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Hi I'm Ali. I'm 15 and I'm in 10th grade. *Yay!* I'm origionally from New York but I moved up to Maine. I have a sister who is 13 and a 3 year old brother. At the moment my 17 year old cousin is living with us. He just moved in around april. Long story. I tend to be shy at first but I eventually warm up. I'm always the one my friends turn to for advice or just for someone to talk to. My dad is a phsychiatrist so I wonder if it's in my genes. *lol* I can be very fun, but also serious when I need to be. I tend to make good grades but I have to work for them. So thats me! Not too interesting. Oh well.
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how can i proove to mi boifriend that i love him?..and how can i make him believe me that i didnt cheat on him?
You need to have a sit down talk with him. Make it a long talk. You just need to express your true feelings. If he doesn't believe him then he either doesn't put s lot of trust in people or, you have done something that may have taking his trust away. You have to find out how he feels too. Figure out why he doen't trust you. Good luck.
freshman/f
I like a guy who is a junior. He knows who I am but we don't talk or anything. How can I talk to him without looking immature or desperate? lol
(Guys, if you can help PLEASE do! :o))
Well, if you don't want to look desperate, just try and get to know as a friend. If you don't want to look immature just kind of joke around with him. Try and make him laugh. Don't follow him around or anything. If there's a place where both you and him hang out, 'accidentaly' go there at the same time as him. Basically treat him as a kid your own age. Because he needs to like you for YOU. Good luck!
Hey, I'm kind of confused... well anyways, my friend (shes a girl), we were hanging out with some other people and trick or treating and stuff, and then like my other friend is just like... "You are a lucky man" and then im just like why? and then he said "Because someone likes you" and I knew he ment my friend lets call her R from now on, but yeah and he then said "You are good, but she says you are short and too young" (where as im 14, shes 16.) So I was just like... "oh.. ok.." well you see I really like this girl.. but I'm too shy to make the first move. What can I do? (14/m)
Just talk to her. It sounds like she likes you, too. She's probably just too shy to make any moves because she may be afraid of what her friends think. Good luck!
Should i ask out a girl everyone hates in school?
EVERYONE hates her? If a lot of people seem to hate her then maybe find a little more about her. Just because ther has to be a reason she's disliked, right? But if you truley like her and it's not just a joke, that go ahead! It would probably boast her self-esteem, too.
i guess this might be a stupid question, but something kind of depresses me. my boyfriend asked me last night would it be okay if he spent new years with his guys this year. he said that him and i spent the last 2 new years together and he wants to hang with his friends. ofcourse i said yeah, because im not the controling type. well, even though i said yes, it makes me a little sad knowing that he doesnt want to spend it with me. its like, why cant i chill with his friends too? its not like i never had. do any of you guys think i should tell him how i feel? or do any of you think that im wrong for feeling the way i feel?
thanks for your time.
18/f
I think he just wants to hang out with the guys for a day. I'm sure you like to hit the mall with the girls, just the girls, right? And I don't think there's any need to tell him. It's definatly not wrong to feel that way though. Have fun on New Years!
okay well theres this one boy who i really like. hes not that good looking lol but hes really nice and funny and i like him a LOT! well anyways he says he likes me too (i dont know if i believe him cuz hes said that to gurls before but he didnt really like them i guess) and in the halls he always touches me and says hi and stuff.. well he has a gf. they have been going out for like months. they recently "did it" even tho shes 13 and hes like 15. well i like him a LOT and cant stop. well what im asking is do u think he likes me if he says hi and we talk online a lot and he flirts with me.. im confused about this. :-\
He may like you, but he may not. Flirting, chatting online, and saying hi to each other doesn't necessarily mean he likes you. Tons of people flirt even though they don't like each other, and yes, he may juts want some. It's sad, but very possible true. If he has a girlfriend you shouldn't get too close to hime "in that way yet" If you want to show him your interested wait untill they break up, and after they break up give him even more time. I've been in the situation before and havn't got the guy. Well, at least not yet. *lol* I'm too shy. But good luck, and I know you can't help liking him.
Ok see i have this friend and we have known each other since we were little. For the last two years he has liked me and i dont know if i like him i tryed to go out with him once but i dont know i felt weird, so i broke up with him and never told anyone i went out with him. But see if he is going out with someone else i suddenly get jelgous and want to be his gurlfriend but when he isnt going out i dont really like him as much. It just really confusses me please i need someone to help me
I think you're only jealous because you think that his girlfriends could take him away from you. Obviously you care very much for him. You may also get scared that she may break his heart, and you do not want his heart broken. So don't worry, I think that you're only jelous because you want him to pay as much attention to you as he did before his girlfriend. I don't think that you actually want to be his girlfriend. Well, hope I helped.
okay well i really need a guy in my life... someone who is there for me and can help me with my problems... because it seems like all my friends are like blocking me or something it just isn't fair.. :-/ i want a sweet guy who knows how to confert a girl... does anyone know that feeling??
I defiantly know the feeling. But if you feel like your friends are blocking you then amybe you should talk to them. Because if you have the right friends, you can forget that there is no guy. It really is a great feelibng to have at leat one friend you really love. But good luck sweetie. I hope you do find the guy.
I'm 13...There's a guy I like, and he's 14 and he's awesome. I really don't talk to him a lot because he's my best friend's older brother and I don't want to be like, "Yeah, I wanna go talk to your brother..See ya." Or anything like that. I really do like him, he used to tease me in a flirty way and he used to stare at me and we used to smile at each other, but I don't know what's going on with him now. All of a sudden he's become...hostile..or something. I said Hi to him and he was like, "Get away from me!" I have mixed emotions about him now, I don't know whether I should move on or not. My sister, who's ona never ending mission to hook us up, tells me that it was only that day he was different and that he likes me back. I can't stop thinking that maybe he'll always be like that, maybe I should move on...should I move on or keep on going for the same guy? I'm so mixed up..
He's just being a teenage boy. They have mood swings, too you know. Maybe he had just had a bad day. You really should let that slide. The only probablem with this relationship would be that it might ruin you and your friends relationship. If this friendship is in danger you should try and get over her brother. It's a really tough situation. Talk to your friend about it first. Good luck.
i love my bf but i dont know what to do. last year i really liked this guy, we had a lot of fun but never went out. this year we are in no classes together though. i saw him at lunch the first day of school. our eyes met and i felt really hurt. i feel such a deep connection with him, but i feel like i just like my bf as a crush. i dont want to break my bf's heart, he is wonderful. im so upset, i dont know what to do now.
Try talking to your boyfriend maybe telling him you need a break. Tell him that you think he's a great guy but that there may be someone else. Good luck and follow your heart!
Okay y'all..... I'm sort of seen as "ghetto" by the way I dress, which is just hoop earrings and ....yeah. I'm a sophomore and I'm crushin on a FRESHMAN! I don't see the harm in that..right? But anywho, he's sorta a "sk8er".... and it just seems like sk8ers are into...punks, skaters, etc. all those stereotypes. I really wanna get close to him....I mean, boys are boys are boys..they'll like any girl, and it doesn't matter what "label" you're under, right? =\
I don't erally have a "problem" I just wanna know if it's possible between us!!....
Og course it's possible! Anything is possible! I don't believe in sterotypes, personally, but I know exactly what you mean. The whole sophmore/freshmen thing doesn't matter at all. Last year, one sophmore went out with a freshmen. But I don't think boys will just like anyone. Sure some do, but definatly not the majority. If you try and talk to him just friendly and he starts to like you then the only reason he might not ask you out would be because he would be embarrassed because maybe his friends wouldn't approve. But if he's sending you signs, go for it! Good luck! And please rate me. Thanks!
I have asked a lot of people for advice on this, but no one has an answer. I start school tommorow.
On the last day of school last year, 8th grade, I sort of asked out this guy, Alex, whom I liked and who liked me, by saying "If I dump Jerry will you go out with me" (yes i know im a jerk) and he said he would and I said we hadda hang out over summer. I really did intend to, in the beginning of summer I called him a few times and there was never any answer. Then I went to a lot of camps, but I did have some time in between. I went out with this guy during one camp but we sorta drifted apart. Now school is starting tommorow and it's going to be so awkward. I don't know what to say to Alex...I did intend to hang out with him, but it just didn't work...And I don't know if I like him anymore or what seeing how I haven't seen him all summer. I need advice real soon on what to sasy to him tommorow and how 2 handle this thing. It's a pretty sticky situation. Thanks.
Well, at least you tried. But when school starts try and be friends, just friends, with him at first. After a while and you still feel things talk to him about it. It might take a while for things to stop feeling so awkward but wait a while and if you two go out it will have been worth the wait. Good luck!
I like this guy, he likes me back. He says he doesn't want to ask me out because asking people is out dumb because no one actually goes out or they stop talking. I'm not goin got ask him out because if he can't ask me out then he is going to be a bad boyfriend. He's had girlfriends before so it's not like he's not ready. WE are both in 7th grade. Any ideas on how ot approach him and talk about it?
First off, definatly talk to him. If you guys like each other you should try and make some thing work. You say know actually goes out, why don't you invite him to go somewhere with you. Somewhere simple and easy for the first date, like the movies. If the first date donesn't work out and he doesn't seem like he cares that your even trying to make it work, tell him that he needs to start caring. If he doesn't care, he's probably not going to be a great boyfriend. Good luck!