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Age: 13
Member Since: June 23, 2004
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I have a bunch of friends who miraculously happen to be boys. Seriously, a lot. None of them consider me their girlfriend, and I don't consider any of them my boyfriends. We're all just plain old friends.
I also have a lot of girls who are my just plain old friends. They are consistantly telling me that one of them HAS to be my boyfriend, and that it's just not right to have a bunch of guys for friends at the late age of 14 (sarcasim). I mean, sure I love them all like friends, but I don't consider any of them my boyfriends. Is this wrong??? (link)
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no not at all! ur friends are probably just jealous that you have a lot of guy friends, having guy friends is a great thing and u should be greatful for that! u will meet the rite guy so dont listen to ur friends!
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well, there is this guy im crazy about and he "says" he doesnt like me, but its obviouse he does!!!and its driving me insane!!like now everytime i think about him i wanna throw up!idk y?well HELP ME!!!plzzz (link)
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ok well if ur pretty sure that he likes u, he probably does, guys act really weird and act like they dont like u cuz theyre just shy and dont want you to know...well why do u wanna throw up when u like him? just flirt with him and see wut he does
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I talked to my x today...its only been a week since we broke up. He said "sometimes I have the urge to call you and tell you I want you back, but I don't"...it hurts. I miss him so much, and I can't get my mind off of him. I know we're not meant to be together b/c we are two totally different people and want 2 different things...but I really love him, and I want to stay friends it just hurts so much when I talk to him...what do i do? (link)
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well u should tell him how u feel, and tell him how much it hurts u, he should understand, i kno this hurts a lot but u need to tell him how u feel, communication is the key to solving problems
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hello, i am a 23 year old female. i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for six and a half years. we have had our share of problems, but nothing really bad. i think that our biggest problem is communication. whenever we are involved in a heated discussion, i start crying and he gets mad. i'm a very emotional person and i can't help it. i tell him this all the time. however, sometimes he yells at me and says mean things to me. i have told him that he can't talk to me any kind of way. he never says disrespectful things, but i still feel disrespected by the way he says things. i think that this is something that we can work out if we could communicate better with each other. if i start to cry he gets angry and doesn't want to talk anymore. we recently had an argument, i got really upset and told him that i didn't want to be with him anymore. i didn't mean it and i would like to talk to him about it, but i'm afraid that if i call him, he might make me feel like he doesn't care or doesn't want to talk about it. he has been a major part of my life. he has been there for me through so much. i love him and i know that he love me. what should i do? a part of me feels like if i give it too much time he might not want to be with me. another part of me feels that he needs time to see what he is missing. i'm so confused about what to do. (link)
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well it seems to me like hes under pressure and thats causing him to act this way...well u dont need that kinda treatment from a guy if u really love u him u gotta tell him this truly bugs me and i just want u to act nicer to me please and tell him how much u love him...being a emotional person is not a bad thing at all and he should respect that...when u fight u probably feel really bad i no but u gotta follow ur heart and do wut it tells ya to do
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Hey! my name is soulsista. I need some good advice on this situation.you see, my friend is going to junior high as a seventh grader. She has only dated twice.Once from kindergarten to 1st grade and another in about 4th or 5th grade.
she really needs to know if she should start dating again or just stay single for now. (link)
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well if she wants to be single then she should stay single, but if she finds a guy that she really likes then she could start dating...but she shouldnt be in a hurry to start dating...she has a lot of time ahead of her
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Me and this guy dated for like a year, we're still friends and still likes him. Well, since he's a year older than me he went to high school first, and my friend had some of his clases or something and now they like eachother. I'm really hurt but I don't want to lose him as a friend. What do I do? (link)
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well i kno this has gotta be hard for u and im soo sry! but u gotta respect that this guy loves sum1 and u cant really tell him who to love but u should keep being friends with him and support him thru everything and one day maybe ull be together!
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