I have dealt with many emotional and psychological issues both personally and in my career. I've gone thru emotional, verbal and sexual abuse, severe depression, therapy, emotional hospitalization, sexual addiction diagnosis, divorce and suicidal ideations. So I've been there, I'm a healthy person now and in a healthy relationship. But I've definately learned from the School of Experience and I'd love to be able to help others with the knowledge that all that has brought me. I'm not judgemental but I will be very frank if with my OPINIONS.
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well i have been searching and searching for psychaitrist but i still did not got anything i dont know it is so hard now to get help from anybody cause they taking them time and they dont feel what you feeling plz anyone who no i doctor let me know a professional whos dealing with agrophobia panic disorder plz let me know asap
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www.online-therapy.com Choose agrophobia.
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I know it's really hard to deal with this thing for me and to be honest I lost all my hopes what I had (link)
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Honey, please don't do anything drastic. Get help. Call the help hotline the number is 1-800-273-8255. I know what it's like to be hopeless and the future look so grimm that you want to curl up in the fetal position and stop breathing or disappear. Please call the number. I am here for you and I am an RN but I'm not a psych nurse and I'm not trained in coaching people thru this sort of crisis. Please call. Let me know if you need to talk.
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Hi I'm 27 yerrs old female who is suffering from agrophobia panic attacks. Disorder for 4months now. Every thing started 7years ago so I start taking paxil 20mg and it was worked great for me. Till 7years after 4months it came back and I increase my dose up to 30 mg but is not seem to. Work it got worse for me because I even. Scared to live the house and sometimes even home don't feel safe I don't know what to do but even my relationship is going not well because of this I do want to get better as soon as possible but this fear what I. Feel....I can't do this anymore pleasesomeone help me I do not want to loose control of my life but I feel like I will if this is not going to stop what should I do? (link)
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Dear Agrophobia, Medications are good for controling the symptoms but the actual problem is still there. I recommend that you seek help in the form of a psychologist who specializes in panic attacks and unrealistic fears. There are ways to unlearn these fears so they no longer control your life and keep you from being able to have healthy relationships. It takes a lot of self work and determination but you can get to a healthy state of mind and only have to use the medications for breakthrough anxiety.
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hi dear!!am 20 years old female(India). one boy loves me sincerely.even i do..he is so much possessive.. he will not let me to talk with any other boys because of his possessiveness..but sometimes i hate him because of this attitude because i will not be able to talk to any other boys even though i think they are my good friend.... he always cares for my proper dressings..always he warns me to dress up neatly..i assure you i always dress up neatly..sometimes without my knowledge my shawl can move aside.. but he never forgive me for that.. always he scolds me in public that i wanted to adjust my shawl..even he has bet me once in our bus-stop before all because of this shawl matter.. i was so much hurt when i asked for the reason crying he said i bet you because your shawl was not proper and so happy that i have full rites to beat you since you are my wife like that he said...also if i put mobile in silent mode then if he is not able to contact me he will get more tension and scolds me like a hell... all these silly matters hurts me a lot.. but still he loves me he cares for me like heaven..he is in true love with me... whenever he scolds me i feel like hating him and i feel like i lost my life totally..Even though i think to leave him my heart is not allowing me..am suffering to see him lonely..because he has no friends in college...what should i do???is this kind of love important??always it ends up with a fight whenever i think to be happy with him... i cant lead a good life..he is the person who can do anything for me.he is my family friend too..am the girl always wanted to be happy..always i should feel free..i hate anyone who comple me to do something..but in this love am happening to sacrifice many things..if i change my character and sacrifice all the things for my guy,wil i be able to be happy?? if i decide to leave him,there will be no one for me who cares for me but at the same time i wanted to be happy..what should i do??please help and advice me.... (link)
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Honey, You're not happy now. You're sad, Just look at the opening statement "to get out of sadness." Your desperate heart is crying out to be free, to fly away and be loved and appreciated and to be beautiful. I don't know much about your traditions but I grew up in a very strict home where the man owns his wife and is very dominant so I watched my mother all my life live in depression and ultimate loneliness because she wasn't allowed to have friends. She suffer much depression and pain from this lifestyle but divorce was unacceptable in our culture so she is stayed with him. He is my father and I love him but to this day I have feelings of animosity toward him for all the things I saw him do to my mama my whole life. Trust me you don't want to bring daughters into that environment. They will grow up never understanding that they are able to think for themselves, feel for themselves, form their own opinions and that they don't have to be inferior to men. The cycle will continue until you break it.
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hey i am 13 and cut myself my mom knows and recently said uprovoked "I have enough problems without you slitting your wrists and I hate you for it"want to stop its sbut soooo hard tstarted at age 11.how caN i deal with this? (link)
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Slitting your wrists and any other forms of self-mutilation or self harm is usually a way to give an emotional pain release thru a physical act. It may be a result of some guilt you are placing on yourself or as a result of being bullied at school. Either way it's very hard for parents to comprehend how someone could do such a thing. They may think you are attention-seeking. You need to seek emotional therapy, this isn't a physical problem, it's a psychological one. If nothing else reach out to the counselor or nurse at your school, under HIPPA laws they have to protect your confidentiality but they will help you figure out where to go for help. Remember the crisis hotline is toll free and confidential 1 800 273 TALK.
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have a great day to the one who reads this... am 20 years old(female)..i am from india.i fell in love with a boy..he also loves me truly...but all the people in our class making funny comments of both of us which hurts me a lot..on another side my boyfriend hurts me so much by making complains often that am not taking care of him...because of that am just getting irritated and feel like crying because i cant lead a happiest life in my college and also with him...my boyfriend is not at all understanding me and scolding me like a hell even i make silly mistakes... now am worrying that why i fell in love..what the hell made me do this.. i can't leave him now because he will suffer a lot thinking of me..and i should also not miss a guy like him because no one can care for me in this world like him...but i cant lead a happiest life..i hate all my college friends and also am not at all fine being with my boyfriend.. just hate everything....feel like dying..what to do at this situation please guide me..am so much depressed and suffering a lot...please i need advice.. (link)
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Dear "about getting out of my depression." Wow, where to begin..... First, Dump him. You are not responsible for his happiness. You ARE, however, responsible for your own happiness and well being. You seem like a very sweet lady but you let other people blame you for their bad mood. Your "boyfriend" has no right to ever scold you!! Even if you make a very bad mistake, he is not your father. And as for no one ever caring for you like he does.... you're fooling yourself honey. He doesn't care for you. He cares for himself. He is a self centered egotistical man who makes you think it's your sole responsiblity in life to make him happy and meet his every whim. Well, I'm sorry love but he needs to get in touch with reality. But since it's not him seeking help and no one can change him but himself.... it's you who is seeking help, the only thing you can do to improve your situation is to get as far away from this looser as possible. And you so-called friends too. If they were true friends, they'd accept you for who you are and be happy for you if you are happy. If however, they are seeing how he is treating you and trying to make you see that he's a jerk.... perhaps you should give them an ear and listen to them, they are saying it because they love you. You may not be able to see it right now because you are thinking with your emotions/ not your logic.
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Since I was 14, I've been depressed. I'm now 20 and it hasn't subsided. I was diagnosed as Bipolar II a year ago and I'm now on wellbutrin and lithium. It does seem to help a little, I am very happy sometimes. But I constantly feel guilty about stuff I did in the past, or how I spoke to someone recently, etc.. I get upset over small things and have numerous crying spells every week. I'm seeing a therapist now but I don't know if she knows the extent of how I'm feeling. I don't know how to convey my thoughts without sounding retarded or psychotic. Another thing, I'm always thinking about killing myself or other people who've pissed me off. I can't talk to her about that. I tried with another therapist and they threw me in a hospital. Men I used to be in a relationship with, who've done me wrong, have no idea that I have homicidal thoughts about them on a day to day basis. I'm tired of being like this. I'm tired of being angry and sad and guilty, and I'm tired of mistreating my friends and family but I'm so easily annoyed, I'm always snapping. Most importantly, I'm just tired of being like this over nothing. Nothing traumatic has happened in my life to upset me this much. Nothing huge, anyway. Just a few traitors and liars and schemers. Just a lot of people that did little things to me, but the little things pile up until I can't even see the details anymore, all I see is a wall of anger and hurt. How do I make it stop? Can anyone relate? (link)
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Solidadvise4teens says it all.... get help and be honest. I'm an RN and I know you feel crazy but you can't get the help you need if you don't tell the professionals what you feel. And a hospital stay in a good facility with a good emotional health department is crutial to make sure you get your medications adjusted correctly.
Thanks for your response. I'm not a psych professional and I've never worked on psych but I have been a patient on an emotional health unit. I was diagnosed with severe depression, suicidal ideations, OCD related to sexual addiction and history of sexual abuse... I'm not trying to make this about me. I just want you to know that I've been in a place where I felt very unstable. So tell me about your two previous stays.... Do you feel that it was benificial? Were you able to be totally honest about how you feel? Are you on any kind of suicide watch where you've signed a contract to contact a friend if you feel like harming yourself or do your parents and loved ones keep all knives and other potentially harmful objects locked away for you to use only under supervision? What are you doing to protect yourself and others right now? Please make a vow to at least call the suicide hotline if you feel like doing anything to hurt yourself or anyone else. 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
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