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Hello, nice to meet you. :)

My name is Vanna and I am 23 years old. My hobbies include but are not limited to: Photography, writing poetry & stories, playing bass guitar, playing on the computer, making youtube videos, chatting with friends, reading, crocheting, t-shirt reconstructions, writing pen pals, making new friends, learning new things and hanging out with friends & family.

I am very open minded, will try pretty much anything at least once. I love to live life to the fullest and try to think as optimistically as I possibly can! I'm also pretty random and am always being creative & unique. One of my favorite things to do is to dance in the rain! It just makes life not seem so bad, as if you're starting anew...

I work at a newspaper doing classifieds and legals. I am a bisexual woman who is married to her soul-mate! I have no kids of my own as of yet, but I do have two wonderful step-kids that I love as if they were my own. I suffer from depression and being overweight, those are two things i am working on right now!

I've just switched over to living a vegetarian lifestyle. I want to lose weight and be healthy the right way. I have studied up on being vegetarian A LOT and own 3 different books on the subject. I try to make sure that I get all the appropriate nutrients and vitamins throughout my day. :)

I have been through a lot in my life (sexual abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse, miscarriages, depression, aloneness, bullying, etc), just like everyone else I'm sure! I love answering questions and will offer the best advice I possibly can!

Feel free to ask me anything about anything! I will answer all questions as quick and as honest as possible! I look forward to helping you! :)
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: Classifieds & Legals at a newspaper
Age: 23
Member Since: June 16, 2010
Answers: 47
Last Update: August 6, 2014
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Whenever I go out, people stare at me. I have no idea why, I mean I dress normal and that sort of thing. And then I get self conscious and have to check and make sure I don't have something on my face or whatever, but I never do, is this normal? Does everyone get stared at? Like sometimes people don't take there eyes off me. They aren't glaring but they just keep glancing at me. It just makes me really self conscious when they do this. (link)
I used to think that too. I would look over and it seemed like everyone was staring at me. For me it was all in my head, but people just stare. Most people don't notice it at all!


ok so im 14 (girl) and i've looked up some "stuff" on the internet but only on google! then i found in my tool bar that my history of what i searched (just the words i searched) is still there. my mom works with computers but im not going to ask her how i can delete the history. i didn't look at porn or anything just looked up stuff like "sex" and then went to images but on google it doesn't really show anything. do you know how to delete this history? it's in my tool bar. so on top there is the search bar and below that "file, edit, view, tools, help" and then a search engine thing that says google and has all these symbols going across. on the google there is an arrow with my history! do you know what i'm talking about? and thank you so much! :) and just wondering. it's normal to look up stuff like sex on the internet when your a 14yr girl right? (link)
Under tools or history there should be something that says clear recent history, clear private data or something of the sort. Hope this helps!

And to answer your last question, it is normal to look up sex when you are a 14 year old girl. Don't worry about it, knowing information about sex can only help you in the long run because it will help prevent stupid choices regarding sex! :)


All my attempts to improve my life or move forward just set me back. All my acts of kindness are misunderstood. Nothing I thought I was good at succeeds.

Be honest, is there just a point in life where you should stop caring about anything and wait patiently for death? Because that's what I'm feeling.

Male, late 20's. (link)
Look, I understand what you are going through for the most part. I have had those feelings...heck most people have had those feelings before! I'm not saying your feelings aren't important, because they are.

What i'm trying to say is that YOU are important. YOUR LIFE is important! The things you do or say ARE IMPORTANT! You may not get the credit or the payoff you have been wishing and hoping for, but don't give up on being a good person. Because it sounds to me like you are trying and that things just keep getting in the way.

Take some time to step back from your problems and do something that genuinely makes you happy (meditate, exercise, walk, swim, write, read, take a shower or bath, hang with friends, etc). You will feel much calmer and relaxed. Also, you may want to talk to your doctor about possibly getting on medication for depression. That's what I had to do!




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