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Q: is it possible to like two guys? see i like both alot but i also like one A LITTLE more than the other but i still like both! lol confusing
Hey yea its very possible..once i liked about 10 guys at the same time..very common lol but go for the one you like more.

xox shannon

Q: ive never been kissed before and i have put off kissing my boyfriend. what exactaly is the right way to kiss a guy without looking like a dork?
ok well my current boyfriend was my first kiss and i was really nerveous too...dont worry it comes really natural trust me and you wont look like at dork at all...hope i helped xoox shann

Q: this is my 3rd boy friend and all the others i did NOTHING with n i no this one will wannna make out the other day before we were goin out he asked me if i new how to make out i said yeah but i really dont no how can someone explain and what can i pratice on
hey hun, im sorta goin through the same thing lol but i found this hopefully it helps you out:

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.


If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.


Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.


And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.


Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.


Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.


Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.


Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
^taken from http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm

heres another site that might help:

http://dating.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?site=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.virtualkiss.com%2Fkissinggames%2F

hope i helped you out...xo shannon

p.s good luck :)

Q: well I'm helping someone cheat on their girlfriend and I like him and he still likes me but I don't want to keep this a secret forever but I still wanna do things with him
well if you think about it if he likes you and hasnt dumped her yet then maybe he doesnt really like you that much and if you really like him and hes cheating on his girlfriend now dont you think he would cheat on you to? honestly hun i personaly wouldn go out with the guy but if want to go ahead and have fun..hope i helped xo shann

Q: Well,this guy i really like asked me out and i like him soo much no one will ever understand but hes dating one of my friends and i don't want her mad at me ! and my BEST friends older sister dated him too and now my best friends whole family is going to hate me !! And my best friends older sister is gonna wanna beat me up !! im soo scared please help !! i really like this guy and i need to get over my ex so what do i do ?
THANKS
well the sayin guys are whatever friends are forever or somethin like that lol...thats so true honestly it is if you want to stay friends with them then find another guy i no thats not what you want to hear and if your friends older sister is gonna beat you up then somethings wrong.....but if you dont want to find another guy then yea you should talk to the people and ask if it would be alright.. xo hope i helped shann

Q: Hey Im 13/f...i never had a REAL bf... I tihnk im afraid of getting into Relationships cuz my dad used to beat my mom..:-/* but every things all good now and they are divorced adn everything.. I never even kissed a guy....what shalllll i doo!*?
hey hun, im sooo sorry you had to live through that..well most guys are really sweet and if you really like a guy then go for it...im sure you know what signs to look for...alot of guys are really nice and wouldnt hit a girl (well all the ones i know) but still dont be afraid to go out with someone...oo and kissin i just got mine a few months ago...i had no clue but when it happens it comes really no lie normal to you..lol..

hope i helped xoxo shannon

p.s im 14

Q: ok theres this guy that i might never see again but i think i love him and im pretty sure he likes/loves me too butim still not 100% sure that he does... but what should i do? the last time i will see him is thursday... should i tell him or wait and see what he does?
ok well if you really like the guy then tell him and if your a little unsure about that then ask him and see what he says and if he likes then ask him/tell him u love/like him alot and see if you guys want to hook up hope i helped xoxo shann

Q: I am very shy and that's affecting my life, I can't find a boyfriend or make new friends because of it but I have good old friends. Can you give me some tips on overcoming my shyness and talking to people?
ok well im kind of a shy person as well..i just started to not be as shy as i was lasat year but basiclly all you really have to do is have fun and be yourself. have your friends introduce you to some of their friends and show people that your not just a shy person you can also be a fun out going person too...hope i helped xoxo shann

Q: Me and my ex have been apart for about a month now and i miss him liks soo much its crazy, i play love songs all the time and its so stressful.. he said we would get back together but i wanna know when but he said he didnt kno he needs some time.. but i havent talked tohim about it n a while and i wanna know if he still feels the same way i do... I juss.. Miss him alot :*( what do i do
ok well your situation sounds alot like mine..well me and my ex broke up a couple of months ago and i just started to miss and like him alot and im basically doing the same things you are...what you should do is ask the guy how he feels about you and see what he says..if he doesnt know at the very moment then just stay/be friends with him until you guys know what you want to do like weather or not go out...*

Q: I went out with a guy for 3 months and we eventually told eachother we loved eachother and we both meant it. he dumped me and i have never gotten over it. Recently my friend told me that he is thinking about getting back together. Should we try again or just stay friends?
well if u still like the guy and hes thinkin bout gettin mck wit u then go ahead...if things dont work out then just be like i just wanna be friends/stay friends...

Q: Okay..well theres a guy im going out with and its been a month and a half and well, i need to know a way i can break up with him, and well ive seen many questions like this asked before, plz dont tell me to tell him the truth..becuz everyone is saying that, all i need is to know what i should say to him but in a way where he wont hate me because we go back..we are good friends and im afraid if i break up with him it wont be the same :( but ill rate high!
Plzz just gie me some ideas.

Signed, confused4life
xoxo
okay...two of my friends just broke and their realli close. their still realli close and nothin happened between them....just be like its been great/fun an all but i just dont think we sould go on honestly if he likes u enough he'll understand why u wanna break up wit him

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My name is Shannon.Im happily taken by Alex.I'm a sophmore and I play volleyball, swim. Im a very athletic girl and I love going shopping and hanging with friends.

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