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Q: theres a guy i like in my church group and we have church sleep overs (for our youth group only) and the leaders always fall asleep really fast and we go into the sanctuary and make out (and the other people in the group just stay downstairs cus they're watchi ng a movie) and i absolutely love him he's the perfect guy with like glasses and not popular but when you take them off u see a really handsome face with gorgeous eyes and i'm not a popular girl so this is absolutely awesome for me. after like 15-20 mins we go downstairs and we get in our own sleeping bags but i woke up one morning and we were still in our sleeping bags but like right up against eachother like literally i woke up against his cheast and i would really really really like to know if it would be a bad idea to do any romantic things with my guy because we're in church but isnt it like the perfect place? lol. No but he's sooo awesome and sweet and i just dont want to wake up like naked and be embarrased. he respects me so its not like he'd rape me or take advatage of me. i just want to know whether you guys think it's bad to express my love for him in a church because you never know...ahg i don't know please any advice to help clear my mind would be greatly appreciate. Thanks. o by the way, im 14/f.

if you can find a different place to hang out then do it but if not the church is fine i think if you know for a fact that you love him.

Q: Ok i date this kid franklin and i really like him and the other day we were hugging and he really wanted to kiss me.he was looking at my lips waiting for me to get closer to him to kiss him but instead i backed up and smiled im scared if dont kiss him he wont like me anymore. help me please.

really just think whats so bad about a kiss? kissing is so nice and sweet in opinion there is nothing to be afraid about...if you need anything dont be afraid to email me xoashhx33@hotmail.com or im me xoashhx33

Q: allright well my boyfriend really wants to go to second base. and im not sure if i do and like he has asked me before and i told him i would rather wait. and stuff but i can tell that he really wants to and lately he has begged me and stuff and i dont want him to like get mad at me for not doing it. and i just dont know what to do.

okay well 1st of all
how old are you?
and 2nd how long have you been going out?

2nd base is no big deal
but 3rd is (you wrote third in the headline and 2nd in the question) if its 3rd hes buggung you about follow your heart you know yourself better than anyone if you feel comfortable do it

but 2nd is really nothing dont be nervous or scared about that

Q: Ok my really close friend,Jeff,is also my crush.I mean he asked me out and stuff but i turned him down caus I didnt think my friends would like him.Now how do I call him back and tell him how I feel?

don't call him, it may be too akward but i think you should write him a note and just be honest with him.

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Hey Hey Everyone,
I'm Ashlee,
Most people call me Ashlee
But i personally like Ash better
I'm 14 years old
And this coming school year
I will be a Freshman in Highschool
I have anxiety&&depression
I was diagnosed with anxiety when i was like 7
The depression was so scary and i never want to
fell like that again.

If you Ever have anything you need to talk about anxiety or depression please please please feel free to ask me anything, i know what your going through.

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my hair is never perfect
i drop tons of stuff
i get embaressed a lot
my makeup gets messed up
i am not very good in math
i actually suck in math
my friends and i fight
my mom and i don't get along at times
my room is normally a mess
and i don't get my homework done till that day before class.

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