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HALLA!!!!!!!!my name is KARA and im from TEXAS!!!!!!(((down south we do it right)))i play soccer ((and kick ass doin it)) i am like most girls and loooove shopping and hangin out with friends and also i am a hotguyaholic ((cant get enough of hot guys)) so ask me any thing!!!!!

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(13 year old girl) ok well i like this guy a lot .. my two best friends both went out with him like 6 months to a year ago (but he was more serious with one of my friendsz than the other) anywaysz i want to tell him i like him but i cant ... cuz he's kind of ugly and lacksz common sense lol and well i dont think he likes me .. well mayb only as a friend but thats all .. so how do you think i can find out if he likes me ?

p.s - no one knowsz i like him .. not even my friendsz ..

thankszz! =] (link)
get one of your friends to talk to him about you and see what he says...

good luck


I really need some advice :(.... I'm trying so hard to get over my X boyfriend that i had for 9 months, and he was my first love but every1 says i need to move on. So i have a new boyfriend but i don't know if i can give my heart to my new boyfriend because im still stuck on my X... but it doesnt work out with him so its so hard!! ... please help :`( (link)
i know it is hard to get over someone...but to get over some one you have to take the next step and you did by getting a bf...you dont have to give your heart ot him yet you can wait and get to know him good then with time it will just naturally come

good luck


i love this one guy and i want him so bad but then he treats me like crap? how do i get over him? what do i do!!
Helpppp!! (link)
yeha i know what you mean like you like a guy but he is a jackass....i find that to truly get over him you have to like some one else...i suggest you go out with you best friends and you look at hot guys and for get all about him...and if that doesnt work then just wait it out i mean soon you will get over him and another boy will come into your life...

good luck


i have been with this guy for almost 8 months and he still doesnt trust me. i am going to collge next year and everytime we talk about it we get into fights. he thinks that im going to cheat on him or we will never see each other. but there is also this guy who has been my friend forever and i have alwayz watned to be with him.. now i have a chance to be.i really love him and he really loves me we have alwayz just had bad timing with each other. should i break upwith my bf and be with the other guy or what. my bf andi fight constantly and i dont ever do anything cuz he gets mad. he doesnt ever want my friends around and when they are the talks crap where they can hear

plz help
confused (link)
all i can say is follow your heart... i had a guy who liked me at all the wrong timesand i liked him at all the wrong times and i had a boyfriend that i thought was ok but i really wanted to be with him and he liked me...i never broke up with my bf and i look back now and wish i would have went with the friend...hope it works out

good luck


Alright i have been hanging around this guy 2 years older than me for about a month.. my friend totally hates him for many reasons , and my friends mother works with students that are in the same class as this guy . they tell my friends mother that he is on drugs and that he drinks alllll the time at partys and stuff.. but when he is around me is a whole new person.. i realized that i dont want to get a bad rep by hanging out with him so how should i tell him that we shouldnt hang out ne more..( plus : he fingered me , and im afraid he will like go tell everyone shit about me =/ ) .. but yah how should i tell him that i dont wanna hang out ne more?? THANKS (link)
i find the easiest way to do this is to stop hanging out with him less and less...like just start making excuses y you dont cant hang with him like i already have plans soo he will get the clue and hopefully leave on his own or you can just day you dont have fellings for him any more or you can tell him the truth and say i dont want to hang out with you any more because i dont want a bad rep...choose whatever fits u best

good luck


I am a 17 year old female and my exboyfriend is 16years old. My ex-boyfriend which is the 2nd guy I ever dated is my first love and he told me that I am his first love. Ever time we see each other we end up making-out even if one of us has a boyfriend or girlfriend. He also like to irritate me alot and he like to play a lot of stupid little games and its annoying. I tell myself that I'm over him but every time I see him I fall in love with him again. What can/should I do????????? (link)
well you obviously still like him and he still likes you from what you said so try to bring it up with him when yall get to gether and he plays those "games" bt like why do u have to do that or something along those lines maybe it is his way of flirting with you...just dont be a bitch about it ((it can happen real easy when you mad trust me lol))and dont be afraid to play some games on him...hope it works out

good luck


aight well im going out with this guy who is great. but i hooked up with one of my best guy friends last night and i made out with him accidentally. i dunno what to do. should i tell my boyfriend what happened??? (link)
what do you mean by accidentally...if you do tell your boyfriend you better have a better story than you accidentally did...you probabaly need to tell him just lay it on him easy and make it sound like maing out with him is soo much better and let him no how sorry you are

good luck


OK me and my 10 year old sister want to meet this actor named Jacob smith, But we dont know how and we live in minnesota and it is realy hard to meet an actor when you live in Minnesota.....How can I meet an actor that is prolly far away from minnesota?? (link)
get tickets to a show he is goin to be on ((if you can find one)) also always keep your eyes open at airports cause lots of stars are there goin places and good luck


wow, a rough month. This month i went to many different partys. All of 'em either had a camp fire or movie on a couch. The problem is....everyone their had sum1 to hold onto and kiss and snuggle with except for me. WEll, right now, i like this one guy...but i don't kno how to show him i care about him. Everyone at school knows me as the girl who always says no, every guy that asks me out i said no bc/ i didn't like 'em at the time. Now, i rele like this guy but i don't kno how to make him want me. So, all boys who are 13-14, wut turns u on in a girl? (link)
i need help on this too i like a guy but i dont no what to do to make him like me and i see all my friends with their some ones and i am like I HATE BEING SINGLE good luck to you and your guy and wish me luck with mine

feel your pain


hey i went out wit this kid tom and we went out for almost 2 months and i really liked him but i broke up wit him twice and we havent gne out since n now wen i think about it i didnt realy like him like that i didnt even make out wit him it felt wrong because i saw him making out wit my friends for no reason before at parties bu that was before we went out and anyways i went out wit this kid matt after him for 3 weeks and i really eally like him like i think it might even be love i cant stop thinking about him i broke up wit him though because i had no time to see him and he understands and we still hang out and he messages me on his phone calls me flirts wit me in school anything u kno i never seen him wit a girl an maybe thats why i htink mor of him i dunno i need ur help i didnt make out wit him yet either well our tongues touched but it was for a sec he was wasted so i didnt want to do anything so help me if u can thanks i rate really good but i wanna know do i feel this way about him cause i didnt se him wit a girl b4 or becuase i really like him and should i make a move on him and if yes then wat???

thanks for reading i rate good xoxo toodles (link)
i think you two should go on a date...kinda like a test date and see how it goes like if you still really dig him or if you are like ughh after the date and if it goes well u hang out again but if the date sucks then you leave...talk to him about it and see if he understands

good luck


hey im asking this question for my friend val

my friend n her bf have been together for a year and 4 months and she lost her virginity to him wen they were together for 8 months and he lost his to her and they just broke up a month ago and he makes out wit other girls in front of her and makes her feel stupid he tells everyone hes a pimp and that he can play anyone so he went out wit like 4 girls aleady my friend still isnt over him because she loves him and loved him or atleast she thoguht she did shes a junior and hes a sophomore shes going out wit this other kid for 2 weeks already but i think shes wit him to make her ex jealous im not sure because she said hes just ok looking and he has an ok personality so i dont think she really likes him i dont feel sorry for her ex tho but people say she used her ex wen they werre goin out beause hes rich but i think it was love well anyways i dont have anything else to tel her and ifeel bad for her that she has to face him everyday if u have any advice please write back i rate good thanx toodles (link)
this is a sticky problem...i mean from reading this it just makes me mad...i would try to get my friend out of the house dating other people and just hanging out with eachother and if she keeps feeling sad about the topic then get her a big bowl of ice cream...hope this will pass over

good luck




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