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i like this guy a lot...i have liked him for like 2 1/2 years and no1 knows that i like him except like 4 friends. every1 always tells me that he likes me, (which people think is a bad thing because he is sort of a dork in my grade). but there is this other girl who is REALLY popular (nice, pretty, funny) and when i am in classes with the guy i like but she isn't in them, he flirts with me. but when he is in a class with me and the really popular girl he flirts with her A LOT and like forgets me. he is moving away in a little while and i really need to know what i should do? any ideas? thanx

my b/f is 2 years older than me... so i understand what ur goin threw... i think that u should talk to him on the phone or something and tell him that you like him and ask him what he thinks..
See when i ment my bf i liked him when i saw him n then i talked to him a lot n then he just told me one day he liked me n i was like well whatta bout age?? He said age never matters to him because he loved me..
Maybe he thinks the same way as the guy u like?? well i hope i helped..
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how do u make out?? i know w. ur lips but like do always use tounge r like kiss each others lips??idk! i have a b/f who tryed to make a move on me but i like turned my head its like cum on kiss me but when he goes to do it im like really scared..i guess its b/c idk how

ahh god i remeber the first time i kissed... wow.. i just think i did it.. u just make out normally but then after a couple u threw ur tounge in and just like use it to massage his mouth.. lol..
hope i helped :)
Leah

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Im 14 and a female and My B/f and i have been together for 4 months. We broke up a couple of weeks ago and he asked me back out. He said the reason for dumping me was that i never called him and didnt see him enough. Things havent been the same since the break-up. He never tells me he loves me anymore and acts different. What should i do?

well.. idk if he reall yloved u he would probally talked ot u about it first... n not break up w/ u ... but i mean thats what i think.. But if you Really love him still maybe u should tell hym that things havnt changed... maybe you guys can work everythiing out n go back out again??

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I met this guy at the movies..we had been talkin for quite awhile on the internet. He goes to a different school and my best friend knows him. Well i think he is interested in me but i dont know..how do i find out if he likes me or not?

Well.. i mean not everyone like sum1 after meeting at the movies n talking online for a while...
i think u guys should meet up more...THEN tell hym u like hym..
Hope i helped.. XoX-Leah

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My so called friend i think is only my friend cuz he likes my girlfriend and he even said so, i think there is a chance that she likes him, should i see if she really wants to go with him, or let her know that he really is a jerk or what...?? help please!!

Well usually if guys like theyre g/f then they beat them up... but idt thats neccasary...!

i think you should talk to you ""FRIEND"" n i mean b like yo shes mine... it isnt cool dat u like her.... but if u rly like her... then maybe she likes you..
then talk to your g/f n shee what she seys..then ask her if she likes hym...
i mean if she does then dump her @ss... but if she dont er w.e. i mean i think u should believe her... i mean after all .. she is ur g/f..
HOPE i HELPED..
xOx--Leah--> GL to you!!

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ok so i went out with this kid Sean, and things started to get weird so i broke up with him, then i was starting to think of asking him back out but i thought he liked this girl Sarah, who i happen to hate, and he said he didnt but the next day when i was going to ask him out he was going out with her .. what should i do?

heyy hunn!! i have had the same prob...
Just tell hym "you like hym n everything n then just b like yeah do u think ud eva go back out w/ me??"
Maybe he does like u alot .... maybe that gurl was just a g/f to try to piss you off or sumthing???
Well maybe he does like you n he just didnt wanna b lonely but he rly likes u alot!! :)

Hope i helped
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xOx Leah

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ok, so u hear about these girls who have guys as best friends..well im one of those girls. any ways, brandon os my best guy friend, and i love him..but not like that. well, it turns out he has the biggist crush on me...and he told me he loves me more than anyone else. but the prob. is..is that i just like him as a friend. Hes the sweetest guy a girl culd have..but im just not really ready for a relationship. and hes really hard on himself, and i would do anything to keep from breaking his heart. But if i do end up having feelings for him...i would definatly go out with him. but hes kinda dorky...and i kno i kno it shouldnt matter, but wut if people tried to make fun of us as a couple...so what should i do??

yeah, i had the same problem...
well if you rly rnt ready then just b like yeah Brandon.. "im rly not ready for a relationship right now... n if we were to go out... n if we were to break up we might ruin summ of this bond we have...n i dont wanna do that...."
i went out w/ my best guy friend.. n i totally blew it wen we broke up...
luv ya.. GL
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xox Leah

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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!

hey hun.... how bout u start...
i mean just b diff.. if u rly like hym the give hym a big PUSH :)!! lol ..
just b like... " have you eva thought of goin out wit me?" or sumthing like thatt..
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xox i hope i helped..
Leah

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If I have a crush on this guy, or like him, what is the best way to tell him and do i know if he likes me back?

well..... if u r friends w/ hym then just b like yeah i know its gunna b wierd to tell u this but i like u...
^^ if u guys r friends then he should understand!! :)!!
if u rnt then u should become better friends so then u guys can b closer for wen u do tell hym!!
i hope i helped!!
xox Leah

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what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that.

1st:base : making out

2nd:base: anything with hands/Getting fingured or giving a guy a handjob.

3rd:base: anything with mouth,getting eaten out or giving head.

4th:base:sex
xox Leah!! hope i helped you

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When a guy fingers you (I have lots of questions about it). Does it hurt or will you bleed? and should we make out at the same time..just, what happens and how does it feel and do guys like it when your wet and..well what should I do to make it the best for him too?
And what exactly is an orgasm.
I rate good.
PLEASE HELP!

hey, hun relax!! lol!!
it doesnt hurt... it shoulld feel good...lol.....and u can make out at the same time..it dont matter....
a orgasm is wen... u start to feel horny....
n u dont bleed.....

xoxo leah!

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When you are looking for a boyfriend..what are good trates to look for?

You want a guy who thinks your a queen..who will b there for u wen u fall....He should always for you n not JUST the way you look....Sweet,Kind,....Look for what you want...Sumone whos loyal....? ROmantic?? what eva you WANT!!! Make sure he thinks ur the greatest thing in the world!!


Leah

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what is a good way to get your mind off boys and concentrate more on school work?

Get a boyfriend.. lol...then you only concentrate on pretty much one guy... n then u can have more time for school work...Hey it worked for me!! lol
luv ya!!
Leah

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