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hey guys this is Andie. I love helping people out with there problems because us teenagers tend to have a lot of them. Trust me I would most definatly know. If i dont answer your question the way you wanted me to, ask again! I'm here for you guys!!

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on AIM what does

=P
:D

and other things like that mean ? i dont know what they mean ! or if they even have a meaning. ill rate 5's for any useful serious answers

the =P means like someone is sticking there toungue out at you and the :D means someone is smiling! ;) (winking) >:0 (someone yelling) and yeah! I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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Hey (i hope you know who this is....if you do put her/my first letter of my name in the begining...like A and then a enter mark adn answer...thanks)

Anyways...i cut and i just started this year and i can't stop i mean i did for a while and then i did it again but the worst thign is is that when i do cut i cut well like i did tonight 15 times and almost all of them bleed but they r tiny little marks so i can say my dog scratched me or something but now im gettign scared....i mean it sounds bad but i like the feeling the cuts give me(when i am cuttign) not afterwords....what do i do? i can't tell ym parents for help..but they do know....HELP PLEASE...(if u need help who this just think of a tropical tree..lol)

But i mean there is more to me then this you know and i mean i just want to get over it


Thanks Andie!!!


Love,?????

S,

Hey well i think that you should stop. I know how you feel i use to do it myself, but then i realized that all i am doing is hurting myself and I am sure that there are people out there that care about you and are also getting affected by this. And if your mom know about this, wouldnt she try to help you out with it, and talk to you about what is going on. I think that you should do what I do, get some hair ties and put them on your wrist and whenever you feel like cutting snap it a couple of times, it realives the pain for me. The most you will have is a red mark from the snap and thats all. Also when I was basicly in my "depressed" stage i would just write all of my feelings down in this book and then when it was full i burned it. I know that it sounds kinda creepy but then I just realized that the past is in the past and I should just forget about it all because I was in a place were I didnt want to be, I HATEd being unhappy all the time. If you want anymore ?'s answered I am here for you babe! I Love you so much hun! ♥Andie

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Hey....So i have a weird thing to ask but ok....i have like weird dreams that like to help me fall asleep i think of a way to get hurt....like a story about how i break my arm or somethign and then i fall asleep....or like that my "coach" see's what i do....Is this bad? what can i do about it?

I think you should try a different method of sleeping. I dont really understand that "coach" thing you are talking about. What I do sometimes when I try to fall asleep is listen to music. Sorry I didnt help much, but if you leave me another ? in my inbox with more details maybe I could help you more? ♥Andie

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my theighs aren't fat but i HATE them i tryed to lose weight adn i did but not in my theighs and i do a lot of excerise's i ride horse's and so they r in shape but i want them to be tinyer and more in shape what can i do? HURRY!!!!!!!!!

Do Leg Lifts. What you do is lay on your back and lift your legs to 3 sets of 10 each day and you will see results not only in your theigh, but your abs too! If you have done that already I would recomend going to toneteen.com they have tons of stuff to look at and try! I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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*U should know who this is*
Well my friends are havign a party and it is a water party....i don't want to go....my sister is invited and she has tiny theighs....but a kinda big stomach and i am the oppisite tiny stomach and see all my ribs but musclion legs.....so i kinda don't want to be in a swimsuit when my sister is too....what can i do? HURRY THE PARTY IS ON FRIDAY!
*Me*

(sry i dont know who this is lol)
I dont think that you should care what you look like in your suit, because no one is going to compare you between you and your sister, and if they do, they are werid..lol well I just think that you shouldnt care because then if people see that you dont care what you look like, then they wont care either! I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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Hey (u might know who this is) i use to do somethign bad....and ppl still think of me as that evan tho im not liek that anymore.....how can i get them to stop thinking about that liek my mom is i change the channel with my right hand she thinks i did it again to my left hand...well i mean sometimes i do do what i use to do but not at all as deep or as many so why does everyone make a big deal out of it??
*I think u know who*

I think that the reason they are all still thinking of you like "that" is because they are all worried about you and care about you too much before something even worse happends. I think you should tell them that you have stopped your habit and you realized it was the wrong thing to do. And tell your mom that you dont do it at all anymore so she wont worry as much...I ♥ you baby cakes!! ~*Andie

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ok so i mean i am tall and i will be in *th grade i weigh well u don't want to know but all my friends tell me how skinny i am yet i know i am not! i mean i go running EVERYDAY! and i am in a lot of activites i mean i do gymnatsics for at least 2 hours a day adn that is so much work and i play basketball so i mean i do have a lot of mucles but i always feel so fat! cause of my weight what do i do???

I think that you should listen to your friends because they will tell you the honest truth if you need to loose weight. It sounds to me like you are probably a really athletic person if you are in basketball AND gymnastics. I think you are in pretty good shape. Dont worry EVERYONE I know thinks that they are fat when they really arnt. You are probably in the right area of weight for your age. If you really feel like you need to go on a diet, just eat healther and not so many snacks. I hope I helped ♥Andie

(i'm so sorry this took forever to answer back to you!!)

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Ok so i mean i have a problem i know it but ok liek i really want to lose weight and i literally to see resulates and to lose weight will stop eating for days and or eat very little well it ended up that i got really dizzy i was always tired and sick (stomach hurt sooo bad but when i saw food i would want to throw up)but the worst is is that i fanted at school and i lied and said it was cause i "hit" my head....well anyways what do i do i want to lose weight but not how i did last time

Yeah I tried that too, and myself also got VERY dizzy and i felt sick all the time. But what I think you should do is start out small because you havent been eating a lot so you should start out with smaller portions of food liek salads or even pizza untill you get back to a regular eating basis. Then that is when you can start your diet again. When you get back up to the right eating habits then you can start eating salads, pastas, and you can basicly eat almost anything you want (besides like fast food etc.) just cut down the portions in half. Drink lots of water, and milk. I dont recomend diet soda either because all they use is fake sugars. And then start a regular excerise program. Go to www.toneteen.com and they have lots of teenage excersise ideas! I hope I helped and again i am soo sorry this took me forever to answer! ♥Andie

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Okay here's whats happening..
Im a sixth grader.. and I have been feeling really sad lately.. and i dont know why. I guess its cuz my dog died or sumthing.. but i dont know how to get over it. Also.. ppl are putting more pressure on me by the second. Im not sure if i can take it anymore! Please help me Andie!
Thanx..
Love~ *me*

Oh my gosh i am soo sorry what happened to your dog! both of mine dog a year apart and it was hard for me too, so I know how that feels. Tell people that if they dont have something nice to say to you right now, dont say anything because you dont need to hear it right now at this point in time. Dont you just hate it when people put pressure on you, yeah i know it stinks..=( I think you should have like a "girls day" with one of your best friends and go shopping or have a spa day with them or something like do each others nails and hair or something just to get your mind off of things. I hope I helped and I am always here for you if you need something! ♥Andie

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Ok so i am usually never shy but at my gymnastic place i am so shy i never lift up my head or talk to anyone unless they ask me a question and i only lift up my head when i am doign my job(what i am sapose to do on beam,,,ext)and when i am there ppl r mean to me saying my leatard is really ugly.....or durty (which i always wash) and idk when i go there I HATE IT SO MUCH i am good at it that i know but i mean i will make up excuess not to go.....i think about quiting all the time but i love it so much but not there and my mom won't let me go anywhwere else and i mean when im there i literally cry and just think....I don't need friends or want friends cause i am here to do a job a career btu still i mean ik if i go and do not haev friends i migth do better but i might not......what do i do i tryed to talk to my mom but she is still not letting me switch....sry about the lenth

Its okay. First of all don't quit! If you think you are good at it, then you shouldnt quit, you could go farther at the sport and you never know where you might end up at! As for those people who are making fun of you, just forget what they are saying because they are probably just jealous because you are better than them. And who cares about what your leatard looks like! No one is really paying attention to that anyway, they are seeing your ability at the sport. Looks deffinatly don't count. When i was in ballet like 2 years ago, i had this ugly leatard that I wore and I loved ballet, but I quit because of what people said to me, and I regret it soo much because I love to dance. So dont let what those girls say to you, because I made varsity dance team this year, and I dont care what people say about me anymore! I hope I help and you will go far with gymnastics!!! Good luck! ♥Andie

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Hey Andie,
Well, I've got these two friends and we are all really close. Well, my best friend told me that they were going to Texas together tonight. It REALLY hurts my feelings because they never bothered to tell me. One of them even lied to me and said she was going to visit relatives. I've tried talking to them already and I couldn't get ahold of them. Do you have any ideas on what to do???
Love,
CE
PS: Marshmellow Puffman!! :)

I think you should wait untill after they get back and then be like "so did you guys have a fun time in Texas?" and then just be straight forawrd and say I wish you didnt lie to me about were you were going, it hurts kinda when you lie to me about that. or something but dont just yell at them becase I think they didnt want to tell you because they didnt want your feelings to get hurt. I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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is it wrong to wear a thong? i want to get one but i dont want people to think of me as a hoe

No its deffinatly not wrong. But people might think of you differently if you have it hanging out the whole time haha. Go ahead and get one if you want! lol ♥Andie

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i cant get a boyfriend. all the boys say that im sooo hot but they wont go out with me. whats wrong with me? why cant i get a boyfriend?
help me! ^O^

Hey there is deffinatly NOTHING wrong with you! they are just some random guys that want to get down your pants or something. ((seriously)) they will try to get your attention and they think they can drag you in them so they can "get laid," and they will be kool. But yeah, those guys are deffinatly not worth it. I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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Hey so u might know who this is but anyways i have a lot goign on i mean i have so much to do and well i just got to a new barn(horse's) and my sister rides there two but she is a snot and she is really mean to everyone but yet she is a good rider and does well at shows and i want to show my barn that i am a good rider but i am not like my sister(a snot) what can i do i mean i went to a show and got champion,and when i was there i heard that my trainer said that my horse was junk what do i do about that???

Well I dont really know because I dont have a sister but I will try my best! First of all if you got champion your trainer shouldnt have said that your horse was junk! that is horrible! I mean come on it just got champion! (congrats by the way) I think that if you are just you around everyone, they will relize you are not like your sister and you arnt a snot! I hope I helped, and just remember just be yourself, and dont come off like your sister does! ♥Andie

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