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I'm 13/f and i have a bf. i really want to go on a date with him, and my parents wont let me!!
The only way i can go on a date with my bf is if my parents come too. That would be soooo embarrasing!! I dont get it, like i do everything i'm told- i have good grades, keep my room clean, have good friends, etc. and i have tried telling them that stuff but they said that doesn't matter because i'm just not old enough. We tried to double date with my best friend this weekend, but we couldn't. :( I feel really bad because he wants to go places besides skewl with me, but i cant!! Does anyone have suggestions on how to get them to let me go? (link)
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Do what my lil sis did when she needed to date. Convince one parent first saying i will not let him touch me, if you guys really trust me then let me go. then ask them When you were younger did your parents go on a date with you and your bf? Wait what the heck you have a bf but can't date? Thats a very dumb thing. Oh well. Just do what i said and it worked wonders for my sis. hehe
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This is going to be long or no one is going to understand my situation.
Basically I'm 16 & Female: I had this perfect boyfriend (or so it seemed) we dated constant, no breakups, for 17 months. He, too, was 16. We planned so much, we were even getting engaged, it was perfect. Near January of this year, things started getting a little rocky between him & I. See we go to different schools so we never really got to see eachother that often. We planned to meet eachother at the bowling alley, and that night we got in a fight. The fight wasn't really over anything big, he just got mad at me over something & hurt my arm. But I told him that he had anger problems & needed to resolve them. So basically, for the next 3 days he ignored me. He ignored my calls, my texts, my messages, my emails, & he never called me back, returned anything. Then I had gotten on the computer that day & he broke up with me. I was not only mad that it was through the computer, but I was furious because of everything he threw away. A week down the road, he comes back to me & asks for this thing he called "break-up sex" I knew it would have been a mistake for me to have done it, but I wanted him back & I wanted that feeling back. So I agreed to it. Later on, he tells me that he's "talking" to someone & doesn't want to ruin things with her, so he doesn't want to have this "sex." I was hurt. Basically because I still wanted him back. Friday night, I went to the basketball game at his school to meet up with a couple of my friends, and he was there. He wasn't with anyone like he told me he would have been. So he texts me & asks me to meet him outside. We ended up having sex in the backseat of his car. I don't really regret it, but last night he told me that he never would ever get back together with me & that friday night was an accident. What is your all's opinion on this situation? (link)
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I'm so sorry hunny your not gonna like this answer but i have to say it forget him and move on yes it will be difficult but he is USING you something must have hit his brain and decided it was over. Otherwise talk to him and try to work it out. You never know when a guy is talking bull**** so becareful and please understand your having sex at 16!
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So lyke omg there's this boi.
Just kidding. Kind of.
There's this guy, one of my best friends. His name is Matt. We're pretty close. Anyway, I'm starting to develop serious feelings for him. We usually get to our French class early, and so he'll walk around the room hugging me or he'll pull me up out of my seat to do the tango. He doesn't really do that to any of my other friends, but my personality is pretty different from my other friends. I'm more spontaneous. Everytime he touches me (a few times per day), my heart flutters, and I get really happy.
The thing is that he thinks of my as more of a little sister, I think. Today, he wrote me a note asking me if I liked someone named Donny (shut up, it was the first name I could think of) because he saw us talking and thought that we were totally like in love or something. Anyway, he misread us. I'm pretty flirtatious in general. He was warning me because this kid has a bit of a reputation and he didn't want me to get hurt.
On MySpace, I took a Top 8 survey, and it asked if I had ever slept in the same bed as number 3 (Matt). I said no, because we haven't, and he messaged me with, "What are you talking about? We sleep in the same bed all the time!!" I think he was just being him, but should I read more into this?
Anyway, I'm wondering if you think that he'll ever like me as more than a little sister/friend, and if you think I should be a little more flirtatious, or if you think he's just an amazing friend.
I love him a lot, it's just a matter of whether it's going to go anywhere. Like, I respect him soo much and he respects me a lot, too, and I know that we'll always keep in touch, but I want to marry this guy.
Sounds kind of desperate, huh? (link)
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I HAD to answer this one i about cried when i read it this is like melt your heart!! Aww sweetie! Be open with him! He will appreciate it. You and "Donny" he was prolly really jealous and wanted to make sure you didn't like him because he might secretly like you. Please i need to know more about this please rate this give a comment about your myspace or anything i can contact you on because i wanna know what happens!!
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Im kelly 14/f.I found out that i was bi-sexual about 3 months ago.I really don't want to be bi but i just can't help it.I want to know if i should tell my mom i am or just keep it to myself till im older just to be sure im bi? (link)
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Your young your prolly going through a phase ok wait like 2 more months or 1 month around that time or 3 months to be extra sure and see if you still like girls if this becomes an inssue just tell your mother if it concerns you but I guessing she will be upset and understanding. Your Parents will love you no matter what you are like an alien or bi or lez or gay or crazy they will love you.
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k well this will prob be long, sorry haha
14/f 9th grade
alright so last year i started talking to this boy, his name is pedro. pedro is a really nice guy, and very attractive, though alot of people discredit him for it because he is def(sp?). continuing on, so we began talking at the beginning of the year, and talked all year long, we both liked eachother and we both knew it but we dated other people but still "talked" so in the summer we went out. for like a month. i broke things off because i did not see him once in that month we went out and barley talked to him, also because he blew me off 3 times. so i was like, why am i wasting my time? ok so we still remained friends, we'd fight sometimes but we were still friends. then one night online(in like september after school had started), we got in a really big argument because he was like "your annoying and you bother me" and i was like..wtf is your problem. and it escalated into this big fight. and he told me that he loved me, but he didn't want to, and he said he didn't want to talk to me anymore. and then at the end of our fight/conversation he denied saying any of it. but i didn't talk to him at all anymore. that was the end of our friendship. then in around december we started talking again because we both play basketball for the school and he would ask me out it but i wouldn't talk to him unless he said something to me because i was mad as hell because like he was as close to love as i've ever been and i still had/have feelings for him and he said all that stuff. then like we kept talking and got less mad. and then one day he was like texting me and he goes "i want to make out with you" "i want you" "i miss you" "i love you" and at one point i asked what he was doing and he said "thinking about you" so like i thought he liked me again. but then like the next day he acted like he never said anything and like i was kinda bumed but whatever. so then before a game he goes "good luck at your game love you" so like he's confusing my brain. because he called me once the other day. and he will text me randomly and be like whats up. but if i text him he like barely ever answers me and if he does it takes him forever. so like i guess what my question is, does he like me again. and like should i keep talking to him and stuff like i don't know i still have feelings for me and that one night i was the happiest i've ever been so i don't know.. (link)
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This kid is messing with your brain!!! He says he likes you but he doesn't so he's prolly gonna break your heart if he does try and go out with you or he will deny all the messages and call you crazy and make you go crazy. screw him you must be a beautiful girl just be yourself maybe someone else will love you better then that crazy guy says that he does
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Our first date was tonight---me and this girl...I think i'm in love...is that possible or irrational? (link)
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Well take it slow. She might not love you yet but she might. It may be love at first sight for you but maybe not her don't go crazy on her just take stuff slow.
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