Well my friend Jake is in love with me, and I cant date anyone without him getting mad at me and I really wanna go out with this guy named Austin, but I cant I feel forced to go out with Jake cause if I dont everyone is going to get mad at me and he will hate me forever. Jake really loves me a lot all of my friends and his friends no it HELP! what do I do?
(I am a female and im 15)
well you have to look at it like what do you want more to lose your friend jake or go out with the kid you really like.
hope i helped..good luck
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There is this absolute gorgeous guy who I have somewhat of a crush on. My friends and I just started hanging out with him a few times this summer. He was flirting with one of my friends at a party. I was talking to him on IM that night, and we were flirting alot. He asked me when we were going to hook up. I told him only if hes not hooking up with other girls, and he said no only you. A few nights before he told me he wanted to hook up, he slept with this one girl. They didn't have sex, they just slept together. I don't want to go out with him, and I know this won't be anything serious, but I'm scard that if I hook up with him, I might get involved, and end up with a broken heart. I've never hooked up with a guy before, and this is the only guy I would ever want to. What do i do?
maybe you should give him a shot if its the only guy you would ever want to hook up with.
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heyy i really liek this kid but he goz 2 a different school and i really like him at should i do?
call him and ask him to come over or ask him if he wants to go somewhere like the mall or sumthin and get to know him better.
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ok well there's this guy in my neighborhood and i'm new here (well not really cuz i lived here for 3 years) but anyways... i think i have a crush on him and stuff but hes always around his friends and i met him like 3 years ago and we don't really talk and he's one year older than me.I'm really shy.... what should i do to get him to notice me???
go crazii ;] haha jk. invite him over to your house one day to hang out and try not to be shy cuz after he leaves you'll think about all the things you should have done and guys really don't like the shy type..so just act like hes your family or someone ur not shy infront of.
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last night we were online talking and i asked him who he was talking to, his ex gf carrie who goes to mentor and i dont even know her but i have heard about her and im like oh.... because i got extremely jealous and i never thought i would get jealous from him talkign to a girl and i dont even know why i did.... must have been because shes his ex and then hes like "she seems upset" and im like maybe she needs your makeup sex and i was being super gay about it and stuff and he stopped talking to me online and signed off to call her which made me feel bad....and.... then i signed off to go to bed cuz i felt upset and he called me and asked what was wrong and i said i didnt wanna talk about it and stuff and i went to bed but we still werent fighting and then today things were fine but i was still a little gay and just every little thing has annoyed me and i feel like talking to him im always being interrupted and i can never say what i have to say and everything i say is used against me and i feel bad for everything i say or do and i feel so frustrated and hurt and mad and sad all at the same time so we were on the phone and hes like "youre always selfish and i have never said anything" so i got super hurt and defensive and pissed so i was like "whatever im going bye" and he said bye and i hung up. and he just has a way of making me always feel bad. cuz hes like "sorry im a shitty bf" and i didnt say nething and hes like "thanks for telling me im not" and stupid crap like that. and hes like "ur selfish and i dont know how to get through to u". i dont wanna talk about it to him because he never says nething when im with my guy friends....but then again none of them are my ex's! im sick of always being scared to do anything because he will make me feel bad.... i cant deal with always feeling bad for everything! its like he can do whatever he wants but i cant because its wrong if i do it. what do i do?
you really should tell him that you are jelous of him talking to his ex and you should tell him that he hurts you alot and also that he makes you feel bad..don't let someone do that to you..
hope i helped-good luck
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