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Y0U WANNA KN0W M0RE AB0UT ME?
i`M tHE GiRl WH0S KiCkiN tHA C0kE MACHiNE
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For anyone who actually reads this, thanks.Well, I had a boyfriend, we'll call him "Tod". We went out for about 3 months. Well, all these people were coming up to me and saying, "OMG!Are you going to be okay?!" Honestly, I had no idea what on earth they were talking about. So, I asked "Tod" and he told me that he kissed another girl on the lips! Me? Upset? Yeah, but I could deal with it.I told I didn't care. He told me that he couldn't stand to hurt me again, so he said it was over.Well, about 2 months later, he asked me out again, and I said yes. And just recently, we broke up. Everyone was telling me that he told them it was "another girl". This time, I had it with him. I was through with getting hurt because of his freakin mistakes when I didn't do anything to hurt him! So, I'm never going out with him again. But..I think that there might be "another guy" for me. We'll call him "Justin".He's one of my friends ex-boyfriends.They have been going out on and off like me and "Tod".And my other friends are telling me to not go out with him because she might get pissed at me.Well, first of all, I know she will, but I think I really like "Justin" and just the other day, I told him that I really like him. He told me that he really likes me too. But we're not going out. Yesterday, he was talking to my sister, and she asked him if he and I were going out. He said "yeah" and my sister said "since when?!?!". Then he said "since now". But I asked him if we were really going out, and he said he doesn't know! What's that supposed to mean?!Sorry it's soooo long! -Alex (link)
okay ... girls dont cry .. they get even! soo.. i guess your going out with "justin" now, huh? u should just ask him.. be like "umm are we going out or something?" it would be more embaressing to assume something thats not tru then to ask and find out.. right?

hope i helped!
ecksOH
x____ juliana


Well there is this guy i liked since i met him ( kind of like love @ first sight ) he likes me too he tells me he loves me all the tiem but we dont go out . Well i liked this other guy ( Dakota ) since last year and when i asked him out he said he had a girlfriend well today he broke up with her and he stares at me at lunch now and there is this other guy ( Brian ) and he has always been there for me since the get go i love them all IM NOT A HOE but which one should i choose ?!?! (link)
well.. personally i`d need to know more about them all.. but u should make a list of pros and cons for each boy and then throw it away and follow your heart! BUT bring your brain with you!

hope i helped
ecksOH
x____jjjuuulliiaannaa


Sorry it's long, but I need some help

Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.

There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him

How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!! (link)
well.. i`d be truthfull!! just tell him to get away from you.. it doesnt take much to simply say 'hey buddie.. i gotta bf so how about u leave me alone!' ... ya know? i dont really think teachers are going to do anything.. they never really do! just tell him that your N0T iNTEREStED!!

hope i helped
ECKSoh
x____ jjjuulliiannnaaa


Theres this guy I like and he likes me. I am 13 and he is 15 and hes liked me for a long time and same for me but we both just found out that we liked eachother about 2 months ago. Well he was about to ask me out but thought I'd say no b/c I was 12 then and there was 3 year age diff. He gots a g/f now and he says he still likes me though and he got kinda drunk one night and was all touching me and tried to get me to kiss him but he has a gf so I said no and he kept trying to covince me but I didnt want him to get in trouble by his gf so I refused but now I wish I had kissed him and he was pretty drunk but even when he isnt he still wants me to kiss him but its hard to know if hes joking or not because he has a big sense of humor and i was like are u joking he kept saying no. But how can I tell if hes joking? and would it have been wrong if I kissed him? Sry this is so long and I appriciate you reading this and thx for your advice in advance. As long as you answer i'll rate 5 unles ur answer is ridiculous. Thankz, luv ya! (link)
if you like him.. and he likes you.. whats the problem? i mean i understand where your coming from.. u dont want a bad reputation if he has a gf.. but u could always say D0Nt YEll At ME YEll At HiM ;D .. u must be nervous because the guy you like wants to like.. cheat on his gf with you so i think u should talk to him.. it would be more embaressing to think/assume something and mess up than to ask what the hell is going on!

i hope i helped!
x____ jjuulliiaannaa


well i've liked this guy for abut hmm 3 years now n we werent friends in 6th grade n we were kinda friends in 7th but now we're super tight anyway today he kept makin me laugh like in studyhall he kept makin eye contact and makin funny faces well it might be because he's bored but like when we were walkin down the hall he'd come up to me and start talkin and then before soccer started we were in the cafeteria and he tried tripping me but lol it didnt work so and he kept makin me laugh there also and then when i had to go to my game he goes LEAVEEE like sarcasticly then he touched my boob..idk if he did it accidentally but it sure didnt seem that way lol then i just left..what is he trying to say? (link)
well its perfectly clear that hes trying to hint that he likes you! aww.. lol is he just tha flirtatious type? does he know that u like/liked him? lol get at me laterr

ecksOH
juliiannnaa

later on..

well then go for it!! lol if you like him and he *OBViOUSlY* likes you then im sooo happie for u guys.. UNlESS of course.. your not readie for anything that serious? do what you want, girlie because now its all up to u!! get at me laterrr

x____ jjjuulliiiaannaa


im going out with this guy since yesterday who i've never talked to. we're in the same health class. tomorrow his friend told me to talk to him. im really nervous because i dont know what to say at all. any ideas? also, how should i make it look like im not as nervous as i really am? thanx! (link)
your going out with him?? and u didnt talk to him?? why not.. ?? u should really get to know him.. dont come on too strong tho.. if you like him then just be yourself.. and hmm.. if you dont want it to look like you nervous then..
a. try to look him in the eye
b. dont fidgit
c. dont bite your lip
but dont make it seem like your too bored either.. im telling you tho, u shouldnt have to rehearse everytime you want to talk to your boyfriend... just be Y0U !


Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him? (link)
well.. you really could be in love.. but hey you dont want to rush things.. u just have to know your limits, ya know? know that its possible to get hurt and its possible your wrong. the most logical thing i think you should do is get to know him.. you may find that you could be more in love than as of now....




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