Hi my name is Chelsey and I've been through a lot in my life. I live in Branford Connecticut, and I'm 13 years old. Even though I'm young that doesn't mean that I haven't been through a lot. Everyday is a struggle, and i like to feel that i'm not alone and I wish that someone was there to help me get through the tough times and confort me. Thats why I like to help. Also ever since i was little I was usually the advice giver to my friends and I always gave them good advice so I hope to help more people in the world. When i grow up I hope to be a councelor for teens because teens usually go through the most dramatic things. Also just to let you know I used to cut for you cutters out there and I've done a lot of other things. I know that these days a lot of teens think self harm is normal and theres nothing wring with it but it is TOTALLY wrong and that why I'm here to try to help some of you people stop. I've helped a lot of people in the past. Also I've been through a lot of family roblems since I was little. Including my dad and other family member's making me feel like nothing. I've also been through a lot of unwanted sexual contact. So for you boys and girls out there that have been raped or moulested I'm here for you. As most teens know a lot of depression problems are caused by relationship problems and I've been through more of them than I can count, I know how hard they are and how much you cry and cry you can't bring them back. Or you just don't know what to do when theres a problem. Also my mom she has a disease that makes her not feel good at all, all the time,and there is NO cure for it. So i kind of know how it feels not to have a mom because she's not like normal mom's. So if you need advice i'm happy to give you some to the best ability that I can.
~*Thank you*~
Gender: Female
Location: branford,CT
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Ok, i have a crush on this guy in highschool, hes a freshman...im in 7th grade. For our town, its not a big deal to do that(just letting you know.) I only met him once and it was at a show. I'll be seeing him friday, cuz theres another show. But the problem is that he doesn't know me. Like he might, but I doubt it. I want him to notice me this friday, so how do I do it?
PLEASE HELP!!! thank you to who ever does help
P.s. My best guy freind is running the show and everything. Like he is in charge of it all (link)
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ask your guy friend thats running the show to hang out with you or meet you and your friends(bring friends). Tell your guy friend thats running the show to tell the guy that you have a crush on that you have to do a report on something that intrest you nd you want to hear it from the actors and you friends thats running the show thought he was a good choice.HOPE I HELPED!!!
luv,
~*chelly*~
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well theres guy that i like like and were friends and yeah he flirts but then again he has a lot of friends that are gurls and well he flirts with them to but how do i find out if he likes me but what i was thinking since he's gradurating this year should i tell him at the end of the year that i like him but i think if i do than he'll just think that i was just another one added on to the list but what i fear most is that he's going to leave with my heart and i didnt do anything about it but then again i act like i do and he can pretty much see it in my eyes i think (link)
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I don't think that you should straight out tel him that you like him. Have a friend or even you could ask what would he say or think if you like him. And if he answers a good question tell him if not put tellin him on hold for a little while and then wait for the time is right to tell him.
HOPE I HELPED!!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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My bestfriend(15) , this guy(15), and I(14) all go to that same church. Now my bestfriend and this guy are going out and their parents dont know about itand are completely against them being friends. There hole relation ship is based on rebelion and she realizes it but says she doesnt care at least not right now. He has hurt her a couple of times and she still refuses to see it. She won't listen to any of her friends including me. What the heck am i supposed to do, just sit back and watch??? (link)
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I say tel someone about it her parents your parents, ANYONE RESPONSIBLE! Or talk to him and ask him if he relizes that he hurts her, cuase he might notice that it's wrong to do. But i really think that you should talk to your parents about this first and then see what they sa about it and do what they say.
GOODLUCK!!!!!!
luv,
~*chelly*~
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I like this girl and we used to go out.
we had something really special before but some shit happened and the relationship went sour.
She had a b/f when we were dating. She doesn't have the some feeling for me anymore but i still like her. I think she borke up with her b/f now and going out with other guy.
I really like her but i don't think i should still thinking about her.
Anyone knows how can i forget about a girl who i like a lot??? (link)
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Well sometimes you can't forget about someone. But if you really want to try to start hanging out with another girl you might end up liking her and forget all about your ex. Well thats all i got but i hope i helped!
luv,
~*chelly*~
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Ok, I've been seeing this guy for almost 4 years (I know, quite a long time!) I met him at uni and now I am in my final year at uni and he is working miles away. We have never been apart like this before as we were always together at uni.
I have mixed feelings about how much longer I want the relationship to go on for. Whenever we speak on the phone he says something stupid or puts me in a bad mood and makes me unhappy.
I feel I want some time to be young free and single especially as I have been witht the same guy for such a long time. Surely these signs mean it won't last??
Also, I went for dinner with some friends of my flatmate and I met this guy who I found really attractive.
I would never ever cheat on my boyfriend but why am I thinking of this other guy all the time when I should be thinking about my boyfriend?
We all went out last night to a club and he was there. He walked me home. Nothing happened but it was so nice to have some attention from someone else and for some reason he made me feel more wanted than my boyfriend does.
Help!! I am so frustrated I don't know what to do! Even if anything did happen, this guy goes back to Australia at the end of May.
Thank you so much if u do reply - i really appreciate it and will give you all 5's! x (link)
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I really think that if your thinking of other guys and not your boyfriend i think you guys aren't meant to be and sometimes it is nice to be single, loves to serious. I really think you should breakup with your boyfriend and see how it goes with this other guy thats going back to Australia, but don't ask him out because then your going to be in the same situation that you are now. I just think you should make the best of time with him that you have now with him. i hope i helped!!!!!
luv,
~*chelly*~
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my friend and i where always good friends but lately when i started to seem to like a guy she starts to like them to. like a few days ago i started to like a guy but then asked her if she liked him she said yeah. i dont want to sound mean but if i get to like someone and he meets her she wont notice but shell steal him. and th other day shes says ill leave him 4 u but then a week later she said i think ill ask him out. what can i do to make myself happier and not end our friend ship. 13/f (link)
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I think you should really talk to her and tell her that it's not fair because you liked this guy first and it seems like a guy means more to her then your friendship. And if we both like him we can either share him or we both can't have him and move on, but if one of you guys move on and the other one doesn't i think it's ok for the other one to ask him out. But just see how it goes! Goodluck!!!!!
luv,
cHeLlY
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Hello everyone, how can you know if it is really love or not. There's this guy who I have a crush on for four years plus already and I still can't forget him. Whenever I see him last time and he goes near me, my mind can't think anything. It's like my mind is saying say something say something but I can't think of anything to say. Now, I'm worried about him and I don't know if this is really love. If it is, could it be possible that love exist at my age? I'm 16. And could it be possible that you love someone you don't know really that much? (link)
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I think it is able to fall in love at any age i'm only 13 and i'm in love. it's possible. I've been in kinda the same situation that you are in and still am. It's hard because you feel that you should really get over them and move on with your life because you know or are thinking that they don't love you as much as you love them and never will so whats the sense in telling them if nothing will ever happen. But you still don't know if he'll fall in love with you because from what i understand you don't really talk to him. I think you should try to talk to him or join somthing that he's in. Or just get his screename!People are way easier to flirt to online. thats how all me and my boyfriends got tight. Well i hope i helped!!!!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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ok well theres this kid whos graduating supposeably this year and well i reaally like him like love him and well im not aloud to date him because well lets say the my dad is presidist and well the worat part is that hes a ladys man and he flirts but i dont know if he likes me so what should i do because im thise people who are afraid to get hurt but no matter how hard i deny im afrisd that hell have my heart when he leaves and it kills me so go against my family or what plus my brother are the same way and they both go to the same school helppppppppppppppppppppppp (link)
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i really believe that you should follow your heart. but before you do that i really think you should talk to him and ask him if he likes you. Because you don't want to go through all this drama with your family and then find out that he doesn't even know that you exist you know what i mean? well i wish you the best of luck!!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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there's this guy that i like and i haven't told him that i like him but i'm not the kind of person that really does that. Well, over spring break the guy went on a cruise and today he had pics of these 2 girls that he met that were drop dead gorgeous. He kept talking about one of the girls and how they were gonna take him on a cruise next year and how he might move to indiana to be with one of them and i know that he can't have been serious because he only knew them for a week and i know he was just trying to get me and my friend to be jealous but then he kept being all like a jerk and it pissed me off. But i still like him. Its so hard because i really like him but he can be such a jerk sometimes. He can be a showoff and stuff but he's my friend. I don't know. I don't wanna tell him i like him because then he will be like all weird and maybe be disgusted. I don't know. Help me! (sry its so long) (link)
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I really think you should tell him because if he's trying to make you and your friend jealous why would he want to do that if he didn't like you a little bit?I just think that he might like you should tell him. And i don't mean you have to tell him face to face. You can have a friend ask him what if you liked him what would you think about that?....like ask quetsions like that. or you can ask over IM or something. Well i hope that helps a little!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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ok...all my friends have their boyfriends and all this stuff and they always want 2 do something with them and it makes me really upset to see them all have someone they like except me. Everytime they ask me to do something with all of them i will say mmm.... im not sure! and they will get mad at me...
how can i tell them so they wont get mad at me?? (link)
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Just tell them the truth. Tell them that it makes you upset that they care for someone other than you. Also that it hurts you because you don't have a boyfriend and all of them do. Maybe you can go boyfriend hunting. But i think that you should atleast try to go out with all them and see how it goes before you complain about it you never know you might like it. But yea i know it's kind of depressing that everyone else has a boyfriend and you dont. But don't worry you'll have a boyfriend soon it just takes time. You never know it might be for the best because relationships are hard!Well good luck and if you need any other advice i'm here.
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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Ok there is this girl that i have been best friends with for about two years. we arn't as close anymore because of fights. but ever since i met her i like, loved her. i cant get her out of my head. although im young (13) i know this isn't immature love. everyone seems to think im crazy because no matter how many times she breaks me, i still love her. i have been with her before, but... im not over it. i miss her so much. but the thing is, now, whenever im somewhere and she comes along. i wish she never came and just went home. but yet, i still feel the same way about her. and im not sure what i want completly. at the time, the thing is that i dont know how to get her out of my head. im starting to really lose consentration. im doing worse in school and im always sad. if anyone can please help me. i know its hard since i cant really ask a direct question... but try. i really miss her.. (link)
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hey wut i think you should do is talk to her and tell her that you like and and you never know after that she may start to like you or even better she might already like you. But i don't really exactly get it how you said that when she comes along you wish she didn't. maybe it's because you don't want to get heart broken because you think that she doesn't like you but you don't know that until you ask her or tell her how you feel. I wish you the best! JUST REALLY TALK TO HER ABOUT IT!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 8 months. We're really close and i love him soo much. We hold hands.. hug.. stuff like that but weve never kissed. Hes told me he wants to kiss me and ive told him i want to kiss him.. only we never do. Im waiting for him to make the move but he gets nervous really easily. Im starting to wonder if theres more to it than nerves. Let me know what you think... Should i just go ahead and kiss him even tho id feel weird? Thanks! (link)
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hey, i don't think you should kiss him if you feel weird if it's you first time because think about it it's your first kiss and you wouldn't want to waste it if it wasn't a true kiss. But if you have kissed other guys before i think it's ok to kiss him because it's not that bog of a deal. well good luck!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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Hey, um, I used to go out with this dude and like we loved each other a lot. When we broke up it hurt like shit loads and like I still love him. But I hide it from all my friends and everything. I still have dreams about him and I can't stop thinking about him. Like long story short, I still love him like a lot. I've told many people that I have gotten over him and that I love someone else and whatever. But truth is I haven't. How can like how can I forget about him and just move yet like just be friends with him. Because everytime I try to get over him, but like the next time I see him I fall for him again. How can I just look at him as a friend rather than as a boyfriend or as a crush? How can I move on?
Signed, Troubled Child (link)
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I SOOO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!! i just went through the same thing not too long ago. it sicked so bad and it was so hard!what you should try to do is like someone else. thats what i did. and i got a boyfriend out of it. now i am totally over the boy that i used to like and i'm just his friend. and if that doesn't work u think you should talk to him about your feeling and see what he thinks, that might help you too. well tell me what happenes and if you need any other advice you can just E-mail me at sheri06405@netzero.com .
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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So, i like this guy that i've liked in the past. We spent alot of time together over the summer of *04 and we got to know eachother. We snuck out at like 2 once and hooked up. Slowly, we stopped talking. We started talking again in January, and now were all flirty again and i think I like him again. But my bestfriend called him me "hook-up buddy" and i guess we are. But i still like him, alot.
I dunno what to do about this bc I mean I like him but at the same time i cant, i dunno why though, please help
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hey i really think that you should talk to him about your feeling and u never kno he might feel the same way about you. And if he does i think you two should go out, because it sounds like you really like him and since u guys hooked up then i think you should go out.
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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