I tryd telling my parents i needed to go to a hospital and get help and they made me go to my theripist and my theripist said w.e the hospital can do they can do but they dont understand! im trying to get help and they wont listen! I just cut myself with scisors and if i dont get help its gona get worse! WHY WONT THEY LISTEN TO ME!
depending on the hospitol im pretty sure that you can go to the hospital by yourself.. if you are looking for help they will help you. they might keep you there overnight if the think you are a serious danger to yourself and if that happends then you have to have your parents come and check you out. but im 80% sure you can go to the hosptaal without your parents.
hope i heled and good luck &hearts
♥ rachy ♥
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I am a former self-injurer, and I finally stopped cutting at the end of 8th grade (I'm going into 9th). I've been happy since the end of 8th grade and haven't had a reason to cut, or I'v refrained myself from cutting. But that's how I deal with stress. And I'm afraid I'll relapse this year from stress. I've been to therapy, and I write a lot. Is there any other way I could possibly deal with stress that isn't destructive?
thanks in advance!
okay, first of all i cut so i know what you are going through. you cut because of stress right? well if thats the case then if kyou think something is stressing you out then you need to just let it go. sometimes if you are stressed out playing a sport or doing something with your friends will help you get your mind off whatever is stressing you out. this doesnt work for me but whenever you feel the need to cut keep a rubber band on your wrist and snap it and play with it instead of cutting. what sometimes helps me when i am stressed out is talking to one of my colse friends about whatever is stressing me.. if none of this works for you then you can go to the website www.selfinjury.net and they have tons of healthy alternatives.
i really hope i helped and good luck!
~*rachy*~
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i started cuttin in 6 th grade.. im now goin into 8th .. i stopped for 8 months but then my mom and this lady she knows got into a verbal fight and i hate fighting so i cut again.. [between the 8 months i only cut 2 but not bad] i got so upset that i cut and i left like 19 deep cuts... my mom and her best friend patti dont know i cut but patti knows what is going on so i have kind of been living with her a couple nights during the week because she doesnt want me to be around the enviroment.. well the lady moved out and everything is normal but now i still get really mad and cut.. is there anyway to stop cutting other than rubber bands and the red marker because it doesnt work.
[ i have told one adult who is 20 and she is talking to me when i go to work with her monday wednesday and friday but i still cut ] .. sorry it was so long. * thanks
ok. i am a cutter myself and i have been doing it now for almost 3 years now so i know exactly what you are going through. like someone else said it really helps if you talk to one of your really close friends. another thing that i hvae been doing is make a notebook or a binder or whatever and write about it. like i write poems and sometimes that helps. also what you can do is play a sport or do something to get your mind off of it. if that doesnt work then try cutting up an old pillow or something. if that doesnt work then maybe you could try throwing out what ever you use to cut.
if none of that stuff works for you then maybe you should try going to this website:
www.selfinjury.net/
its got a lot of alternative that you could try
hope i helped and good luck!
*rachy*
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