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A LiL BiT ABOUT MOi.,.,.,

i DONT SEE THE POiNT iN ASKiNG STOOPiD QUESTiONS.. iT BORES ME :(

ERM WAT ELSE?
i LOVE LiSTENiNG TO MUSic, GOiNG OUT WiTH MY FRiENDS, GETTiNG A LiL BiT TiPSY AND OF COURSE ADViCENATORS :p iTS SO GREAT, THE AMOUNT OF TiMES I NEEDED ADViCE AND iVE COME HERE, iTS AMAZinG.

THATS ALL i CAN THinK OF RiTE NOW
:D EMMA ♥
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ok im like seriously self conscious about myself....like im about 5'4" and im 155lbs.. and i hae it.. but every sys that i look good adn stuff but i dont feel like i look good at all.... heres a picture of me.... http://www.myspace.com/ann1990marie adn im not doing this to promote my myspace either... u owuld have to go to my pics and look in there and im the one in the green dress but i dont normally look like that cuz i accually have curly hair thats down to my mid back... just that pic was taken in november... so i just wanted to kno what some people thought... (link)
oh my god i wish i had a figure like yours, why dont you believe the comments that are put there?? your pretty and slim and i wouldnt worry about what anyone says. xx


This question has been bothering me for quite sometime now...

If someone is depressed why wouldn't they want to reach out and get help?

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hey
think it is because they dont think anyone cares enough to help them, or they might be ashamed to admit they are depressed and get help.

im not too sure though,
maybe researching depression on the internet might help you?


Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....I'm not too sure if i am a guy or a girl, it's really confusing and my parents wont tell me. So how can i tell if im a guy or a girl???? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!

plzz no stupid answersss (link)
hey

well it depends how you are feeling inside,
what do you like to play with? boys toys or do you like to dress up and sing/dance/act all that kind of stuff.
i believe your gender is more psychological (sp?) than biological, its to do with the hormonal imbalance in your brain.

so if you feel feminine, your caring, gentle senstive etc then its more than likely your a girl, if your more masculine, agressive, independant then its more than likely your a male. these are only gender sterotypes, they dont have to be exact for you to be one or the other.

by the way, im interested in knowing your age?

hope i helped xXx
(by the way i am studying A level psychology)




Hey. I'm 13/female. See, my mom just sent me to go live with my dad who.. well he hits me a lot, and sometimes he touches me in places that..ehh your father shouldn't go. And yes, my mom does know this, she just doesn't want me and my sister living with her full time. I cant tell the police because im the only person he does stuff to and it owuld kill my sister and step-family if he were put away... and the would all hate me. I'm thinking about just..ending everything but i don't want to hurt my friends. Can anyone help.. ? (link)
you have to tell some one!
please do. im worried for you... first of all your father he shouldnt be touching you in those places and he certainly shouldnt be hitting you. your so young anything he does will remain in your mind for eternity. no one would hate you for telling the police whats happening, its rong and he shouldnt be doin those things. maybe talking to some one you trust that dosent know your family. dont think about ending everything. ive felt that way before and now i realise what a mistake it would be. your sooo young to be thinkin of ending your life you have many things to look forward to.. like a boyfriend, first kiss, getting married, having kids doing all things in your dreams. please dont do anything stupid.. please?
hope i helped
emma xoxox
anything else just drop one in my inbox =)


okay im 14,female, i have braces,and i still suck my thumb, i need mucho help! like BAD i need tips. every time i try to stop i just can't its addicting. none of my friends know i do it. please HELP =) thanks ♥♥♥ (link)
im not sure where you live but in the UK go into boots or superdrug and ask at the counter for somw special nail varnish. it leaves a nasty taste in your mouth when you suck your thumb. or wear an elastic band and when you start to suck your thumb ping it really hard so you stop sucking your thumb.
hope i helped *rate me :D*
emma xx


Hi. im not writing this question for people to tell me im unique and crap, but lately, ive just been feeling bad. I think im ugly. People always tell me that im ugly. its just my face..i mean my nose is just so weird that i feel so self conscious and whenever im with my friends it hurts me so much always seeing guys all flirting with them and stuff. ive never been asked out, and people always tell me that im ugly. i know its mean, and only sometimes i feel pretty. i know that if i feel beautiful, i am beautiful, and being confident is bueatiful, but i dont want that crap. i need some way to make me feel better about myself....any suggestions? (link)
hi
first let me tell you that you are not ugly! and the more you believe that the more ugly you will feel! so stop putting yourself down all the time. and about you thinking your ugly. i know its hard to stop feeling so down about yourslef but honestly once you start to realise what a great person you are and what great people are out there for you to meet the less ugly you will feel. you mention your nose dont be self conscious about it. whenever you are with your mates again just think in your mind "i am gorgeous" over and over again untill you shine with confidence and beauty. honestly. so who cares that you have never been asked out? just wait for the perfect boy to come and whisk you off your feet! :) just be happy and let your confidence shine through. i think part of your low self esteem is pschological sorry if the answer not what you wanted but its true. and also treat yourself to some new clothes, make up transform your image. if you are really unhappy with the way you look, go to your doctor and explain and you might get a free operation to fix the problem (i dont know if you are in the uk but that is what happens over here) but then remember if you do, you have let your low self esteem bully you into surgery and u want to be happy without any thing like that!
hope i helped.... tell me how it goes
love emma
x
:)


Let me start out by saying that my sister is a nightmare. A big fat nightmare who makes your life turn into serious Hell. She is a thirteen year old snob who gets in everyones business, demands things from my parents who take it even though they don't like it. She has been damaging my life the most by trying to beat the crap out of me in front of her friends when I was severly sick, she didn't beat me up, but she kept trying to, and it made me upset, and I cried because it my body was aching. She has tried to smart mouth me in front of her friends, when my mom tells her not to do something, when shes not around, she will do it anyways, and when I try to stop her, she get up in my face, and says, "What are you gonna do about it?" Now, when things like this happens, I call my mom, and she'll just say, "stop it" even though thats probably about the hundreth time shes done it. She also lies, very bad. My parents know, but not as much, she tries spying on my phone conversations with my boyfriend, she is also known to read my other sisters diary to her friends on the phone, and laugh about it with them. She also told all of her friends something SO personal, I am not going to say, but it was so personal about my older sister. My parents do nothing about this. No matter how many times I try to ask them nicely, or I just slam it in their faces, they go talk to her, and she plays the innocent one. I told my mom tonight that she has made my life a living Hell, and all she said was, "well, she said the same thing about you" That made me so angry, because she looked at me like she believed her over me or she didn't know who to believe, HELLO! I am the innocent one here, everyone always says mean things about her, so they know shes the one whose rude! She is also known to hurt me in front of people, she'll grab underwear with blood in it, and will announce to everyone that its mine! When its really hers! I have dealt with this for a long time, and today, I just couldn't take it, I screamed in my room so loud, and tore all of the posters off of my wall, and scratched my face. I have gone crazy! When I heard somebody pick up the phone while me and my boyfriend were talking, I ran to my mom and yelled, "GET HER OFF THE PHONE NOW I HATE HER SO MUCH SOMEBODY JUST KILL HER!" And then, I went rambling on to my boyfriend how much I just want to kill her, and now I keep day dreaming about ways that I can kill her. I also kept saying, "shes a slut, a whore, a b*tch, a little sh*t, and an a*shole." I know shes a slut, but I will not get into detail about that. But I am asking somebody to please not tell me I need anger management, I know that this behavior is not abnormal, what person would not go crazy after dealing with a lying sister and parents who won't do anything about it? My behavior is scaring me, I've never hated somebody this much, I usually just like everybody, but everytime I think about wanting to kill her and it makes me feel good I get scared! I can't really talk to my parents, I've screamed it in their ears, and I've told them nicely, they don't listen to me.


Also, do not even think about having me talk to my sister, she is greedy, and selfish, all she cares about is herself, seriously, if its not her way, theres no way, shes a spoiled brat. So I guess what I'm asking is does anybody think I might be taking this too far? I know that I'm not, but does anyone think different? I know that this shouldn't get to me, but I have to live with her! I need ways to take my anger and sadness out, because all of my posters are ripped off of my wall. Also, my dad is getting me a therapist, so I can at least have somebody to talk to, but the whole time I'm probably going to ramble on about how much I hate her and wish she was dead, I have truly never felt this deeply of hate. My silly boyfriend wants me to fight her, but I'm not going to. But I hate her enough to. So, could anyone say something about this, like advice because I am in a huge puddle of misery. I just wish somebody would just think, "Maybe Sarah [me] has feelings too" when she makes fun of me, I wish she'd think, "Maybe since Sarah has depression, I shouldn't call her names because she feel pain too" And it makes me cry at night wondering how I'll ever get out of this Hell hole, somebody please give me comfort or anything that could help me. I've told my parents about my misery, so don't think that I havn't told anyone about this. I will rate. (link)
hi
this sounds stupid but wen shes sleeping go into her room and smother her with a pillow... where gloves so no evidence is left or try drugging her food or drink with laxatives




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