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SRY THIS IS LONG ILL RATE A 5 TO ANY1 WHO ANSWERS IT!!!
okay..im really confused and have no idea what to do...im stuck between 2 guys...the one guy i went out with for about 8 months and we recently broke up about a month and a half ago...well all of a sudden after a month of not talking to me he calls me and says he misses me and wants to get back together with me...the other guy i went out with about a year and a half ago...we have been good friends ever since we broke up...and he recently had a gf but broke up with her bc he liked me and wants to go out with me...i dont know what to do bc i like both of them sooo much and it's so hard...i thought it was going to b easy bc the one guy i thought we werent going to talk to again...SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!! (link)
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I think you should go out with the one that you dated a year and a half ago. I think it's weird that all of a sudden he's like oh come back to me, ya know? The other guy stayed friends with you AND broke up with his girlfriend for you. Hope this helps you.. :)
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i think i'm in love with my best friend...we tell each other everything and we dated a loooooong time ago and i never got over him...idk..i think i'm crazy.. (link)
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No you aren't crazy, you just aren't over him. It's good that you are still close friends with him. A lot of couples grow apart when they break up. At least you have the advantage of knowing you have a chance with him (since you've been with him before). Maybe he's feeling the same way and wants to get back together but doesn't know how you'll react. There's a lot of things you could do. You could throw him little hints about it or even talk to him about it (which could risk your friendship changing). My advice is to keep being his close friend, a lot of times guys have to go through a few relationships to realize that the best person for them has been there for them the whole time. Hope this helped :)
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Okay so I am 16 my boyfriend is 18, he is leaving for college in august, We were talking last night about how we go so well together and he was telling me how lucky he felt to have me and such. I asked him about what he thought was going to happen after he left, if he thought it would still work and he said "Whell prolly not" I thought he was kidding maybe, so I looked at him blankly and he replied with "well not to be an ass but those situations never really seem to work out, I hope it does but I just dont know" So then I just let it go and said "well we dont have to think about that yet". Ugh it was just really sad, I want to know if I should get out before I fall in love and then he leaves and I have my heart broken or if I should just wait it out and see what may happen, I think that I could be already falling for him...and Im not sure if I should tell him that and if I do im not sure how.....thank you guys :) (link)
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When people go to college, obviously things change. If the college is far away you need to think about whether or not ya'll can keep it going. Some of my friends have been in similar situations where they haven't worked out. But if you and your bf think you can make it work then definitely try. But otherwise I would say get out of the relationship if his college is too far away. You don't want to be head over heels for someone and then have them break your heart ya know? Hope this helps sweet
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okay well im a freshman and i have a boyfriend (a junior) who used to smoke and party all the time. And i kno he likes to drink but i told him if he ever went back to smoking or got drunk that i would leave him with no questions asked. And i have this trusting problem... i dunno it's just realy hard for me to belive people. Like i always think their lieing to me or will eventually. I have my reasons why (family issues id rather not discuss. And he swears on his life that he won't get drunk ever again. But what if hes lieing to me and has been lately?? But i kno he loves me alot and wouldn't do anything that wouldn't make me happy. But i still have my doubts. Do you think he still drinks? And any ideas on how to help with this trusting thing? Any advice at all in general id be willing to take! thanks so much i love you! (link)
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It seems like he's not lying to you and if he says he loves you a lot then give him a chance. Sometimes it's hard to trust people when other people have let you down but try the best you can. And I wouldn't worry about it because usually when someone has been drinking or smoking you can smell it. Hope this helps
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Ok this guy really likes me. He asked me out today. I didnt want to hurt his feelings by sayin no so I said I dont know. And he started crying. I felt soo bad. What should i do?? He's 15/m and im 13/f. Please help. I rate high. (link)
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well the guy must really like you if he started crying, but i think the best thing to do is say very nicely that you arent interested in a boyfriend right now but you think he's a very sweet guy and all. just make sure you are honest with him about how you feel, there's nothing worse than lying about it. hope this helps :)
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how do you get over a broken heart? (link)
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you will get over it eventually, it will take time but one day you will wake up and everything will be different. just think of other things and make plans with people. keeping your mind off of it is the best way i think. just try to stay positive. i hope everything gets better sweetie.
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