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Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do??
It shooudlnt matter wheather hes cute or not. I have been thru this many times and its just like the more u get ot know the person and liek the guy the hotter they appear on the outside(i know it sounds tacky but its true..) especially if u like him-you should go for it and dont miss out on this chance!!
Well I'm "going out" with this guy from school..But when we talk we have like no conversation and I was talking to him about his ex-girlfriend and he said he didnt want her knwoing about me cuz they might be together in the future...well idk i didnt say anything...i think he wants me just for stuff...and when hes sick of me he'll leave...well i dont really like the guy i mean im just going out with him to see if i start liking him and so far our "relationship" is going nowhere. hes a pretty cool guy but i think we'd be better off as friends.. Hes a druggie, he drinks (im not into that) and he likes to rush into things with his gf's...ok so heres my problem. i wanna tell him i dont think going out is a good idea and im gonna tell him why i think that but i dont wanna seem..well mean i guess..the guy has been wanting to go out with me for over a year now! he was all excited cuz i told him i would do stuff (if i was comforable enough) to him but i wouldent go all the way...sooo idk its like hes using me for a while until he goes out with his x again...i wanna break up but i dont want him mad at me..any advice?? Thanks and sorry its so long!
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Ok-you definately need to break it off with this guy becuz he is obviously bad news. There are a couple ways to do this-he is probably not going totake it good either way but oh well. You can just talk to him nicely and mention that you would much rather be friends then b/f and g/f becuase things just arent feeling the same-or because your not feeling it. Or (i dont reccomend this way) you can say to him-i think your using me and i dont liek that feeling-i deserve better then this-so i think its time we break up. or you could talk to him first and ask if hes using you just for what you would do-or if you go over his house-just be like what if i didnt do anything with you-would you be mad or dump me?-and that should tell you if hes using you or not.
HoPe i HeLpEd!!
Alright here i go.. I really like this girl! i mean i really really really do.. And I've liked her since i met her (beggining of 6th grade) yes i kno thats a long time.. I really don't want to like her but I cant stop as much as i try!! it's soo hard! But I like love her though.. It's a cool feeling lol.. But the problem is.. she don't love me back =/.. Not even like actually.. I wanna give up soo bad but i can't.. I mean we gave it a try going out but it never worked I always got dumped! lol and I kinda feel wierd telling her that I like her cause I don't think she knows I still do.. Soo my dearest Cailin.. Should I give up ... or keep trying for her?
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Ok, well i can see where your coming from when you say you have liked her for a long time and almost non-stop. Maybe sometime soon she will realise that your a great guy and that shes missing alot...but if she doesnt come around soon enough you should probably move on to someone new who appricates you more.Im not saying totally give up or anything juss wait it out and see...