first, you have to buy special shampoo specifically for synthetic hair (i suggest alan thomas hair shampoo for synthetic hair).

2. always brush your wig with a wire brush before washing (regular brushes can ruin the hair).

3. add only about a spoonful of shampoo in a bowl of cold water (hot water also damages the synthetic material).

4. dunk the wig in the water for a minute or so.

5. gently squeeze the water out of the wig.

6. blot your wig with a paper towel (roughly toweling it will damage the hair).

7. place the wig back onto it's rack and wait for it to dry.


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i need to know the names of two korean miniseries.

1) about two years ago i saw this korean soap opera on tv (with subtitles) and i need to know what it is.

here's some information:
- there's a girl who's a police or a security
- girl falls in love with a guy who's korean too but he come from america so he knows english

there's a part where (i think it was the end) he tells her to meet him somewhere. she gets there and waits for him and he never gets there. she decides to look for him and when she finds him, she sees him being chased by people. they chase him to a boat (i'm not sure) and that's when they shoot and he dies.

2) this one was about a year ago.

- there's a guy who hires in what he thinks is a guy, but really it's a girl.
- they fall in love.
- since he thinks it's a guy, he starts to think that's he's gay.


that's it. i need to know the names of these miniseries.

thanks in advance!

luckily, i'm korean and i watch korean dramas all the time :P

the first one is probably 'bodyguard', but i can't really remember. (보디가드)

the second one is definitely 'the 1st shop of coffee prince' (커피프린스 1호점)

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i basically live off of poptarts and ramon noodle soup im now discovering how unhealthy i eat.. i feel like everything is high in fructose corn syrup or whatever. so are poptarts really that bad for you too? whats healthy food too snack on, like what about powerbars??

poptarts are loaded with calories and unwanted fat :/

try these snacks:

apple slices with peanut butter (great source of protein)
pita chips and salsa (pita chips are healthier than corn torilla chips)
english muffin pizza (whole wheat, one muffin will only give you about 200 calories)
soy hotdogs (they taste like the real thing but has less fat and calories!)

hope i helped!

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