about

Ookay, so let's start. The name's Lydia. I'm 14 but a lot of people think that I'm a whole lot older? I'm a freshman in highschool. I loove giving advice and the idea of helping people. So, feel free to ask me absolutely any questions you may have, I can probably answer most of them.



I don't get embarresed easily and I really don't care what you think about me. So feel free to say whatever you want to me. I won't care at all.



Music, my friends, my family, and photography make up my life. End of story.


I hatehatehate labels. I think that they're just a cheap, stupid way of giving bitchy, annoying people a reason not to talk to a person and get to know someone. I will NEVER label anyone.



Feel free to IM me anyytime. My screen name is lydiadance09, yeahh i know it's wicked gay. I'm usually on. But I would prefer if you ask me there, just because I usually have a lot of conversations going and it gets a little chaotic.



ask away, loves. ♥

advice

Is it possible to block a call from a Verizon Wireless cell phone?

If you mean blocking the number so they can't call then try calling Verizon. If you mean blocking your number so it shows up as a private number on the second party's phone, then press *67, then dial the number.
♥ Lydia

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okay so im 13/f and i have a problem. im seriously BUTTLESSS. and i mean it. abercrombie and hollister jeans like are all saggy on me...

and no i dont wanna STUFFF my butt haha but what are some foods or something that will make it bigger...

i already have big boobs. just no butt...and its not for the guys or for my appearance.. its for me.. and im not trying to make this funny..

just it kinda is.

thanks in advance for having the guts to answer this. =]

There is no certain food that is guarenteed to make your butt bigger. Everybody's body works differently and distrubutes body fat differently. Instead, try some exercises that will tone your butt muscles, that should make it bigger.
♥ Lydia

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well currently it's spring break && im feeling like its summer all over again. I'm not an only child, i have two older sisters who have lives an hour away from my house. I live with my mom and her boyfriend and my dad and his girlfriend live like 20 minutes away. ALL during summer, i'm home alone. A lot of people take advantage of the fact that their mom stays home or that they have sibling to live with. At least they have somehting to do, I'm home alone all summer long from 7-5 :(. I feel like its summer and this is one of the reasons i DONT like summer, im bored and lonely, which makes me sad and i get sad alot and i hate being sad, HELP.

I have a very similar situation. I'm also home by myself all day, for the whole day. Try to contact a bunch of different friends and make plans for the week. That way you wont be home alone nearly as often and you wont be bored.
♥ Lydia

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Okay so I am 14/f and will be graduating from 8th grade this year. The only thing is i do not want to go to my graduation because i dont want to have to walk infront of all the people, this is because I have Cerebral Palsy. It is a disorder that cause tight hamstings and makes me walk ver different from others. I am very self consious of this. I want to be a part of graduation but walking on stage and down an aisile(sp?) really acres me. I know that other should not judge me but. I just really dont know what to do any advice would help.I also have a big problem with stage fright and public things such as this ..if that means anything.

I know that its hard for you to overcome something like this. but, im sure your classmates will have a great deal of respect for you if you do decide to walk. i have stage fright too and i hate public speaking but im learning to get over it by subjecting myself to it. i hope that helps =]
♥ Lydia

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I used way to many minutes on my cell phone. 40 minutes with my boyfriend, 18 minutes with this kid whos like, inlove with me (that manages to keep a conversation going) + the little 3-6 minutes calls.

I don't know if I'm going over or not. But I just don't want to get my phone taken away. I'm only going to tell my home# to boyfriend.

Okay, so got anyideas on how I can lay off my minutes?

depending on your carrier, you can check how many minutes youve used online. but instead of using your cell phone, have people call your home phone or, with your boyfriend, plan to meet up with him to have a face-to-face conversation

♥ Lydia

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