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me and this dude has been going on and off for about two years and i love him too death he's my everything. But theres a problem he does stuff that i really dont like, hes not cheating or w/e hes just doing something i think he shouldnt be doing, he says he loves me but right now he has to do what he has to do, since hes been doing that i really dont get to see him as often as i used to, so i feel really bad about this but i cheated on him and i have NEVER done that and i am afraid hes going to find out and then the two years of emotions will be gone, this dude is everything to me and he is the only one that has that special place in my heart and always be the one for me but what if he finds out? :'( (link)
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you have to talk to him. like, you have to tell him how much you HATE what he's doing, and you HAVE TO tell him that you cheated on him, explaining exactly what you did with this other person so he can rate how bad it really was. Also, if you have the ability to cheat on him, and if its on and off, it's only your mind tellling you that he is the one for you, it's not your heart talking. after you talk to him, he may break it off with you, but then after that, don't try to get back together with him, keep yourself single and look around, you may notice ppl and things that you didn't notice before. believe me, on and off relationships never work out in the end, and there is someone out there that is going to be PERFECT for you, you just have to be strong, break yourself apart from this guy and move on. it will all turn out for the best, but it will take time. i hope i helped!:D good luck
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hey i'm 15, female! There are these to guys...Tyler and Matt...and there both awesome...i've known the both for a long time...and i dated Matt for bout 2months and we broke up for the summer and then me and him made a promise that we would get back together when skool started...well i hadn't see Tyler since like a couple months ago and then i saw him bout a week ago and we have been hanging out alot lately and i told him bout me and Matt..and really i have to choose which one i wanna be w/...i mean there both great and they both give me wat i want....and my mom told me that i wasn't alound to see Tyler cuz his 17..well i'm almost 16 in Dec...and Matt's 15..and i'm older then him...but i was talking to Tyler last nite and i told him bout me and Matt and stuff and he told me that i had a lot of courge to tell him that and that i need to choose and that no matter my choose he will always still be there for me...and matt on the other hand i don't know how he'll act..i jst think he would be really pissed and probably would never talk to me again and i jst don't know wat to do or who to choose or how to decicided who i want!?? What should i do? plZe help A.S.A.P (link)
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this is going to be really heard... i mean there are pros and cons of being with both guys... matt is good beccause your mom actually approves of you dating him, but then again it should be easy for you to convince your mom to let you date tyler because, well hes only a year older than you. In my opinion, from the sounds of it it seems as though you like tyler more, because he sounds a lot more understanding,etc. Whereas, you already have gone out with matt and, why did you guys break up? a lot of the time, if it didn't work out the first time, it's just not going to work out overall. and im guessing that you guys broke up for the summer because you wanted to be able to party and fool around, or maybe one of you were going on vacation or something... but if you guys broke up in the summer because of that, he sounds like more like a fling opposed to a good long lasting boyfriend. i think that you should explain to matt, but be sincere about it and just make him understand what you're thinking... go for tyler! i hope i helped!:D good luck
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well i kind of like this kid but he really likes my friend. but i really like him. people have said We are such a cute couple and we would be so cute together(and we both kinda agree), and i've heard he has a crush on me but he really strongly likes my friend and i don't wanna tell my friend i like him cause she likes him alot to, but so do i and we flirt alott and i don't know what to do!! plz help!!! (link)
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ooo i've been in the same kind of situation as you... and well im going to tell you something that you're not going to want to hear. okay... well you see, your friend and the guy REALLY like each other, but then you REALLY like the guy, and he kind of likes you... do you see where im going with this? i say that you should just let them be happy, and although this is going to depress you, you WILL find someone else for sure. i mean, after the same situation happened to me, an old crush came back into my life, but i hadda wait FOUR MONTHS! it's brutal, but it's worth it... so just let them be, and try your best to be happy for them... i wish you the best of luck and i know that's not what you wanted to hear... im sry but i hope i helped!:D good luck
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what do i do about a controlling boyfriend? my boyfriend is allowed to mess around and talk to girls but im not allowed to talk to guys! i found this so unfair and everyone thinks he has total control over me because when we break up, and he asks me back out, i always say yes. is it because i'm weak or i'm just under his little 'spell'? (link)
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controlling boyfriends are definitely a NO NO! haha that sounds bad, but i've see so many of my friends with them, and i hate it. and all of my friends went running back to them. in one situation, the girl ended up being so "under his little spell" that he started beating her after a while! talk it over with him again, and if he still isn't going to let you be free, then end it IMMEDIATELY! stay his friend, but be strong! don't go running back to him! there is someone special waiting for you out there, so although its going to be really hard, just wait for another special guy! i hope i helped!:D goodluck
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i like this guy at skool and he really loves me and he asks me out all the time.hes not very popular tho and im afarid that ppl will make fun of me. plz help me!!! thanks (link)
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hahaha so many ppl think that. it's like, o god he's not cool and now ppl are going to think im not cool. if you really like him, than go out with him but you have to be able to ignore what other ppl have to say! i have a friend who's eighteen and she's going on with a sixteen year old, and of course ppl give her shit saying like she's his babysitter and all that... but she was strong and she just told them to fuck off or grow up, and then just felt stupid in the end, and now everyone accepts it. the first like month is definitely going to be hard, but believe me once you get past there, you're never going to regret it! i hope i helped!:D good luck
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My boyfriend dumped me before i went on vacation then a day after i left he went out with one of my friends. When i was talkin to him he told me he still cared about me and hes never loved anyone so much as he loved me..but when i asked him if we wud go out again he sed he didn't know and it sounded like he meant no..We also went out for a long time and were inlove really bad.What do you think i should do? Talk to him or forget him? (link)
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FORGET HIM! a problem that all of us girls have is that we can't let go. i mean, he did so many things wrong here...
1. he dumped you A DAY before your big vacation, meaning that the break up is all you're going to think about
2. he went out with one of your friends!!!!!
3. he said that he still had feelings for you, yet he didn't want to go out with you again and..
4. almost the same as the last one but he said he had feelings for you WHILE he was going out with another girl kinda making him sound like a user/cheating kind of guy
if i was you, i would just forget about him, and it's amazing that the saying "there are plenty of other fish in the sea" is ACTUALLY true, it may take time but you will find another guy that will sweep you off your feet! it will take a while, but help yourself to get over him. i hope i helped!:D good luck
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OK i asked the question earlier about the guy i met on vacation...all i kno is that he lived in north dakota with his dad who is in the air force and is moving to tennesse soon...i kno his mom lives in california and his first name is brendan...i guess ill never find him since i dont got his last name..:-( o well any tips on getting over him? (link)
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i've been through the same situation as you!!! what i did to get over him is, i just kept myself occupied all of the time! i signed up for sports teams and i always chilled with my friends! and you have to go out and meet new people. Like, ask your friends to introduce you to their friends so that you can meet new guys and stuff... or go to the mall and have a little fun! meet some ppl, or to like a fair or something (im not saying to be a slut!!! im just saying meet new people) so yah, keep yourself occupied and find new ppl. in my situation, i found the guy i was looking for, and he recognized me as for how i looked, but he had no idea of like where he knew me from or what my name was... it sucked. so don't give your hopes up like i did.
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My bf doesn't love me... I know because I know .. The way he looks at me blabla .. yeah .. I feel like shit.. I'm pissed because I know he doesn't love me, I'm really sad and I have 3 days I just don't stop crying ... now what? (link)
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The same old answer... talk to him! just be like, "i really love you and i don't think you feel the same way about me and it's really starting to hurt me. If you dont love me, tell me the truth and we shoudl stop seeing each other now until things just get worse and worse emotionally for me." Honestly, if he doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about him, it's best for you guys to break up or it will just keep on getting you more and more depressed. i hope i helped!:D good luck
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alrite..this is confusing and will sound dumb, but anyways i`ve been going out with my boyfriend for..awhile now and i wanna make out with him but i dont know how to bring it up...i don`t rly see him that much so idk..any ideas? (link)
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Well you can do two different things in this situation...
1. You can invite him over, or go over to his house when no one else is hope... and just like be watching a movie or whatever and then keep on edging closer and closer to him during the movie, and eventually lean in for a kiss and let it go from there. At the beginning, it may seem weird, like you may feel awkward or you may feel as though he has no idea what he's doing, but he'll catch on! believe me! or...
2. You can have a casual relationship chat either over the phone if you're too shy, or in person, which is a better choice, (NOT ONLINE!!!! it's just not real) talk about how long you've been dating and how far you've gone, and then just be like i want to take it to the next level or whatever... and as i said this is a lot better in person because he will probably just be like "i think so too" or whatever and then you guys can make out then and there!
i hope i helped!:D good luck
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