hey people, im holly im 19 and im from scotland. im here to answer all your questions to the best i can, ive been through it all already anyway!! i try to answer fairly although i give my opinion at the same time...sometimes the answer may be a bitty harsh! i am trustworthy and will keep everything, you ask me personally, a secret. so go on, what are you waiting for...ask away! :)
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hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:( (link)
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one of the best nights out i ever had was at a gay bar i love gay men. one of my best friends is gay and i love him to bits i can trust him 100 percent and i can tell him anything we go out men hunting together! but seriously dont even think about killing your self if you wanna talk more check out my column ask me a question ill be your mate! good luck hope i helped :)
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Ok my X boyfriend has a gf and she a friend of mine, and i thought i really didnt like my X ne more but last night i found out that he gave her a huge hicky, and i got really jelous..i didnt feel like this b4 becuz i thot nothing would ever happen between them becuz he told me like a month ago he would never do that cuz he didnt really like her and he still liked me..but now i dont know what is happening?? some one please help! (link)
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yeah but at the end of the day she is the one with the horrible hicky and your neck is hicky free i wouldnt be jealous at all :)
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Hey sorry its long but I dont kno what to do. I love my boyfriend with all my heart n I could never love anyone this much. He is my whole world, he means everything n more to me. He has cheated on me a few times n I've cheated on him. But anyways this last time he cheated on me, he promised n swore on my life that he would never do it again, n said he loved me more then anything n he couldnt live without me. But now this girl is telling me that he tells her he misses her n wishes he could turn back tha hands of time, but he says tha same thing to me. We've been together 3 years, n we've broken up before n I just cant even live..I cant go on without him, I go crazy, we've been through so much, n I hurt myself whenever we fight...What do I do :( (link)
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leave him, it will be tough but you dont need this crap, there are plenty more men out there go find one where you wont get cheated on. this guy swore on your life and then breached that dont put up with that you dont wanna be the mug here :)
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Ok I am 14/f and my boyfriend and I have been going out for like 3 weeks now and he's great but lately we have been gettin into little fights. Like the other I was on AIM and my b/f and I werent really talkin that much... so I was talkin to my best friend tony... well my b/f got all mad and he says I dont ever talk to him and we made up but i really think that he is still mad... what should I do... I will rate high and I will take n e answers???
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your boyfriend is being over protective with a little jealousy blended in. i have alot of guy friends and there is one in particular who is my best friend but nothing would ever happen between us and you have to let your boyfriend know this, if he cant accept it then leave him the last thing you need at your age is someone telling you who you can and cant talk to hope i helped :)
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okay, my ex just got a new gf and i'm cool with it b/c i'm over him and she's pretty cool. well, me and my ex are like best-friends (he is my other brother) but the other night he told me that he was just going out w/ this girl for "kicks" and he asked for my help with fixing it. his gf doesn't know yet and i want to talk to him about it but everytime i talk to him now he tells people i was talking to him b/c i like him....how can i talk to him and help w/o him thinking that i'm trying to break up him and his gf? (link)
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your ex is your bro???
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Hey...okay well this may be a lil long but I'm really looking for a detailed answer. I really liked this totally hot guy Tyler. Everyone told me after a while that he had a "crush" on me and he was really interested in getting to know me better! So he ended up asking me to homecoming and everything went just as planned. We went to the dinner, to the dance, the whole 10 yards! We even kissed! BUT....after that things only got worse. We had really never talked THAT much b/c we're both shy but we still talked at least a lil. Well after homecoming I never saw him much anymore and he never really made an effort to talk to me when he did see me! Well eventually I found out he started going out w/ another girl who's homeschooled. I confronted him and told him I knew and it was no big deal. Well he wrote me a letter (which he NEVER does) and told me how sorry he was. I wrote back and told him not to feel bad. I pretend like I wasn't hurt and like I just didnt care. I also made it very clear I wanted to be friends! Even so he still didn't make the effort to talk to me....and I really do want to hang out b/c if something goes wrong w/ his g/f then maybe we can hook up and if not....I still wanna be his friend. How do I handel the situation so he doesn't think I want him. Do I ignore him and act like I did 5 mins before I knew he exsisted or do I just make an effort and talk to him. Someone help that has been in the situation before and "got the guy!" Even guys opinions would be nice. Thanks!
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ok, i have been in this situation before, not exactly but similer, i think you should let him know how you feel, it may sound dumb but it worked for me. i liked this guy who i thought liked me so everytime i was out i made the effort to go and talk to him but after a while he got a girlfriend i was gutted so i told him how i felt the next time i saw him out it took balls as i knew he had a gf but i did it anyway (with a little dutch courage!) anyway after a couple of weeks he told me him and his girlfriend had split up and he was dead chuffed when he knew i wanted to be with him cus he liked me too! so in your case i think you should do the same if he took the time to write you a letter then he must have some feelings for you - not alot of guys do that!
as for why he isnt talking to you maybe he is just a really shy person i think you will find that when you are with him, start off with you doing most of the talking, then he will feel more relaxed and realise that there is nothing to be shy about im sure you will work things out in the end hope this helps :)
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I sometimes feel the need to have a relationship, like my self-esteem is really low because I believe I need one (like a serious one)... is this normal? what should I do? (link)
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if your self esteem is low at 13 imagine what you will be like at 16 or 17 go and have fun with your mates before you get into a serious relationship but when you do make sure its someone special. :)
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Well this is confussing .. but well last year in 6th grade I met a boy named Ted, and I just became friends with Kelley well actually I knew them before, yet wasn't too close with them...=/ and then twords the middle of May I liked Ted, well May 25th me and him started going out ... yeah I know it's pathetic, I remember the date .. but yeah me and Kelley were like unsepertable until me and Ted broke up on June 25 =/ him and Kelley started going out.. well yeah enough of that now me and her are okay friends we each got 2 more times with Ted.. no wait I went out with Ted 7 times, and she went out with him 5 times which is cool but yeah .. this past sunday me and him met up (note: he was single) i met him at the bottom of his street and we went for a walk, next thing I know were at the woods?¿ and then he turns around and starts making out with me .. and yeah I liked it and all and the next thing I know he's fingering me? yeah it was awesome until everyone in school found out.. he thinks I told everyone when I didn't tell anyone because I didn't want anyone to think I am a slut (because people think people are sluts if they fucking hug a guy!!!) but I am hearing things that he hates me now, yet my friend told me doesn't.. but I don't know what to do anymore? I need help!!! Haha. (link)
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you should just talk to him and see what he has to say. explain you didnt say anything and someone must have seen you. im sure you will sort it out eventually :)
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