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how long does it take for the pill to actually work? bcus i want to have sex but i dont kno how lonq it takes ferit to werk. i took it for about 3-4 weeks now. (link)
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it should work by now i thinK?
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me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time now. And he just wants to be friends now(were still together right now). But we both admitted that if we were friends we wouldnt go out with anybody else for a long time. Also we know that if we're friends that were going to end up doing friends with benefits. But i no that either way were gonna end up getting back together if we do stuff. I don't know what to do. Should we become friends or try to work things out. I mean things are fine right now . But what do you think? (link)
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if u think that ull get back together when ur friends, just take a break and be friends for now if it makes him happy. but if its not like a serious problem ur having, stay together and try to work it out, if things dont work out, u can still always be friends!!
xOx* kandiie
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Ok im a 14 year old gurl - im 1/4 mexican n 3/4 white. im in love with this guy who is 16 and black but my parents arent really into me dating a black guy and i told him that i cant jus open up to my parents n tell them(im not close with my parents at all), he accepts that but since we've been together for almost 6 months i feel like i should tell my parents even tho i know they will be extremely upset wit my decision.right now im just really confused and im not really sure wat i should do even tho ppl r constantly telling me to tell my parents.its just not that easy!! (link)
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if u feel that its right to tell ur parents.. go for it. n if they are upset about it, just tell them how u feel about him and tell them that nothing can change the way u feel. just do what ur heart tells you to..i'm sure things will work out.
drop one in anytime!
xOx*kandiie
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aight im 14 and i met this guy thats 16 and we were totally into eachother but i was at my cousins house who lives 2 hours away so its kinda like a long distance thing but i do go back to that area like once a month cuz i got other family that lives there and also he drives and has 2 cars so he said he was gana come visit me... we called eachother everyday for like 2 weeks but now it seems like he doesnt wanna talk to me... should i just forget about him or try harder?? i really like him but i just donno what to do :-( (link)
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next time u talk to him ask him how he really feels. and has he visited u yet? if he hasnt bring it uo in ur conversation n be like.. 'so when are we gonna see each other again?' and see what his reaction is.. if u do that.. write me back n tell me what happens!
xOx * Kandiie
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Im a 14 yr. old and ive liked this gurl 4 like 5 months now and ive wanted 2 ask her out every day ive liked her but i jus dont have enough courage 2 ask her. Ive tried to tell her how i fell several times but she thinks im joking. What should i do? (link)
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tell her to listen to u and take u seriously. then tell her how u feel about her and jz ask her out then.
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hey, i'm a 14 yr old girl, and my question is about this guy that i like. he told one of my friends that he likes me too. and i went to a party, about a week ago, and he was there, and we would talk, and laugh, and i noticed him looking at me whenever he would make a joke. and then i talked to him the next day and he said that he thought i looked pretty. but now he has a girlfriend, and i don't know what to do. i feel like he was just leading me on, and it hurt me. but i still like him a lot. so, what do you think? (link)
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tell him how u feel.. tell him that he hurt u because of what he did and maybe he does like u he just didnt want u to know?
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hey, i'm 14 and i'm a girl, and there's this guy i like, and he told a friend of mine he liked me too. and i went to a party about a week ago, and he was there... and we talked and laughed... and it was fun. then next day he told me that he thought i looked pretty... but now he's going out with someone else. and i really like him... and i don't know what to do. i feel heartbroken, and i feel like he was just leading me on... what do u think? (link)
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he might have just been leading you on b/c guys do that all the time. maybe u should tell him how u feel about it so he can understand better
xOx* kandiie
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is it bad to lose ur virginity really younge? with a boyfriend u been going out with for like 5 months? what if i get pregnet? what if i get a deiasse? what if the condom broke? what if someone heard me? dose it soppose to hurt the first time? is it ok if i do it again and again? is it alright if i do it outside? what if something got in me? do u bleed? (link)
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no its not bad.. and since i know who wrote this.. if u get pregnet ill help u and if u get a disease ill take care of u n if the condom breaks pray u dont have a kid.. if someone heard u.. laugh at them! yea its suppose to hurt the first time and yea do it as many tiems as u awnt.. i dont care! LOL and outside is fine.. jz warn people like ur friends not to ever go in those spots.. hah and if something got in u.. go to the doctor!! n yea u bleed sometimes..
lol ur soo funny.. i cant say the name of who wrote it.. but i
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candace is a sexy beast (link)
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ok thanx
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ok theres this boy who lykes me but has a girlfriend. . . . . ? yeah lmfao i really lyke him too but yeah i dont wanna lyke slipt them up soo what nowwwwwww? (link)
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just split them up if he likes u and u like him go for it
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ok.... i met this guy in a diff state n now we talk all the time n he ses im a diff from all the gurls n ther is no 1 like me how do i kno if hes 4 real or if hes jz sayin all this shit so he knoz 4 sure hes gettin sum next year... (link)
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maybe he does think ur cool but it kinda sounds like hes just trynna get down ur pants.. maybe im wrong tho
xOx* kandiie
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My boyfriend has been smoking pot for a few years now.. and we just hooked up a lil over a month ago. I have already talked to him about it.. and he lied to me and said he quit. Then one night I was with him and he was hittin pot again.
Is there any way I can talk to him or convince him to quit or even lay off of it a lil bit without him getting mad at me? (link)
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if he is really addicted he might get mad if u talk to him about it.. i had a friend who smoked all the time b/c he was unhappy but i talked to him about it and i told him how much i cared about him and that if he keeps smoking he has higher chances of dying young.. and he quit. tell your boyfriend ur worried about him and that u dont want anything happeneing to him since u care about him. good luck!!
xOx * kandiie
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hey everyone, I am 15 and I need some advice...my boyfriend of 9 months is leavin and movin to Oregon in a few weeks. I live in Florida and I wanna try to do the whole long distance thingy but I dont think that he wants to. I love him soooo much and want to be with him. Does it really work? Should couples that are in love try it? Please Help ME!!! xo0x ~manda [ aka confused]~ (link)
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maybe u should try talking to him about the long distance thing and get his input on it. if he wants to then go for it! n yes it does really work with some couples. you just have to trust each other enough to stay faithful. who knows.. maybe u guys can visit each other!
xOx* kandiie
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ok, im a 12 year old girk and ive neva officially gone out with some1. well, this nice guy, whoz a grade older than me asked me out. well, i had known him 4 awhile and i thot he seemed like a great guy. well, i said yes, partly becauz i just wanted a boyfriend. now im not sure if i shud continue goin out with him. i mean, and i goin out with him 4 the wrong reasons. i just dont no. i think i shud continue goin out with him but wont other people in my grade think im weird if im goin out with an 8th grader? well, i dunno if i shud break up with him or just give it a try.... HELP!!! he also always acts shy around me, i try 2 get him 2 loosen up but he still acts weird. THANZ I RATE!!! *****:) (link)
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If you have feelings for this boy then you should continue going out with him. Just because he is a grade higher doesn't mean anything. If people make comments to you of your boyfriend because of your age difference they are probably just jealous. If you don't have feeling for this guy, and you are just going out with him to have a boyfriend, I think you should break up, or at least give him a try and get to know him . Let him know that you are there for him, and maybe he won't act so shy. I hope I helped you!
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